I honestly feel at a lost point in my life. I am 23, and I have always been a relationship kind of person. I can not do one night stands or just randomly fuark someone and say bye, or even a FWB, because I will have caught feelings before we even had sex. I am using Tinder, and whenever I have a date and everything goes well, even when we keep talking after the date through text, even as far as they a lot of the time initiate the texts after our date, they still end up going on dates with other guys and it just hurts so much.

I have never talked to more than one person at a time, and it may sound stupid, but even something as casual as a first date, whether it be lunch or anything, if afterwards we choose a time for a second date, and then thats set, then I will text them a day after or so, just casually asking what they are doing, and they are telling me they are meeting up with someone else.

I feel like I am stuck in a situation where I catch feelings from just one night stands, fwb, first dates, so there is basically no way around it. I realize that it would sound ****ing stupid to even mention the fact "You don't see other people right?" after the first date, since again, it's a first date, but fuark.

I don't have high standards at all when it comes to women, but I feel like I will never encounter a woman who isn't dating plenty of people at the same time, due to the amount of attention they receive nowadays with Tinder and so on.

I recently started lifting also, so maybe that will be able to take my mind of things. I guess this thread is not really a question or an ask for help, more so of a rant.

Blog it.

Maybe i will do that

Just keep trying and eventually you might come across the right one. You must at least be interesting and desirable for them to exclusive choose you. Hopefully you got that going or are aiming high.

Read this book OP:

You *******s look for love and validation from a Woman lol women are incapable of love and monogamy yet you blue pill betas are still in search of it because you're too scared of being alone chit is sickening.