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post 1541327401 01-21-2018, 01:09 AM
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I have never felt so dumb in my life... feels like a movie srs

I went to some concert with a girl that i have a crush on that i’ve known for a year im thinking we finally get to hang out, and my head is full of wonderful moments and i imagine life together (not srs)

We get there, the venue is 3/4 full we have bad seats, she goes to the restroom before the concert starts comes back and says “im gonna sit over there for a while to take videos until the people who bought those seats come” never asked me if i wanted to come

Well 30 minutes pass and she doesnt come back then i notice she is hanging out with her friends while im over here like a dumbass all alone, well the owners of the seats come and she heads towards me, im thinking in relief “shes finally back, maybe she just got caught up with her friends”

Nope, she walks up to me and says “can you pass me my drink” like a cuck i give it to her, she does not say a single word, proceeds to sit somewhere else far away in the front where a single seat is empty.

You’d think we argued for her to do this but nope, she just gave no fuqs and did it because she could



The remaining three hours of the concert not once did she check on me or say anything while i sit there like a jackass all alone and everyone is dancing with their friends/couple

Lesson learned, i feel like i learned something, not sure what but i will definetly come back different

I had severe oneitis with this girl, felt that she was the best thing ever but this ****ing did it, going full no contact and all the dumb feelingsi had for her are gone
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

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post 1541327621 01-21-2018, 01:16 AM
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Sorry OP, that's rough. Please NC her. Not worth your energy.
post 1541327771 01-21-2018, 01:19 AM
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She sounds like a bish, hope you didn’t pay for the tickets
post 1541328011 01-21-2018, 01:26 AM
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lmao this is brutal

OP so deep in the friendzone he's nearing the earth's core
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
post 1541328151 01-21-2018, 01:30 AM
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Why did you stay?
post 1541328191 01-21-2018, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
lmao this is brutal

OP so deep in the friendzone he's nearing the earth's core
If this doesn't break him out of the friendzone then nothing will.
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post 1541328221 01-21-2018, 01:32 AM
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Did you buy her ticket op?? Or give her a ride?

Many younger girls are just grimy nowadays. It’s the sad truth
post 1541328231 01-21-2018, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Gayle1⏩
Why did you stay?
Because it was a 150$ ticket
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

-I'd rather live life saying "I failed" than "I could have"
post 1541328251 01-21-2018, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
Because it was a 150$ ticket
Don't say you paid for it brah....
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post 1541328271 01-21-2018, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By JAMIETW123⏩
hope you didn’t pay for the tickets
OPie??!?
post 1541328351 01-21-2018, 01:36 AM
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To the people asking no i didnt pay for her ticket, we bought our tickets separate last month , she asked me to go with her

And I didnt give her a ride either she picked me up and dropped me off, i didnt say a word the whole ride while she tried to small talk me
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

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post 1541328601 01-21-2018, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
To the people asking no i didnt pay for her ticket, we bought our tickets separate last month , she asked me to go with her

And I didnt give her a ride either she picked me up and dropped me off, i didnt say a word the whole ride while she tried to small talk me
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post 1541328751 01-21-2018, 01:47 AM
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damn thats brutal op. why didn't u just follow her to other seats?
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post 1541328901 01-21-2018, 01:51 AM
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post 1541328971 01-21-2018, 01:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Land_Down_Under⏩
damn thats brutal op. why didn't u just follow her to other seats?
Well i left this part out but at the very start of the concert when she came back from the restroom since the whole two rows where we were at were empty she sat in the row in-front of me by herself, i asked “why dont you sit next to me up here?” She replied “because i dont want to”

I felt like following her was just gonna be absolutelly retarted at this point
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

-I'd rather live life saying "I failed" than "I could have"
post 1541329101 01-21-2018, 02:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
“why dont you sit next to me up here?” She replied “because i dont want to”

I felt like following her was just gonna be absolutelly retarted at this point
Yeah, you would have been a bitch boy if you followed her after that. I wonder if you did something that put her off before all this
post 1541329161 01-21-2018, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Yeah, you would have been a bitch boy if you followed her after that. I wonder if you did something that put her off before all this
Absolutelly nothing at all, we were joking about the artists on the way in, she then said the restroom line and the story then follows
-Some people say good things come to those who wait, truth is, good things come to those who work..... who work later.....who work harder...... who are willing to go further than anyone else to get them. If you're waiting for good things to come to you, you'll be waiting for a pretty long time.

-I'd rather live life saying "I failed" than "I could have"
post 1541329351 01-21-2018, 02:10 AM
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Congratulations


Moments like these happen to every beta white knight ******* which leads them to view women as people instead of godsend angels which you view them as right now.

Enjoy your newfound perspective of women and people in general. Welcome to the red pill.
post 1541329431 01-21-2018, 02:13 AM
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She sounds like a complete bitch and not worth your time

Who the fuk does that to someone
post 1541329681 01-21-2018, 02:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
And I didnt give her a ride either she picked me up and dropped me off, i didnt say a word the whole ride while she tried to small talk me
post 1541329721 01-21-2018, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
She sounds like a complete bitch and not worth your time

Who the fuk does that to someone
This is what i'm trying to grasp.
post 1541329881 01-21-2018, 02:36 AM
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Jesus that must hurt. At least she gave you a ride home I suppose
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post 1541330421 01-21-2018, 02:56 AM
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I know that feel. She doesn't want you bro. She will continue disrespecting you until you stop talking to her. You were infatuated with a projection of traits you liked onto her body. You never really knew her. Remember that. You have seen how inconsiderate she really is. She isn't the woman you thought she was. Also, girls often do this kind of thing to guys who are in the "friendzone" so next time, make sure you ask a girl out very clearly and make sure she knows it is a date. And even though you may feel worthless now, remember you are not. Be proud of yourself. You would never do anything like this to someone, and that's because you are a considerate person. You deserve someone better, and you will hopefully find her. Don't give up.
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Brutal. Reminds me of that scene from Napoleon Dynamite where he asks out the girl to the dance and she only goes with him because her mom tells her to. Then she ignores Napoleon at the dance and ditches him at the first opportunity, and poor Napoleon sits there all alone and dejected.

But then it actually ends up working out for Napoleon, and not at all for you, so I guess it's not really like that scene at all.
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ayy lmao


not srs

I would probably do something like that too. Lets hope that we don't do beta things like that the next time we go out with girls
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I know that feel. She doesn't want you bro. She will continue disrespecting you until you stop talking to her. You were infatuated with a projection of traits you liked onto her body. You never really knew her. Remember that. You have seen how inconsiderate she really is. She isn't the woman you thought she was. Also, girls often do this kind of thing to guys who are in the "friendzone" so next time, make sure you ask a girl out very clearly and make sure she knows it is a date. And even though you may feel worthless now, remember you are not. Be proud of yourself. You would never do anything like this to someone, and that's because you are a considerate person. You deserve someone better, and you will hopefully find her. Don't give up.
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
Well i left this part out but at the very start of the concert when she came back from the restroom since the whole two rows where we were at were empty she sat in the row in-front of me by herself, i asked “why dont you sit next to me up here?” She replied “because i dont want to”

I felt like following her was just gonna be absolutelly retarted at this point
That's gotta sting. Hope you never make the same mistake again
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Don't bother with someone like that.. I know a few girls that would do that to people, even me if given a situation.

Those are they type you can pour your cup of water over their head.

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you said she was with some friends so you can be sure she didn't want to be seen with a beta by anyone she knew
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Sounds like you totally failed to be the man and the leader on every level.

She is your crush and you «finally» get to hang out with her? Why haven’t you invited her on a date before?
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