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post 1679217303 03-19-2023, 08:52 AM
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How do you maintain long relationships?

Dear bros with long happy relationships, how do you do it?

I know its supossed to be hard work, but how do you at least keep the spark going?
Im on 6 years and just tired of everything.
Shes a great girl but I'm worried if Im making a short sighted mistake.

Never had a relationship last this long, and Ive been getting away with a fair ammount of cheating so far
My friend asked me: If I had a 6 year old relationship with another girl, what would be different this time around?
I had no answer for that question, I said well the same could happen honestly

So tell me, are these feelings normal and how do you preserve the fun?
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post 1679219563 03-19-2023, 09:52 AM
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I've never been able to keep a relationship longer than 6 months. I get bored easily.
post 1679223933 03-19-2023, 11:19 AM
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my longest was 2.5 years and after a year, i began cheating srs.
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post 1679225913 03-19-2023, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman⏩
Dear bros with long happy relationships, how do you do it?

I know its supossed to be hard work, but how do you at least keep the spark going?
Im on 6 years and just tired of everything.
Shes a great girl but I'm worried if Im making a short sighted mistake.

Never had a relationship last this long, and Ive been getting away with a fair ammount of cheating so far
My friend asked me: If I had a 6 year old relationship with another girl, what would be different this time around?
I had no answer for that question, I said well the same could happen honestly

So tell me, are these feelings normal and how do you preserve the fun?
You have to be with a girl you like doing average things with.

If you like the same types of food, TV, and have the same attitudes about things, that is going to last because that's your friend.

If you have male friends, chances are you do not get tired of them for those reasons.

If you are with a new hot girl you have nothing in common with that will get old fast.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

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post 1679237213 03-19-2023, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
You have to be with a girl you like doing average things with.

If you like the same types of food, TV, and have the same attitudes about things, that is going to last because that's your friend.

If you have male friends, chances are you do not get tired of them for those reasons.

If you are with a new hot girl you have nothing in common with that will get old fast.
Yes shes definetely have some things in common, otherwise we wouldn't have lasted 6 years to begin with
But how do you keep the spark going?
I feel dead bored.. like im with a room mate not a girlfriend anymore
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post 1679237733 03-19-2023, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Poodleman⏩
Yes shes definetely have some things in common, otherwise we wouldn't have lasted 6 years to begin with
But how do you keep the spark going?
I feel dead bored.. like im with a room mate not a girlfriend anymore
That's what relationships are unless you make Epstein money and are always on vacation and waiting for the next orgy. If not, it's work, TV, some dinner, trips, etc on repeat.

Your girl is your family.

So, what you did growing up with your family is what you do with your girl. If you get that in your mind you will feel more settled.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

Read my science fiction novel:

http://www.amazon.com/Echelon-Adlerian-ebook/dp/B00RCFFTKC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1419640250&sr=8-1&keywords=Echelon+the+adlerian
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