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post 1672359383 12-06-2022, 04:46 PM
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Is this a high body count for a 32 yr old woman? She told me her number.

She’s 32 and has slept with 11 people.

She lost her v at 19, longest relationship was 5 years.

Is 11 too high of a number?
post 1672392233 12-07-2022, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By vanballmoos
She’s 32 and has slept with 11 people.

She lost her v at 19, longest relationship was 5 years.

Is 11 too high of a number?
honestly at 32 no it isn't

is she lying and it's actually 15? probably. should you ask? should the two of you even be talking about this stuff? no
post 1672397943 12-07-2022, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By vanballmoos
She’s 32 and has slept with 11 people.

She lost her v at 19, longest relationship was 5 years.

Is 11 too high of a number?
Personally would not take a girl srs whose body count is over 5 srs. Also, when a girl tells you her body count it's typically double whatever number they give you.
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post 1672402793 12-07-2022, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By mcorleone1993
Personally would not take a girl srs whose body count is over 5 srs. Also, when a girl tells you her body count it's typically double whatever number they give you.
sure, but if we're talking about a 32 year old person i dunno what you really expect to find out there
post 1672402873 12-07-2022, 11:16 AM
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Now multiple by 3 and then realize she’s not including dudes she just blew
post 1672412783 12-07-2022, 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Murph0408
honestly at 32 no it isn't

is she lying and it's actually 15? probably. should you ask? should the two of you even be talking about this stuff? no
Idk if I’m being dumb or not but I think I believe it’s actually 11. She and I didn’t have sex until almost 3 months in.
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Lets assume its 11. That averages to less than 1 a year after turning 18 (erroring on the high side here for first time she had sex). Idk wtf miscers expect nowadays. Reality is no that is not a huge number over that timeframe
post 1672419163 12-07-2022, 03:35 PM
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I think that's perfectly reasonable for someone who is 32 but you need to decide what you're comfortable with, not the general consensus of an internet message board with people who don't know you/her/your relationship and may get more kicks trying to mess with you than give you honest feedback.
post 1672472553 12-08-2022, 12:24 PM
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Personally I would be amazed it was that low.

1 guy every 6 months or so is a very low figure, wouldn’t bother me in the slightest
post 1672680453 12-11-2022, 07:10 PM
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Wouldn't matter if she was actually telling the truth

The fact she told you 11 makes me think it's realistically about 60

She's a ****ing slut bro bail
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post 1672693623 12-12-2022, 01:38 AM
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Broads BS their numbers. Multiply by 3 for sex partners, and then double that for random BJ participation.

Met my wife in my 30's, she was 26. I was her first and only sexual partner. Feels good mang.

The only problem with low count is the girl probably has a low sex drive to begin with, and that becomes an issue after marriage. Ask how I know.
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Originally Posted By vanballmoos
Idk if I’m being dumb or not but I think I believe it’s actually 11. She and I didn’t have sex until almost 3 months in.
Sounds like she rode the Cawk carousel and realizes the wall is approaching quickly. She wants to sucker some dude into settling down and having a family. Then she'll go back to being a sloot and dude will be divorced, paying child support and for a house some other dude is banging his wife in.
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lol would never take a girl /w more than 7 seriously.
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11 is very low for 32 yo western woman. How long were her previous relationships? This will help shed some light on the accuracy of this count.

Did you ask how many she sexed or how many "partners"? Women will bend the truth based of the semantics of the question.

Personally I'd be more worried about 3 months to hit. She has put a low valuation on you. You think all of those 11 before you waited 3 months? Once again, how long were her relationships.
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It's reasonable but I doubt she's being honest. She's not counting the flings, dating but not serious, and blow jobs.

32 and not married? Was she divorced? A single mom? Probably has a lot of baggage.
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post 1673109643 12-18-2022, 09:00 PM
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Don’t worry op, I’m sure your cawk will always satisfy her, go ahead and propose

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post 1673424633 12-23-2022, 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted By SmashinYoungVag
Now multiple by 3 and then realize she’s not including dudes she just blew
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I think the bigger issue is that she's 32.


Also the people averaging her numbers out per year are acting like she was single. OP already said longest relationship was 5 years. Odds are pretty good she's had other relationships as well. 11 is completely believable.

13 -5 = 8 years after the longest is removed. Then sprinkle in at least 3 more relationships each lasting let's say 1 year, now 8-3 = 5. Now we're down to 7 guys in 5 years and that's after taking a conservative approach to saying she's only had 4 relationships that spanned 8 of those years with 5 years being confirmed as 1 relationship.

I wouldn't say it's far fetched to believe she has spent upwards of 9 years in relationships with 3-4 guys tops. Then you're left with 2 years and 7 other guys while single. Seems fully believable to me and I don't doubt for a second girls like that do exist. In fairness the other types of girls also exists so it's always going to be impossible to know if she's lying or not.
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Originally Posted By mcorleone1993
Personally would not take a girl srs whose body count is over 5 srs. Also, when a girl tells you her body count it's typically double whatever number they give you.
This.

Over 30 yrs, I’d say the average count is her age +/- 5.
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They always lie about their number.
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She’s likely lying to you, but you have to figure out if the number is “acceptable”. Also, don’t ask that question, no number is going to make you happy. My response to girls when they ask is “there’s no point to me answering that, it’s either too low or too high and is just going to cause problems either way.” Dumbest question to ask.
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Originally Posted By vanballmoos
Idk if I’m being dumb or not but I think I believe it’s actually 11. She and I didn’t have sex until almost 3 months in.
11? Try 35. Women always lie about this. OR rationalize (ex: doesn't count azzholes, one night stands, only guys she BJ, etc.)

She made you wait several months, so she's looking to settle down. Hope you're ok with the fact she will never give you the wild time she provided to other guys with 0 commitment.
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if you assume that is true, you won't find another lower. Especially at her age.
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Gotta go by the tried and true method:

x = number she tells you
y = age

x*1.5 + (age / 2)

She's probably slept with around 30 dudes brah.

Yes, too much.

If she isn't lying: Yes, too much.

A 32 year old broad that isn't married, or hasn't been in super long term relationship is red flag material. srs.
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