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Falling for a girl, but not sure if her (sexual) past is ‘decent/good’ ?
So I’m falling in love with this girl, but I’m not sure whether I can accept her sexual history and I’d rather stop before getting more involved if it is indeed something to worry about. Of course this will be highly personal, some don’t care if she’s a pornstar and others want a virgin, so just let me know what you miscers think.
She is 25 and has:
- Had penetrative sex with 2 people.
- Oral sex with 8 people, including a 32 year old when she was 23 (she wanted something casual with the 32 year old, and he didn’t, so it ended then).
- The last guy she had sex with was a FWB.
... and as a side note, she has guy friends and even some she is fairly close with (however, they never hang out 1 on 1).
I’m not worried about her cheating, but I do not want to treat a woman as my girlfriend and therefore potential wife/mother of my children, if her past is considered to be whore-ish or slutty... But i also think I might be judging her unfairly hard, so I need more peoples perspective.
How would you feel about a girl with the above mentioned past?
She is 25 and has:
- Had penetrative sex with 2 people.
- Oral sex with 8 people, including a 32 year old when she was 23 (she wanted something casual with the 32 year old, and he didn’t, so it ended then).
- The last guy she had sex with was a FWB.
... and as a side note, she has guy friends and even some she is fairly close with (however, they never hang out 1 on 1).
I’m not worried about her cheating, but I do not want to treat a woman as my girlfriend and therefore potential wife/mother of my children, if her past is considered to be whore-ish or slutty... But i also think I might be judging her unfairly hard, so I need more peoples perspective.
How would you feel about a girl with the above mentioned past?
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08-24-2020, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
Are you trolling?So I’m falling in love with this girl, but I’m not sure whether I can accept her sexual history and I’d rather stop before getting more involved if it is indeed something to worry about. Of course this will be highly personal, some don’t care if she’s a pornstar and others want a virgin, so just let me know what you miscers think.
She is 25 and has:
- Had penetrative sex with 2 people.
- Oral sex with 8 people, including a 32 year old when she was 23 (she wanted something casual with the 32 year old, and he didn’t, so it ended then).
- The last guy she had sex with was a FWB.
... and as a side note, she has guy friends and even some she is fairly close with (however, they never hang out 1 on 1).
I’m not worried about her cheating, but I do not want to treat a woman as my girlfriend and therefore potential wife/mother of my children, if her past is considered to be whore-ish or slutty... But i also think I might be judging her unfairly hard, so I need more peoples perspective.
How would you feel about a girl with the above mentioned past?
She is 25 and has:
- Had penetrative sex with 2 people.
- Oral sex with 8 people, including a 32 year old when she was 23 (she wanted something casual with the 32 year old, and he didn’t, so it ended then).
- The last guy she had sex with was a FWB.
... and as a side note, she has guy friends and even some she is fairly close with (however, they never hang out 1 on 1).
I’m not worried about her cheating, but I do not want to treat a woman as my girlfriend and therefore potential wife/mother of my children, if her past is considered to be whore-ish or slutty... But i also think I might be judging her unfairly hard, so I need more peoples perspective.
How would you feel about a girl with the above mentioned past?
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Originally Posted By Bonesbrahh⏩
No I’m not trolling (srs).Are you trolling?
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OP yet again ignores a logical and useful answer. Strong attention seeking.
08-24-2020, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By NosyJossie⏩
I want your opinion, not some guy on YouTube trying to sell chit through his website, so I didn’t watch it.OP yet again ignores a logical and useful answer. Strong attention seeking.
Also if he believes that a girls sexual past is none of anyones business then it’s not “logical”.
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08-24-2020, 11:48 AM
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I think it's a problem you need to know all this and can't make a judgement of her character based on how you've gotten to know her thus far.
08-24-2020, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
this tbh. chances are every girl you meet OP will be more slutty than you think - it's her job to essentially make you believe she is angelic as possible, just part of the female facade.I think it's a problem you need to know all this and can't make a judgement of her character based on how you've gotten to know her thus far.
however you managed to obtain this data, and im assuming she told you, I can almost guarantee you it is 'worse' than this.
If it does by some miracle happen to be accurate, only having fukked 2 guys at age 25 is pretty damn incredible. As much as sucking 8 cocks sounds like a lot, women don't take anything less than full on sex seriously. so this will always be relatively high
If she seems sane, i'd be tempted to keep seeing her srs
All this said, you can tell when you're smashing about how experienced she is. People only get good as sex by doing it. Similarly if shes blowing you like a pro she's done it a lot.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
This is a good conversation to have with her.... so she can decide how she wants to treat you for being an insecure, judgmental, and immature potential husband / father.I’m not worried about her cheating, but I do not want to treat a woman as my girlfriend and therefore potential wife/mother of my children, if her past is considered to be whore-ish or slutty...
By all means, judge her unfairly for a very private and part of her past, then please let us know how well it works out with her being honest with you in the future.
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Originally Posted By akmerle⏩
you're either a woman or a cuck. no offenceThis is a good conversation to have with her.... so she can decide how she wants to treat you for being an insecure, judgmental, and immature potential husband / father.
By all means, judge her unfairly for a very private and part of her past, then please let us know how well it works out with her being honest with you in the future.
By all means, judge her unfairly for a very private and part of her past, then please let us know how well it works out with her being honest with you in the future.
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08-24-2020, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
If her character was at all an issue, I wouldn’t be dating her in the first place. Her character is great.this tbh. chances are every girl you meet OP will be more slutty than you think - it's her job to essentially make you believe she is angelic as possible, just part of the female facade.
however you managed to obtain this data, and im assuming she told you, I can almost guarantee you it is 'worse' than this.
If it does by some miracle happen to be accurate, only having fukked 2 guys at age 25 is pretty damn incredible. As much as sucking 8 cocks sounds like a lot, women don't take anything less than full on sex seriously. so this will always be relatively high
If she seems sane, i'd be tempted to keep seeing her srs
All this said, you can tell when you're smashing about how experienced she is. People only get good as sex by doing it. Similarly if shes blowing you like a pro she's done it a lot.
however you managed to obtain this data, and im assuming she told you, I can almost guarantee you it is 'worse' than this.
If it does by some miracle happen to be accurate, only having fukked 2 guys at age 25 is pretty damn incredible. As much as sucking 8 cocks sounds like a lot, women don't take anything less than full on sex seriously. so this will always be relatively high
If she seems sane, i'd be tempted to keep seeing her srs
All this said, you can tell when you're smashing about how experienced she is. People only get good as sex by doing it. Similarly if shes blowing you like a pro she's done it a lot.
How it goes is always girls asking me and me asking them back.
I would also personally rather know than pretend like she doesn’t have a past and that it doesn’t matter.
I’m 100% sure she is honest... but yeah exactly, having oral sex with 8 people seems like a lot to me... and yeah I can obviously tell she’s experienced in oral, but at least there is a benefit to that.
It’s more the principle of not wanting to be with someone who people see as ‘easy’ or whatever you wanna call it. For instance if I was guarateed she would never cheat etc., but had slept with 80 men I wouldn’t be with her.
I don’t think it’s unfair to judge people on their past voluntary actions.
I’ve only seriously dated or had girlfriends who had sex with less than 5 people, including oral sex, srs. Maybe I have been “lucky” in this regard, and from what I can read none of you think her numbers are problematic in any sense, so moving forward with her seems like the right choice.
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08-24-2020, 02:22 PM
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Unless you marry a religious virgin chances are any woman you meet is going to have a kill count. Women like sex just as much as us so its not crazy to hear a woman say she had a few guys.
From the looks you are one of those guys whos going to have an issue even if she only had one partner.
From the looks you are one of those guys whos going to have an issue even if she only had one partner.
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At that age she is pretty much a Virgin in this year of the Clown
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Originally Posted By Beararms⏩
Nope, actually I prefer if they have been others before me.Unless you marry a religious virgin chances are any woman you meet is going to have a kill count. Women like sex just as much as us so its not crazy to hear a woman say she had a few guys.
From the looks you are one of those guys whos going to have an issue even if she only had one partner.
From the looks you are one of those guys whos going to have an issue even if she only had one partner.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
you're right in that you should judge people for their actions (if those things matter to you). live life on your own terms.If her character was at all an issue, I wouldn’t be dating her in the first place. Her character is great.
How it goes is always girls asking me and me asking them back.
I would also personally rather know than pretend like she doesn’t have a past and that it doesn’t matter.
I’m 100% sure she is honest... but yeah exactly, having oral sex with 8 people seems like a lot to me... and yeah I can obviously tell she’s experienced in oral, but at least there is a benefit to that.
It’s more the principle of not wanting to be with someone who people see as ‘easy’ or whatever you wanna call it. For instance if I was guarateed she would never cheat etc., but had slept with 80 men I wouldn’t be with her.
I don’t think it’s unfair to judge people on their past voluntary actions.
I’ve only seriously dated or had girlfriends who had sex with less than 5 people, including oral sex, srs. Maybe I have been “lucky” in this regard, and from what I can read none of you think her numbers are problematic in any sense, so moving forward with her seems like the right choice.
How it goes is always girls asking me and me asking them back.
I would also personally rather know than pretend like she doesn’t have a past and that it doesn’t matter.
I’m 100% sure she is honest... but yeah exactly, having oral sex with 8 people seems like a lot to me... and yeah I can obviously tell she’s experienced in oral, but at least there is a benefit to that.
It’s more the principle of not wanting to be with someone who people see as ‘easy’ or whatever you wanna call it. For instance if I was guarateed she would never cheat etc., but had slept with 80 men I wouldn’t be with her.
I don’t think it’s unfair to judge people on their past voluntary actions.
I’ve only seriously dated or had girlfriends who had sex with less than 5 people, including oral sex, srs. Maybe I have been “lucky” in this regard, and from what I can read none of you think her numbers are problematic in any sense, so moving forward with her seems like the right choice.
that said, its 2020, and girls sleep with a lot of guys these days. it isn't a big deal any more like it was 40 years ago, for the majority of women.
i still think she is lying to you, because all women lie (especially about this) and it's a statistical improbability that you've found a special snowflake (and also an impossibility, because they don't exist). So you can certainly assume her number is higher than 2.
with that said, even if it would be 5 - which sounds much more believable, 5 guys at 25yrs old is pretty good going. Most girls have 3x that
if you get on with her, you may as well keep seeing her but don't be so quick to take people at their word. People lie and manipulate for their own gain all the time, men included.
Do you really think she'd be honest with you about a subject she KNOWS you'd be judging her on? think about it
I once asked a girl whom i banged on the first date if she was seeing other guys apart from me (this was after i smashed her the 2nd time, at my place) - and she says no.
I knew she was (because im not an idiot) and i just wanted to check if she was prepared to own it or lie to my face. I said ok and never saw her again. Lols were had when she asked me the same and i bluntly reply 'yes'.
I met her through work, but I later found out she was on tinder, as i was swiping.
go figure
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
I know she’s 100% honest. She had no idea how I would react, and I’m sure she even assumed that I wouldn’t care at all. She even seemed surprised that I was kinda like “hmpf” when she said 8.you're right in that you should judge people for their actions (if those things matter to you). live life on your own terms.
that said, its 2020, and girls sleep with a lot of guys these days. it isn't a big deal any more like it was 40 years ago, for the majority of women.
i still think she is lying to you, because all women lie (especially about this) and it's a statistical improbability that you've found a special snowflake (and also an impossibility, because they don't exist). So you can certainly assume her number is higher than 2.
with that said, even if it would be 5 - which sounds much more believable, 5 guys at 25yrs old is pretty good going. Most girls have 3x that
if you get on with her, you may as well keep seeing her but don't be so quick to take people at their word. People lie and manipulate for their own gain all the time, men included.
Do you really think she'd be honest with you about a subject she KNOWS you'd be judging her on? think about it
that said, its 2020, and girls sleep with a lot of guys these days. it isn't a big deal any more like it was 40 years ago, for the majority of women.
i still think she is lying to you, because all women lie (especially about this) and it's a statistical improbability that you've found a special snowflake (and also an impossibility, because they don't exist). So you can certainly assume her number is higher than 2.
with that said, even if it would be 5 - which sounds much more believable, 5 guys at 25yrs old is pretty good going. Most girls have 3x that
if you get on with her, you may as well keep seeing her but don't be so quick to take people at their word. People lie and manipulate for their own gain all the time, men included.
Do you really think she'd be honest with you about a subject she KNOWS you'd be judging her on? think about it
Obviously I know she could be lying, but the possibility is almost 0. I can usually tell when girls bullchit, and I’ve been with girls who’ve said a much higher number than 2 and they would clearly still lying.
Sometimes I feel like people talk as if there is no choices. I can get with many girls, so the one I’m deciding to possibly spend my life with is a big decision for me. I don’t care what many girls do, I care what the girls I decide to spend my time with do.
People judge on all sorts of things indeed and I agree people should judge on what matter to them.
I’m surprised you think she’s a “snowflake”, haha.
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I’ve been talking with her for a “long” time. We’re really into each other and yeah, the way we have talked, knowing what I know about her, there’s no wat se slept with more than 2 people.
She’s 100% not the type who would **** on the first date. Obviously girls like that I can’t take serious and expect them to lie. I wouldn’t even care if someone I banged on the first date was seeing other people - I would expect it.
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08-25-2020, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
Dude you're 100% ok to be judgmental because it is an important aspect to judge a girl on.I know she’s 100% honest. She had no idea how I would react, and I’m sure she even assumed that I wouldn’t care at all. She even seemed surprised that I was kinda like “hmpf” when she said 8.
Obviously I know she could be lying, but the possibility is almost 0. I can usually tell when girls bullchit, and I’ve been with girls who’ve said a much higher number than 2 and they would clearly still lying.
Sometimes I feel like people talk as if there is no choices. I can get with many girls, so the one I’m deciding to possibly spend my life with is a big decision for me. I don’t care what many girls do, I care what the girls I decide to spend my time with do.
People judge on all sorts of things indeed and I agree people should judge on what matter to them.
I’m surprised you think she’s a “snowflake”, haha.
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I’ve been talking with her for a “long” time. We’re really into each other and yeah, the way we have talked, knowing what I know about her, there’s no wat se slept with more than 2 people.
She’s 100% not the type who would **** on the first date. Obviously girls like that I can’t take serious and expect them to lie. I wouldn’t even care if someone I banged on the first date was seeing other people - I would expect it.
Obviously I know she could be lying, but the possibility is almost 0. I can usually tell when girls bullchit, and I’ve been with girls who’ve said a much higher number than 2 and they would clearly still lying.
Sometimes I feel like people talk as if there is no choices. I can get with many girls, so the one I’m deciding to possibly spend my life with is a big decision for me. I don’t care what many girls do, I care what the girls I decide to spend my time with do.
People judge on all sorts of things indeed and I agree people should judge on what matter to them.
I’m surprised you think she’s a “snowflake”, haha.
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I’ve been talking with her for a “long” time. We’re really into each other and yeah, the way we have talked, knowing what I know about her, there’s no wat se slept with more than 2 people.
She’s 100% not the type who would **** on the first date. Obviously girls like that I can’t take serious and expect them to lie. I wouldn’t even care if someone I banged on the first date was seeing other people - I would expect it.
Every girl has a past no doubt but i have little to no doubt in my mind that a girl who has slept with a tonne of guys and has done many sexually extreme things usually go hand in hand with mental issues that will ruin the relationship (e.g. Daddy issues, insecurity/self esteem, BDP etc)
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Naw man, just not alarmed by a mid 20’s gal with a kill count of phuking 2. Super shocked by at actually.you're either a woman or a cuck. no offence
Question for the OP..... what is your kill count btw?
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It's likely a lie. Women are excellent at lying about this and I just LOL@men who fall for it.Naw man, just not alarmed by a mid 20’s gal with a kill count of phuking 2. Super shocked by at actually.
Question for the OP..... what is your kill count btw?
Question for the OP..... what is your kill count btw?
Banged 2 dudes but blew 8? Nah brah.
She banged all 10, probably 20 tbh.
Ask yourself this, how many woman have blown you but not banged? I have quite a high kill count(I'm old), and the answer is zero for me.
OP: Do yourself a favor, accept her past or move on. If you cannot accept and bury it, then you're doing yourself a disservice by sticking around.
For me personally, I would never have a relationship with anyone who had a FWB, or was just banging around.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was in a relationship with each, it makes sense, and I can accept that.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was only in a relationship with 2, then I immediately disqualify her as relationship material.
Remember, there are women you bang, and women you have relationships with. Don't confuse the two.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
I don’t care for your hypotheticals. It’s as sure a thing as it can possibly get that what I’ve been told is true. I know some women lie, but she isn’t lying. Sorry to ruin your illusion that all girls are liars. If it matters to your perception, we’re not American.It's likely a lie. Women are excellent at lying about this and I just LOL@men who fall for it.
Banged 2 dudes but blew 8? Nah brah.
She banged all 10, probably 20 tbh.
Ask yourself this, how many woman have blown you but not banged? I have quite a high kill count(I'm old), and the answer is zero for me.
OP: Do yourself a favor, accept her past or move on. If you cannot accept and bury it, then you're doing yourself a disservice by sticking around.
For me personally, I would never have a relationship with anyone who had a FWB, or was just banging around.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was in a relationship with each, it makes sense, and I can accept that.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was only in a relationship with 2, then I immediately disqualify her as relationship material.
Remember, there are women you bang, and women you have relationships with. Don't confuse the two.
Banged 2 dudes but blew 8? Nah brah.
She banged all 10, probably 20 tbh.
Ask yourself this, how many woman have blown you but not banged? I have quite a high kill count(I'm old), and the answer is zero for me.
OP: Do yourself a favor, accept her past or move on. If you cannot accept and bury it, then you're doing yourself a disservice by sticking around.
For me personally, I would never have a relationship with anyone who had a FWB, or was just banging around.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was in a relationship with each, it makes sense, and I can accept that.
If a girl banged 5 guys, but was only in a relationship with 2, then I immediately disqualify her as relationship material.
Remember, there are women you bang, and women you have relationships with. Don't confuse the two.
I care about your opinion on the facts presented, not a hypothetical scenario were she has banged 500 guys.
I’ve been blown by a few girls without ****ing them, by the way.
I also feel the same about the FWB situation as you, but seeing as it’s only one guy, I can accept it.
... but if you believe all women lie, how can you ever have a relationsship with any woman?
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08-25-2020, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
I never said all women are liars.I don’t care for your hypotheticals. It’s as sure a thing as it can possibly get that what I’ve been told is true. I know some women lie, but she isn’t lying. Sorry to ruin your illusion that all girls are liars. If it matters to your perception, we’re not American.
I care about your opinion on the facts presented, not a hypothetical scenario were she has banged 500 guys.
I’ve been blown by a few girls without ****ing them, by the way.
I also feel the same about the FWB situation as you, but seeing as it’s only one guy, I can accept it.
... but if you believe all women lie, how can you ever have a relationsship with any woman?
I care about your opinion on the facts presented, not a hypothetical scenario were she has banged 500 guys.
I’ve been blown by a few girls without ****ing them, by the way.
I also feel the same about the FWB situation as you, but seeing as it’s only one guy, I can accept it.
... but if you believe all women lie, how can you ever have a relationsship with any woman?
I'm saying she is lying.
25, banged 2 dudes, one was a FWB. Blew 8 dudes though? Brah. Seriously. I'd believe it if she were 18 or 19, but 25? Did she have a 5 year relationship with home dude #1?
Hate to give you tough love, but it's the truth. It's easier to believe what we want to believe, and if it makes you feel better, then by all means. You're convincing yourself otherwise because it makes you feel better.
Doesn't matter though. 1 dude or 20, you're not going to let this go and it will ultimately destroy your relationship. Even if you stay in, it will act like a poison over time.
Seen many brahs go down this road. I'm sure you'll revisit your posts one day and say "old misc brah was right." Good luck to you brah.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
She lost her virginity around her 23 birthday.I never said all women are liars.
I'm saying she is lying.
25, banged 2 dudes, one was a FWB. Blew 8 dudes though? Brah. Seriously. I'd believe it if she were 18 or 19, but 25? Did she have a 5 year relationship with home dude #1?
Hate to give you tough love, but it's the truth. It's easier to believe what we want to believe, and if it makes you feel better, then by all means. You're convincing yourself otherwise because it makes you feel better.
Doesn't matter though. 1 dude or 20, you're not going to let this go and it will ultimately destroy your relationship. Even if you stay in, it will act like a poison over time.
Seen many brahs go down this road. I'm sure you'll revisit your posts one day and say "old misc brah was right." Good luck to you brah.
I'm saying she is lying.
25, banged 2 dudes, one was a FWB. Blew 8 dudes though? Brah. Seriously. I'd believe it if she were 18 or 19, but 25? Did she have a 5 year relationship with home dude #1?
Hate to give you tough love, but it's the truth. It's easier to believe what we want to believe, and if it makes you feel better, then by all means. You're convincing yourself otherwise because it makes you feel better.
Doesn't matter though. 1 dude or 20, you're not going to let this go and it will ultimately destroy your relationship. Even if you stay in, it will act like a poison over time.
Seen many brahs go down this road. I'm sure you'll revisit your posts one day and say "old misc brah was right." Good luck to you brah.
Lmao you’re so bitter.
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If she was American, I wouldn’t believe it either, but she’s from a different culture. Your world view seems very limited.
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I agree that my feelings towards her past might become poison and that is what I’m hoping to avoid. It has never been an issue in any of my past relationsships.
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08-25-2020, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
She lost her virginity around her 23 birthday.
Lmao you’re so bitter.
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If she was American, I wouldn’t believe it either, but she’s from a different culture. Your world view seems very limited.
Lmao you’re so bitter.
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If she was American, I wouldn’t believe it either, but she’s from a different culture. Your world view seems very limited.
Experienced, not bitter. I was just like you at that age.
I married a Colombian and have traveled all over, 10 years older than you, and have a lot more experience with this kind of thing.
Do you see how your assumptions are wrong? You're on that blue pill time. Sorry OP.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
Experienced, not bitter. I was just like you at that age.
I married a Colombian and have traveled all over, 10 years older than you, and have a lot more experience with this kind of thing.
Do you see how your assumptions are wrong? You're on that blue pill time. Sorry OP.
So the Colombian you married. How do you know she wasn’t lying?Experienced, not bitter. I was just like you at that age.
I married a Colombian and have traveled all over, 10 years older than you, and have a lot more experience with this kind of thing.
Do you see how your assumptions are wrong? You're on that blue pill time. Sorry OP.
I’ve dated Colombians and it seems the culture there is exactly the type where some girls would do oral sex instead of actual sex.
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So if she is 25, how many people should she of had sex with? 2 is something you will never find again...
My $0.2 if you are this banged up about a 25 year old with having a count of 2 you are going to be in big trouble as you get older... I think you need to re-evaluate why this is so important to you.
My $0.2 if you are this banged up about a 25 year old with having a count of 2 you are going to be in big trouble as you get older... I think you need to re-evaluate why this is so important to you.
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2 PEOPLE @ 25 and you're crying? You on that insecure ****gy time Opie?
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Damn OP you're actually on that no hymen no diamond
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Originally Posted By littlemissy⏩
It’s not just the 2 people (obviously), it’s the other 8 she had oral sex with before she had actual sex, that she wanted a FWB etc.2 PEOPLE @ 25 and you're crying? You on that insecure ****gy time Opie?
Most of the girls I’ve been serious about or even girlfriends has been with 2 or more, so that in itself is no issue at all. Feeling this way is new to me, that’s why I’m asking what other people think - if this feeling will pass etc. Like the guy above who said he had seen it before in other guys and for them apparently (according to him) it was poison, and that’s what I want to avoid.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
Wtf is the point of this thread?It’s not just the 2 people (obviously), it’s the other 8 she had oral sex with before she had actual sex, that she wanted a FWB etc.
Most of the girls I’ve been serious about or even girlfriends has been with 2 or more, so that in itself is no issue at all. Feeling this way is new to me, that’s why I’m asking what other people think - if this feeling will pass etc. Like the guy above who said he had seen it before in other guys and for them apparently (according to him) it was poison, and that’s what I want to avoid.
Most of the girls I’ve been serious about or even girlfriends has been with 2 or more, so that in itself is no issue at all. Feeling this way is new to me, that’s why I’m asking what other people think - if this feeling will pass etc. Like the guy above who said he had seen it before in other guys and for them apparently (according to him) it was poison, and that’s what I want to avoid.
I never understood the "blow him but ntn else" concept when you're a woman (usually more common in the 23 and under crowd or so) but it happens.
I have no intention of ever talking about this with someone I'm dating ever again. If you can't get a good grip on her character from spending time with her and getting to know her then that's on you.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
Would you feel any different if it were 8 ppl she slept with and 2 dinks she zucked? Probably should ask yourself what it is that you're really having an issue with. You jealous & want to be #9 dink being zuked or the #3 on her record?It’s not just the 2 people (obviously), it’s the other 8 she had oral sex with before she had actual sex, that she wanted a FWB etc.
Most of the girls I’ve been serious about or even girlfriends has been with 2 or more, so that in itself is no issue at all. Feeling this way is new to me, that’s why I’m asking what other people think - if this feeling will pass etc. Like the guy above who said he had seen it before in other guys and for them apparently (according to him) it was poison, and that’s what I want to avoid.
Most of the girls I’ve been serious about or even girlfriends has been with 2 or more, so that in itself is no issue at all. Feeling this way is new to me, that’s why I’m asking what other people think - if this feeling will pass etc. Like the guy above who said he had seen it before in other guys and for them apparently (according to him) it was poison, and that’s what I want to avoid.
To some chicks letting a person in them is more intimate than oral. So maybe that's this girl. fk if I know. That's my only guess on why her beej count is higher than body count. I can't relate, I'm a very selfish type. If there's a dink in my mouth chances are 100% I'm getting some dink too otherwise I wouldn't be doing anyone favors just to do them a favor.
Probably should just not bring up sexual any past if you can't handle whatever the answer is going to be.
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