Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum » More General Categories » Relationships and Relationships Help » It frustrates me that almost everyone is in a relationship but I'm not.
  1. Results 1 to 14 of 14
  2. Page 1 of 1

Thread: It frustrates me that almost everyone is in a relationship but I'm not.

post 1675079303 01-16-2023, 10:51 PM
-
#1
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2023
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 8
  6. Rep Power: 0

It frustrates me that almost everyone is in a relationship but I'm not.

It frustrates me that almost everyone is in a relationship but I'm not.
post 1675267633 01-18-2023, 09:57 AM
-
#2
  1. otakutrevan
  2. Registered User
  1. otakutrevan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2008
  4. Posts: 20,527
  5. Subscribers: 1
  6. Rep Power: 36219
Age:
Stats:
Race/Ethnicity:
Personality Type (keep it 100 G):
Gf or Slay Total :

You have two options op.

Take a hard look in the mirror with the cards you were dealt, and then figure out everything you can change. Or seethe/cope.

Trust me king/queen/viceroy I've been here.
post 1675318063 01-18-2023, 07:14 PM
-
#3
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2023
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 8
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Age:
Stats:
Race/Ethnicity:
Personality Type (keep it 100 G):
Gf or Slay Total :

You have two options op.

Take a hard look in the mirror with the cards you were dealt, and then figure out everything you can change. Or seethe/cope.

Trust me king/queen/viceroy I've been here.
If everyone is in a relationship or married then it shouldn't be my looks.
post 1675321883 01-18-2023, 08:12 PM
-
#4
  1. SimpSlayer
  2. Banned
  1. SimpSlayer
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Dec 2022
  4. Posts: 199
  5. Rep Power: 0
Most men's wives are at least ugly, boring, autistic, sloots, high maitenance, or a combination. No reason to be jealous of the average relationship.
post 1675324133 01-18-2023, 08:46 PM
-
#5
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2023
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 8
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By SimpSlayer⏩
Most men's wives are at least ugly, boring, autistic, sloots, high maitenance, or a combination. No reason to be jealous of the average relationship.
How do you know if I'm jealous or not?
post 1675325773 01-18-2023, 09:23 PM
-
#6
  1. xbluexhawkx
  2. Registered User
  1. xbluexhawkx
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2016
  4. Posts: 19,553
  5. Rep Power: 97479
Just because people are in a relationship doesn't mean they're happy, most are actually miserable

Or dating an absolute slob
Balanced Test Crew
post 1675326943 01-18-2023, 09:51 PM
-
#7
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  1. Iloveetoo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2023
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 8
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
Just because people are in a relationship doesn't mean they're happy, most are actually miserable

Or dating an absolute slob
But I still want to be in one.
post 1675345433 01-19-2023, 07:42 AM
-
#8
  1. otakutrevan
  2. Registered User
  1. otakutrevan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2008
  4. Posts: 20,527
  5. Subscribers: 1
  6. Rep Power: 36219
Originally Posted By Iloveetoo⏩
If everyone is in a relationship or married then it shouldn't be my looks.
That doesnt even make any sense. If you arent a troll either listen to people that have been where you are and gotten SUCCESS

or sit around like "yeah it isnt me". Mf it is you. Even if you arent doing anything wrong. Your physical traits are you. And then everything else ? Thats YOU TOO, but it can be changed.

so either keep doing what you're doing, or....whatever
post 1675373843 01-19-2023, 03:40 PM
-
#9
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2014
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 6,718
  7. Rep Power: 27255
Originally Posted By Iloveetoo⏩
But I still want to be in one.
Therein lies the problem.

Your desperation is a turnoff.

Women don't want to be in a relationship with a man who will be in a relationship with anyone. They want opt be in a relationship with a man who has options but chose them.
post 1675479813 01-21-2023, 04:23 AM
-
#10
  1. Eggiesinabasket
  2. With a side of silly
  1. Eggiesinabasket
  2. With a side of silly
  3. Join Date: Sep 2013
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Posts: 2,602
  6. Rep Power: 91590
Originally Posted By Iloveetoo⏩
But I still want to be in one.
Why would you want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship?

You know how chitty most people are? Rushing into a relationship with just anyone is a risk--more likely than not it will result in you staying staus quo or off for the worse.

Getting to a relationship is easy. But finding the right one to to be in a relationship together is hard.

If your goal is just a relationship, you're not going to filter partners well.
Go Jets Go
Lurk Alert: If you've seen me post once, I've watched your posts 20 times more
Final Form Goal: 2 Door Fridge Mode
All paths set, final destination: Entropy
post 1675663823 01-23-2023, 03:17 PM
-
#11
  1. S0LID
  2. Weapon of Mass Seduction
  1. S0LID
  2. Weapon of Mass Seduction
  3. Join Date: Sep 2003
  4. Location: WALES
  5. Age: 41
  6. Posts: 3,044
  7. Rep Power: 2742
I don't understand what you're asking? I don't understand what is stopping you from getting in a relationship?

If the goal is to get a girlfriend, I'm sure a personal trainer, vocal coach, stylist and photographer, mixed with dating apps could easily help you to achieve that goal.
++ Positive Crew ++

My mamma said to get things done, you better not mess with Major Tom.
post 1675698063 01-24-2023, 01:53 AM
-
#12
  1. Flappy4
  2. Registered User
  1. Flappy4
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 93
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Iloveetoo⏩
It frustrates me that almost everyone is in a relationship but I'm not.
Need more info. What are you doing to try to find dates? What's working and what's not?
post 1675723063 01-24-2023, 10:46 AM
-
#13
  1. jmal2000
  2. Short for a Manmore
  1. jmal2000
  2. Short for a Manmore
  3. Join Date: Mar 2009
  4. Location: Arizona, United States
  5. Age: 39
  6. Posts: 9,658
  7. Rep Power: 55128
Most of your friends prob couldn't survive being solo. Focus on inner happiness, no one else is going to give that to you. If you feel the need to be in a relationship to be happy, you are just fcking yourself over.
You are your thoughts. Life is perception, thoughts are perception, perception is reality ergo thoughts are reality, I think therefore I am.
08/08/2011. the day the aesthetics died. never forget.
(づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ・。*。✧・゜゜・。 ✧。*・゜
░▒▓█ Read my paper █▓▒░
https://www.reddit.com/r/SchoolOfShadows/comments/1awjjjb/paper_on_life_life_is_addition_theory_v15/
post 1675876733 01-26-2023, 11:42 AM
-
#14
  1. sooby
  2. WOATbrah of peace :)
  1. sooby
  2. WOATbrah of peace :)
  3. Join Date: Feb 2015
  4. Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
  5. Posts: 43,319
  6. Rep Power: 219409
think of it this way

half of people aren't in a relationship
half of people in a relationship have alot of problems and are miserable


so that's 25% of people in a good relationship, now take half of that for the relationships that are happy and lasting


point is don't be in a rush and don't be desperate.
positivity brah crew
dont take my posts too srs crew srs
JFL @ everything crew
lol @ tradies srs crew
BIG LOL @ sky tradies srs crew (RealAesthetic)
indian crew
living in clown world crew so screw it crew
anti-degen crew
Quick Navigation Top Misc
« Previous Thread | Next Thread »
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts