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post 1625635453 12-15-2020, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
Lol at you srs. 34 years old with the mentality of a child

Youre the epitome of whats wrong with society. Keep up the act though its amusing for all of us.
I’ve likely never had women talk this badly behind my back. I wouldn’t care either way.
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post 1625643303 12-15-2020, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue
I’ve likely never had women talk this badly behind my back. I wouldn’t care either way.
I don't care about her gossiping, im more concerned with my own self respect and ego, which if I can fix this for next time will be fine.

Don't be fooled into thinking id let this **** boy get to me. He just has no outlet for his aggressive tendencies so tries to rile strangers online. Maybe some shrapnel got to his head because its a rather strange hobby

But that said we need plebians like this to remind us how not to be.
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post 1625649353 12-15-2020, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
I don't care about her gossiping, im more concerned with my own self respect and ego, which if I can fix this for next time will be fine.

Don't be fooled into thinking id let this **** boy get to me. He just has no outlet for his aggressive tendencies so tries to rile strangers online. Maybe some shrapnel got to his head because its a rather strange hobby

But that said we need plebians like this to remind us how not to be.
Hah true. I get what you’re saying... I’m the same and have had some issues like this before. I wear myself down sometimes and just need a break to recover. You’ll be okay.
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post 1625652983 12-15-2020, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
Girl I've been seeing recently.

In fairness I was really sleep deprived. We stayed together for 2 nights, and i only managed to get semi hard like twice

The rest of the time I would go soft or nothing would happen full stop

There were multiple times where she was literally sukking me off and nothing would happen. I would feel aroused but that's it. Another time I thought right emergency measures - I started jacking off then I put it inside her and went soft.

Was incredibly embarrassing for me, I spoke to her about it after and naturally she thought it was her like I didn't find her attractive or something - and I clarified i was just really tired

But the truth is I've been very tired before with girls and I've still been able to get hard, at least hard enough to put it in, and once that happens I'll usually make up the rest pretty quickly

For it to happen consecutively over a 2 day break (happened like 5 times) was just a massive blow to my ego and I feel like sh*t

Not really sure how to fix this problem other than making sure I sleep really well before I see her again. I'm even taking zinc, vit d and a multi - to no avail

I was horny af around her - i wanted to fuk her all the time - I just couldn't get it up

This is the first time this has happened consistently over a period. Need some serious input because if it happens next time I see her (scheduled for around 1 week from now) I'm thinking about breaking it off - purely to further protect my ego fully srs

I couldn't keep seeing a girl that my dick doesn't work for its embarrassing af

To make matters worse this is someone who i don't actually want to date seriously - we have really good sexual chemistry (up until this episode) and that was the main thing I was in this for.

I ate her out/fingered her a load of times (and she came every time) but just feel like a bit of a cuck when I'm not getting my own needs met, but it isn't even her fault.
post 1625698673 12-16-2020, 07:50 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
Any particular reason why you'd care w/ her more than any other women?

Could be you're not as attracted to her compared to who you were with prior to her and you're trying to give her your A+ game for the validation of knowing you're a stud but you're just not as into it as you want to be?

Or

She's more attractive than your last partner, or more experienced, or is someone you want to impress due to her social circle/status or something and you're putting too much pressure on yourself?

If it wasn't a problem the first few times then it could be a combination of things but taking a pill once or twice won't make you dependent on it. Or maybe you need a change and you've already peaked with her and it's time to move on.
missed this response my bad

your first suggestion might be true. I have a few reservations about her, and im really just trying to give her a good dicking for my own ego's sake. so that could be the problem but like i said it didn't happen the first few times. The sex was really good - so thankfully it's not like she thinks i can't get it up full stop

ive decided im not gonna go down the whole plll route, at least outside of natural ingredients.
I already have zma, vit d, and maca supps - which at 27 should be more than enough.

I'm gonna take that and not fap until i see her again.
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post 1625936573 12-18-2020, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
Girl I've been seeing recently.

In fairness I was really sleep deprived. We stayed together for 2 nights, and i only managed to get semi hard like twice

The rest of the time I would go soft or nothing would happen full stop

There were multiple times where she was literally sukking me off and nothing would happen. I would feel aroused but that's it. Another time I thought right emergency measures - I started jacking off then I put it inside her and went soft.

Was incredibly embarrassing for me, I spoke to her about it after and naturally she thought it was her like I didn't find her attractive or something - and I clarified i was just really tired

But the truth is I've been very tired before with girls and I've still been able to get hard, at least hard enough to put it in, and once that happens I'll usually make up the rest pretty quickly

For it to happen consecutively over a 2 day break (happened like 5 times) was just a massive blow to my ego and I feel like sh*t

Not really sure how to fix this problem other than making sure I sleep really well before I see her again. I'm even taking zinc, vit d and a multi - to no avail

I was horny af around her - i wanted to fuk her all the time - I just couldn't get it up

This is the first time this has happened consistently over a period. Need some serious input because if it happens next time I see her (scheduled for around 1 week from now) I'm thinking about breaking it off - purely to further protect my ego fully srs

I couldn't keep seeing a girl that my dick doesn't work for its embarrassing af

To make matters worse this is someone who i don't actually want to date seriously - we have really good sexual chemistry (up until this episode) and that was the main thing I was in this for.

I ate her out/fingered her a load of times (and she came every time) but just feel like a bit of a cuck when I'm not getting my own needs met, but it isn't even her fault.
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In all seriousness brah you could take a positive from this in that you haven't been getting hard and shes still willing to try with you. Sounds like a keeper/she really likes you. I know you said you don't want to take the blue pill but trying it once could be the play to get over the mental hump. Alternatively have you seen a docco yet? It does sound like a mental thing to me but couldn't hurt to make sure you're alright nomsayin'?

Best of luck with your ween
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