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post 1554204431 06-19-2018, 01:47 PM
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[b]Is flattery from a woman always an attempt at seducing me?, problem, confusion

I have probably spent 9 or 10 hours in this woman's office now talking to her once a week. She is 29 years old. When I first met her, her attire was modest and professional. Over time I noticed each week we had a new hour meeting, she would wear less and less clothes. She started to do things like bend over situating her body in a way where I could see intimate parts while she was "looking for a file" in the file cabinet. I think she was doing this on purpose but then I blamed myself for being a creep, she could risk her job and she would know better. Our relationship is supposed to be professional. I started getting texts that said "Heyy" with 3 'y' letters at 9:30 p.m. on a Saturday night from her. She said she is just checking in on me. This woman is a psychologist I've been seeing for what started as substance abuse type meeting just to have someone accountable to while I was quitting alcohol. It turned into some hot girl seducing me I swear, she starts psychoanalyst sheit on me like asking about prior girlfriends etc and why I don't have confidence. She then says a bunch of stuff to boost my ego saying I am handsome, intelligent, strong etc,. Is this considered flattery and an attempt to seduce me? She then later says I need more reference experiences to support the belief that I am good enough and that beliefs are like a table top and they can't stand without reference experiences. She asks if she can trust me and I told her yeah she can. She asked if it was okay for her to help me. And I said yes. She looked out the blinds while basically bending over in my face and says that I'm her last appointment and offers me to stay for a drink and I did. I'm so confused right now. She says she can't see me technically as a client anymore but that she can still help me.
post 1554204511 06-19-2018, 01:48 PM
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No.
Take it easy Christian
post 1554204621 06-19-2018, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
No.
It's possible. I wouldn't overthink it OP, but if she wants the D she'll start to make it abundantly clearer later on.
post 1554204701 06-19-2018, 01:49 PM
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You can't be 28.

She's throwing it at you.

I wonder how many miscers fumble pussy like that srs
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post 1554204811 06-19-2018, 01:50 PM
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objects in the autism mirror are grander than they appear
post 1554204901 06-19-2018, 01:51 PM
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She's going to bang you. And you should smash her hard.

She's also a terrible therapist. LOL find a new one. But smash her.
post 1554204951 06-19-2018, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
It's possible. I wouldn't overthink it OP, but if she wants the D she'll start to make it abundantly clearer later on.
Oh, I don't know if the woman in this imaginary story is hypothetically coming on to OP. OP is the author of this mediocre work of fiction; it's his call what he wants to happen next.

I'm just instinctively saying "no" to Caeculus because he's Caeculus.
Take it easy Christian
post 1554205721 06-19-2018, 01:58 PM
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I feel like I was hunted by an adulteress with the flattery in her lips and body
post 1554205831 06-19-2018, 01:59 PM
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Last time I spent half an hour I won't get back writing responses to a guy on here who said his therapist was shagging/wanting to shag him - he was a fkn troll.
Originally Posted By Caeculus
I feel like I was hunted by an adulteress with the flattery in her lips and body
What nationality are you OP? You have a special talent for mangling the English language.
(Referring to your sig as well).
Originally Posted By ChristianMR
Oh, I don't know if the woman in this imaginary story is hypothetically coming on to OP. OP is the author of this mediocre work of fiction; it's his call what he wants to happen next.

I'm just instinctively saying "no" to Caeculus because he's Caeculus.
Hello you.
You speak Japanese as well?
Simple minds need simple answers.
post 1554207771 06-19-2018, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon
You can't be 28.

She's throwing it at you.

I wonder how many miscers fumble pussy like that srs
A lot of them, autism is a real blockade for these bros.
The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
post 1554207781 06-19-2018, 02:20 PM
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Here you go OP:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...e-transference
post 1554208521 06-19-2018, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Maatkarah
Hello you.
You speak Japanese as well?
Long time! No, I don't speak Japanese, sadly. Someone made a joke about my prior avi resembling this pic (from the Mr. Roboto song in the 80s):



It was funny, so I ran with it ("domo arigato, Mr. Roboto" was the chorus in the song).
Take it easy Christian
post 1554209841 06-19-2018, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR
Long time! No, I don't speak Japanese, sadly. Someone made a joke about my prior avi resembling this pic (from the Mr. Roboto song in the 80s):



It was funny, so I ran with it ("domo arigato, Mr. Roboto" was the chorus in the song).
Only on the misc.

Got through 1 min. of it on youtube - so weird on so many levels. But then there was much weirdness in the 80's.

Random trivia; I asked Japanese people about that samurai haircut but no-one seemed to know; best guesses were something about (evil) spirits or something practical about making helmets fit better.
Simple minds need simple answers.
post 1554212471 06-19-2018, 03:07 PM
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She asked you to go for drinks while you were paying for her professional help to quit drinking?

Srs?
post 1554213031 06-19-2018, 03:16 PM
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She should be struck off

If she existed

But she doesn’t so it’s all fine
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