Can you guys put me on game as how I can get head?

1.) How do you guys usually get a girl to go down on you? I'm not talking about getting head from a gf in a relationship but rather girls that you're acquainted with and hang out with.

a.) Do the girls just go for it?
b.)Do you ask/command her " would you be down to suck the dick?"
c.) Is the conversation always sexual in nature before it happens?

From your guy's experience how does it usually happen?



For instance,

I gave my neighbor a ride home one time and she pretty much had her body facing me the whole time in the car and when I parked we just sat there talking about dating for the most part . Just from her body language and energy I felt like I could get a bj from her, especially because she was facing me the whole time but ended up just walking her upstairs and going to our separate units. What could I've done differently in this situation?

another example/scenario would be

Say I'm smoking with a girl at a view, do I start rubbing on her legs etc ?

Serious answers guys, I'm lacking in this area and I feel that I've missed a number of bj opportunities because I didn't know exactly what to do. Getting a solo bj is a bit different than getting sex and that's usually the only time I get head is right before sex with a girl I'm already hooking up with.

I usually just walk up and hand them a couple 20s.

I don’t think women just hand these out because you gave them a ride home. Some maybe but this isn’t the norm. Try some apps giving you an opportunity to hook up. Also, give a lot, get a lot. I’ve typically given her oral sex and made her cum before I get anything.

Unless she's young and thinks she should do oral only a few times before having sex, then develop rapport and ask/talk about what turns you on.

The scenarios you're describing are few and far between. The majority of encounters happen when you have privacy.

Lmao!!!!!!!!

Don’t over think it, here’s what’s worked for me

With tinder or bumble in advance of meeting I got into sexual humor fast. This led to being “ok” to talking openly about sex. Naturally after this feel out process you send the obligatory dick pic. At this point the only thing left is the live version.

You can talk about how fast she’ll go down on you when you meet or when you do and you start making out just put their hand on it. Chances of them NOT doing anything are slim. They feel it’s not my fault if I go down on him he initiated.

Remember, not rocket science these girls sometimes have low self esteem and giving you head is doing them a favor.

You will need to start with the sexual conversation. Doing this with humor / in jest is really effective. Keeps the conversation light and fun. Also gives you plenty of room to steer the conversation either more forward / throttle back depending on how well you two are connecting.

Then what has ALWAYS worked for me is to say how you “appreciate the effort, and love giving, but have thought blowjobs were a bit overrated”. This usually will get their attention, and they will be a bit surprised. This then gives you the opportunity to in very general terms say how in the past you’ve just never been “wowed” by them, and can’t finish.

Girls LOVE finding ways to show dominance / compete with / be better than other girls. Especially ex’s.

lol, pretty good

Thanx appreciate the tip!

Right on !

Everyone is different, but a couple things in my life I will say anecdotally.

I have NEVER attempted to go down on a girl and been refused. They will let me eat that box every time.

Every time I've eaten a girl out (if they haven't already sucked my dik) they have returned the favor.


So my advice.. Eat that box OP. Just give them an expectant look after.

When i was 15 a girl who i didn't know randomly grabbed my dick and pulled me under the little street bridge and blew me. This def fuked me up for a few years about girls. i wasn't ready for that. 1995. I can't give you any advice OP (srs)

Jewelry

I had a head since I was born. It was included.

You bought your head separetely, OP? Or you don't have a head at all?

I usually grab the sloot by the ponytail

You've been watching porn. By design it messed you up and will continue to do so if you don't change or get help.
Real life is not porn and or vice versa.

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Sorry man. Sounds like rape and statutory rape to me. I know the feeling. People are ****ed up.

I usually whip it out, start sucking it myself (srs) and then say, "Help me suck this dick." Never had a girl refuse.

It's hardly ever asked for. Almost always initiated by the girl, what I find helps is to have a noticeable bulge. This will undoubtedly get her thinking about sexy things.

Sorry, I can only tell you what not to do, that's get married. It's a bit cliché, but very true. My wife was crazy when dating, in the car, at my office, she'd do it everywhere. Within 2 years of being married she makes a face like she tasted rotten milk when I ask her for it.

Maybe try drinking some mango or pineapple juice?

I don't know how normal I am, but every woman I slept with we first had a long email back and forth about our sexual desires. It always started with platonic stuff then turned sexual after several hours of us getting more comfortable with each other. Then we met and did the deeds.

I've seen guys get to the deeds much faster, bit they smooth talked sexual first and verbally suggested she do it.


Step 1: demonstrate you are normal, as in not crazy, with at least a slight chance of being high status.
Step 2: Compliment her. Tell her you want her. Talk enough that she knows you are serious and not going to back up and call her easy.
Step 3: Tell her what you want. Pay attention to whether she seems to want it too. Only ask for digits if she wants it and now is not a good time.

If you dump her, be honest you just wanted fun. Do not accuse her of being to easy.

Yes, it was her who initiated going down on me, because I was too shy to ask. And was me who asked to go down on her. I have no idea how big my bulge was. An erection should trump a flaccid big one.

Not in my experience. Main reaction I get when they grab/feel my bulge is "omg. you aren't even hard yet" and that makes them curious to see how much bigger it gets usually. Challenges them in a way.

Its unfortunate that I feel like could be a real post.

Its all starts with touch,reciprocation,repeat & escalate... I'm pretty sure I've gotten head 100% of the time when the underwear came off.

Weird that we decide to put genitals in our mouth based on what the persons face looks like so be attractive.

Infrequently.