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post 1553863791 06-14-2018, 09:46 PM
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Why is the misc so in love with "chad"

I constantly see this obsession over Chad this CHAD THAT. What is going on? You don't need to be this to 1. Have sex with women. 2. Keep a woman. 3. Get 7.5+/10 Women as well. In the miscs eyes Chad is a God, Yet many of you forget most of these women are a bunch of Goofy ass B***ches. You can literally be a "chad" without looks. In my eyes and dealing with women if you're dominant and socially acute and show you have a life while being an entertaining person.. you can get any girl you want. Not saying I see a bunch of gorgeous women with regular looking men but, it's definitely possible to get above average women with the qualities I just named. If you can make a girl laugh I'd say you're halfway through the door. Comfortability is important. Stop this chad worshipping bullcrap I ain't been here for a long time but in my few months of actually posting, the misc blames"him" for all failures its simply Pathetic. Focus on yourself and be great. In any situation if you aren't THE MAN to whatever woman you're talking to she is always in jeopardy of not sticking around.



Cliffs:
- Looks don't mean everything
- Being fun to be around opens legs as well
- Stop sucking the "chad" penis
post 1553867571 06-14-2018, 11:31 PM
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Insecurity coupled with an obsession over body image. I think you're in the wrong section though, it's mostly a thing on the main Misc.
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post 1553867741 06-14-2018, 11:35 PM
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So youโ€™re telling a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers that all they need is to have personality, confidence, social skills and be fun to be with

And you think thatโ€™s more attainable than good looks ?
post 1553868141 06-14-2018, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So youโ€™re telling a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers that all they need is to have personality, confidence, social skills and be fun to be with

And you think thatโ€™s more attainable than good looks ?
Most aren't neckbeard basement dwellers though. Even in the FA pics thread, you can see most are actually better looking than average. People here are better looking than the average person.
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post 1553868381 06-14-2018, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Most aren't neckbeard basement dwellers though. Even in the FA pics thread, you can see most are actually better looking than average. People here are better looking than the average person.
A static picture does not/can never convey how attractive someone is in reality

And tbh even if they are in rl more attractive than average, how is that working out for them?

Looks really donโ€™t matter if you canโ€™t back it up with qualities that mean other people want to spend time with you

(Appreciate that I am preaching to the converted here...although for some reason I doubt your โ€œperfect wifeโ€ is going to be average looking/slightly above average looking)
post 1553868471 06-14-2018, 11:55 PM
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Because OP is *******.
post 1553868481 06-14-2018, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
A static picture does not/can never convey how attractive someone is in reality

And tbh even if they are in rl more attractive than average, how is that working out for them?

Looks really donโ€™t matter if you canโ€™t back it up with qualities that mean other people want to spend time with you

(Appreciate that I am preaching to the converted here...although for some reason I doubt your โ€œperfect wifeโ€ is going to be average looking/slightly above average looking)
It sounded like you were saying miscers were "a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers". I was just arguing against that.
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post 1553868551 06-14-2018, 11:57 PM
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thx for your insight on this matter, chad
post 1553868601 06-14-2018, 11:58 PM
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Anyone who's gone outside and actually talked to chicks knows that's not the case. I'm no Chad and I've had girls respond positively to me yet I'm not a 6' 155lb white guy, I even dated a white chick that had nice tits for a while and she wasn't a whale. Shoot, I even cold approached a HBB 8 blonde first week of college with my goofy ass and got her number within minutes for giggles and she laughed at the dumbest stuff I said. The next day, she wanted to talk to me!

If the whole "Chad" thing was true, any bro under 6' that isn't white, doesn't make six figures, and doesn't have the facial structure of a European model is gonna get negged by every chick out there. I even know guys who are 6' and good looking who are virgins as well as manlets that hooked up with blondes. I even know a guy who is below average lookswise and got matches and an easy lay by an asian chick off of Tinder. I even have a cousin who is a minority like me but 6' 145, dating a white chick who is like a 7. He has a somewhat rounded face like I do but has a good social life and graduated salutatorian.
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post 1553871651 06-15-2018, 01:51 AM
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IMO it took off when the whole red pill thing got popular and more people interested. Nowadays all people talk about here is incels, Chads and Timothys, FAs and Alpha/Beta type bs the average person would find ridiculous but somehow everyone takes it to heart here.
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post 1553872471 06-15-2018, 02:26 AM
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post 1553872871 06-15-2018, 02:41 AM
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Most misc content is a caricature of real life.
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post 1553875731 06-15-2018, 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So youโ€™re telling a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers that all they need is to have personality, confidence, social skills and be fun to be with

And you think thatโ€™s more attainable than good looks ?
hahaha deep burns

OP - You're preaching to the choir. Although women do **** guys just because they're hot and hot alone, but yes a man who is average looking can also get plenty of decent women.
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post 1553876581 06-15-2018, 05:12 AM
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This is a bodybuilding forum, why are you surprised to find so many dudes insedure about their looks ( including me ) ?

That being said, I agree with a bunch of things said on the misc
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post 1553876941 06-15-2018, 05:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So youโ€™re telling a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers that all they need is to have personality, confidence, social skills and be fun to be with

And you think thatโ€™s more attainable than good looks ?
So true it hurts.
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post 1553890061 06-15-2018, 08:56 AM
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Insecurity coupled with closet homosexuality.
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post 1553893711 06-15-2018, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
It sounded like you were saying miscers were "a bunch of neckbeard basement dwellers". I was just arguing against that.
To be fair a bunch of them do their utmost to come across as exactly that

One wonders whether they actually understand how to flirt, how to have fun, how to make people around them feel good about themselves and want to spend more time with them.
post 1553894291 06-15-2018, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Insecurity coupled with closet homosexuality.
This^
post 1553894481 06-15-2018, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
To be fair a bunch of them do their utmost to come across as exactly that

One wonders whether they actually understand how to flirt, how to have fun, how to make people around them feel good about themselves and want to spend more time with them.
They don't know how to have fun because most are introverted AF.
post 1553895041 06-15-2018, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted By FU3L⏩
Insecurity coupled with closet homosexuality.
Yup, definitely this.

Also alot of the guys who talk about Chad, Stacy, Timothy, hypergamy, MGTOW, etc complain alot on this forum too on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis. I'm not gonna name names but they know who they are.
post 1553895291 06-15-2018, 10:05 AM
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I almost let the "Girls only go for Chads mentality" get to me. Thankfully speaking to women outside of dating apps and being a little for social squashed that delusion. A lot of miscers don't try their hand at IRL women and let the online dating scene dictate their views of sex, dating, and attraction.


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-They don't socialize enough
post 1553896281 06-15-2018, 10:17 AM
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Can you imagine some dude irl talking about MGTOW, incel, hypergamy, Chad, Stacy and the 80/20 rule? lmao

Average people are gonna be like "Wtf?"
post 1553897391 06-15-2018, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Can you imagine some dude irl talking about MGTOW, incel, hypergamy, Chad, Stacy and the 80/20 rule? lmao

Average people are gonna be like "Wtf?"
I legit had a conversation in the pub last night with more than one person taking the piss out of me for knowing what LMAO means

I mean who doesnโ€™t know what LMAO means?
post 1553897691 06-15-2018, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I mean who doesnโ€™t know what LMAO means?
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Yup, definitely this.

Also alot of the guys who talk about Chad, Stacy, Timothy, hypergamy, MGTOW, etc complain alot on this forum too on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis. I'm not gonna name names but they know who they are.
I'm waiting for "pyscho" man to come in to talk about his lust for CHADS.
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For some people, it's easier to blame circumstances than to risk trying and failing.

I don't know of any successful, self-made person who hasn't failed repeatedly.

The biggest difference between successful people and those who aren't is the willingness to get up and fail again.

It's true for approaching potential mates, pursuing a career, and a lot of other rewarding things in life.
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
For some people, it's easier to blame circumstances than to risk trying and failing.

I don't know of any successful, self-made person who hasn't failed repeatedly.

The biggest difference between successful people and those who aren't is the willingness to get up and fail again.

It's true for approaching potential mates, pursuing a career, and a lot of other rewarding things in life.
I blame parenting

Itโ€™s hard as hell to let your kids fail but it is one of the most valuable lessons to prove that whatever happens you can and will get over it

Too many cotton wool wrapped adults come from helicopter parents and brought up to crumble kids
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