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post 1624456701 12-04-2020, 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
I didn’t even know what all was going on before her son told me.
All this chit from a SINGLE MOM, not some hot unstable teenager?



You know what to do, OP.
post 1624550701 12-05-2020, 12:23 AM
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Update on the situation. We fought all day. I wasn’t going to say anything but she instantly started attacking me. I about ended it when she gave in telling me she loves me and they are friends. I’m weak to her because we are close but it’s sickening seeing my gf go out with these guys out of the blue. Now she calls me on the way home telling me she wishes I was in her bed and can’t wait to see me and everything seemed ok abs then she says I’m not sure where we are anymore. After a night out with your ex and his friends and now you don’t know where we are? I’m feeling very violent. I went off n her and we were supposed to do thanksgiving but it may be over now. She even said something like I hope you haven’t talked to any females today. It’s like I’m held hostage just waiting on her to find who she wants to get with while she tries to make me look bad in front of her sister.
post 1624555171 12-05-2020, 02:18 AM
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It’s okay OP I know how you feel. I remember my first relationship when I was 17 too.

Honestly man like I said previously this shouldn’t be a thread. You know what you should be doing and it’s absolutely ridiculous that you think what’s going on is okay. She probably fukt her ex when she was out with him. Srs.

We’ve all been weak to a woman at one point but you also gotta be able to say enough is enough and end it. You’re acting like a cuck and you’re going to feel so so stupid and embarrassed by your actions after this is all said and done and the dust settles. You’re going to look back on this relationship you had with her and cringe that you let it carry on. Save yourself further embarrassment, take the high ground and end it. Everybody ITT has given you the same advice and it’s because nobody would put up with this themselves and because nobody should put up with it. The train has hit the last stop and is at the end of the line OP, it’s time to get off.
post 1624556721 12-05-2020, 03:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
Update on the situation. We fought all day. I wasn’t going to say anything but she instantly started attacking me. I about ended it when she gave in telling me she loves me and they are friends. I’m weak to her because we are close but it’s sickening seeing my gf go out with these guys out of the blue. Now she calls me on the way home telling me she wishes I was in her bed and can’t wait to see me and everything seemed ok abs then she says I’m not sure where we are anymore. After a night out with your ex and his friends and now you don’t know where we are? I’m feeling very violent. I went off n her and we were supposed to do thanksgiving but it may be over now. She even said something like I hope you haven’t talked to any females today. It’s like I’m held hostage just waiting on her to find who she wants to get with while she tries to make me look bad in front of her sister.
If the next post isn’t you having ended it with this disrespectful girl, then nobody on this forum will give a fuk, srs. EVERYONE ITT is saying it’s over, and that it’s crazy you even stayed this long.

You’re being a bish. Man up.
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post 1624557271 12-05-2020, 04:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
Update on the situation. We fought all day. I wasn’t going to say anything but she instantly started attacking me. I about ended it when she gave in telling me she loves me and they are friends. I’m weak to her because we are close but it’s sickening seeing my gf go out with these guys out of the blue. Now she calls me on the way home telling me she wishes I was in her bed and can’t wait to see me and everything seemed ok abs then she says I’m not sure where we are anymore. After a night out with your ex and his friends and now you don’t know where we are? I’m feeling very violent. I went off n her and we were supposed to do thanksgiving but it may be over now. She even said something like I hope you haven’t talked to any females today. It’s like I’m held hostage just waiting on her to find who she wants to get with while she tries to make me look bad in front of her sister.
sounds narcissistic srs

end it now and nc before you completely lose your mind
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post 1624565711 12-05-2020, 07:26 AM
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Lol at people taking OP seriously. He is clearly a troll who puts up with this chit at 40?
I did not have sexual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky. I never told anybody to lie, not a single time; never. These allegations are false. And I need to go back to work for the American people. Thank you.
post 1625199633 12-11-2020, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By billclintonnn
Lol at people taking OP seriously. He is clearly a troll who puts up with this chit at 40?
You would be surprised but most women I am meeting at this age have numerous guys they keep around. I’m good looking and feel I have everything to offer a woman but it’s always an issue abd there aren’t many females around. We worked it out but I came home and she is accusing me of talking to other women and I went off. Like how the hell are you accusing me of anything. It’s possibly going to end here soon. We went from being super close to this ****. I just feel like she will always want to be friends with her ex and all of his friends and it’s never going to workout for me. A lot of red flags here lately but the woman is obsessed with me. She has at least 500 photos of me abs for real loves me but she also loves clinging onto those other mf and that’s dangerous to me
post 1625205733 12-11-2020, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
You would be surprised but most women I am meeting at this age have numerous guys they keep around. I’m good looking and feel I have everything to offer a woman but it’s always an issue abd there aren’t many females around. We worked it out but I came home and she is accusing me of talking to other women and I went off. Like how the hell are you accusing me of anything. It’s possibly going to end here soon. We went from being super close to this ****. I just feel like she will always want to be friends with her ex and all of his friends and it’s never going to workout for me. A lot of red flags here lately but the woman is obsessed with me. She has at least 500 photos of me abs for real loves me but she also loves clinging onto those other mf and that’s dangerous to me
You will never have a healthy, stable relationship with this woman.
But if you don't think you're capable of doing better and are that desperate for company and sex then I guess that's the path you're choosing.

Just know plenty of men are in much better situations than you are (both single guys and guys in relationship). You're relationship is toxic AF and sounds draining.
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