I’ve been seeing her about 2 months - not exclusive yet - haven’t had enough 1 on 1 time. I was on call this weekend (anesthesiologist) so she flew out on Friday to be with me (she lives a few states away) for Valentine’s Day weekend. I really like her and I just want to take things slow with her as to not ruin anything. She and her boyfriend were serious - they lived together and they broke up in October, so we’re just going slow and steady.

She’s been taking a lot of videos of herself, like 4 or 5 a day that she posts to social media. She’s doing things like sipping wine and winking while looking at the camera, playing songs and singing along to camera while playing with her hair. I saw yesterday while I was in the shower she had posted a video of herself naked in my bed (you can’t see any body parts but you definitely tell she doesn’t have on clothes) again singing to the camera and then smiling and winking. She even reposted an old picture of herself with the caption, “he’s going to get all of me tonight”. She’s posting all of these videos to social media. So yea, a lot of those types of videos multiple times a day ever since she got here on Friday.

Today, I took her to a restaurant. I was checking my messages to make sure I didn’t have to go in. I see that she posted a picture of me sitting across from her but she put a very large heart emoji over my face. It was so large that all you can see are my arms and my hands.

Why would she post a picture of me just to cover my face with a large emoji?

Personally, dating someone this attached to social media is a huge turn off. They are so involved with their social media presence it gets in the way of real life.

Maybe she thinks you’re it’ll, maybe she thinks playing games online is fun, maybe she wants people to ask questions and give likes... I don’t know.

Her behavior is strange and suspicious. Hold old is she? You're 28 and you're already an anesthesiologist?

western culture is fuked. imagine being a grown ass man with a professional job and your choices of women are grown ass woman that behave like this:

"She’s doing things like sipping wine and winking while looking at the camera, playing songs and singing along to camera while playing with her hair."

like literal 12 year old children. its so cringe.

Well I’m doing my residency now, so I don’t quite have the title just yet.

Strange I agree with but why do you say suspicious? How so?

Pretty simple. A naked video of herself in bed saying your going to get all of her tonight isn’t for her friends to see or any of her female followers on social media. Women are not addicted to social media and always taking videos and pics of themselves for all the women to comment on. It’s a great way to keep their options open and fish attention from guys online. For all you know the same video without the caption about you getting her was sent out to 20 guys on snapchat or something. That or she’s just trying to make her ex jealous.

Personally I wouldn’t want to deal with a woman this addicted to social media, and she doesn’t seem trustworthy to me. If she lived with her ex in October there’s a chance she’s not over him.

Oh wow very true. If she wants attention then even post me, well a part of me? Wouldn’t that hurt her chances of getting attention from men?

Yea I do know her ex still follows her. At least on one of the social media platforms.

Its a layer deeper than that, she ultimately wants female approval/envy at how desirable to men she apparently is

Like she's putting a large heart emoji over your face perhaps to make her ex jealous.

At any rate, she has some big red flags and if you're in residency, you should have your pick of the crop and not settle for social media attention whores.

sounds like a whore, who has serious mental issues

bang a few more times then NC fully srs

She gotta go son

Personally - too much sharing for me. Wouldn't date seriously.

I think it's weird when people flaunt their dating life over social media, especially in the early/casual stages.

If you've been dating 2 months I dunno why you'd want to be on her social media.

I think this is one of the only times I've ever agreed with this guy. lol

100% she still has her ex on social media or at least his friends. She knows that he will see the pictures and videos and is just trying to make him jealous and in her mind this will make her seem like she is more desirable because she has options. She would go back to him as well if he called. Like a few other's mentioned you need to get rid of her or at least never go official.

She sounds awful, and she's definitely trying to make her ex jealous.

Agree with posters above. Cut her loose ASAP.

obviously she doesn't want to look taken. For some reason, as long as you are faceless, nobody will care or ask about this faceless person. It's that easy to make someone stop wondering.

Drop that thot

This looks like she doesn’t want to be taken?

https://imgur.com/a/l1oOw98

Stay away from social media whores.

it is absurd that this is normal, people are so used to it they dont step back and notice anymore

guy is a near 30 professional grown ass man trying to find a wife and having to judge some grown woman's potential to be a suitible mother and life long partner based on her instagram clips and emojis she uses. the fuk is this.

you realize in the old days when people married their highschool sweetheart from a small town they didnt just know the person in highschool but their families knew the other family's history and were vetting them. now its oh look she used the same emoji i like to use and made a kissy face at the camera better sign a binding legal contract to share 50% of my assets and get her knocked up. the fuk is this.

Me too. He's normally a troll, but he's spot on in that post.

Pronouns are she/her/hers but yes us females need to stick together on this site, not surprising we think the same sometimes.

Interesting. I didn't realize that you were a transsexual.

I would find it pretty off-putting if a woman posted pictures of me to her social media before we were official, so I'd actually prefer her cover my face. Otherwise, that's some stage 5 clinger ****.

This is, of course, assuming I would even date an attention whore like that.

Did she just turn 18?

And I agree with above, she is trying to make someone jealous


You’re young and have a good career. Find a more mature woman

dont get serious with her but just keep fuking

Yea, you’re right I am. She went home today. Pretty relieved actually but now I’m just kind of disgusted.

She posted, “missing *insert my city* already. Best sex ever”. What the hell is wrong with her?

What's her IG ?

Wow, she's messed up. Who says "best sex ever" on social media? Talk about not keeping things private.

Okay she MUST be tryna make her ex jealous.

How old is she?

Was it actually that good for you haha?