You made 2 mistakes. Opened with small talk & followed up with an emoji. Two things girls hate.

Opener should be straight to the point, telling her you find her attractive, followed by a question.

And ideally the question should in some vague way give her the impression that it's important in some way to setting up a date with her, not just something random.

lmao what the fuk are you talking about

OP did fine assuming that's consistent with the strength/vibe of his profile and personality

your feedback is vague and useless in itself.

people are still peddling this retarded notion that real sexual attraction and desire can be negotiated

Oh and to answer the OP question...downloaded Hinge, and Bumble a couple months ago, been smashing chicks from there every weekend since I downloaded them.

I'm a completely average looking dude, with good pics & text game.

Last date I smashed was complaining there were too many guys trying to be models on there (lol), or trying to be sound cloud musicians (wtf)

Not sure what "real sexual attraction and desire can be negotiated" even means, but what you text/say obviously makes a big difference.

Not sure what was vague, I laid it out pretty clear.

I downloaded it a few days ago just because I heard from Silencespeaks the passport feature was free for this month. I've had a lot of fun matching and flirting with good-looking women from around the world.

To be honest, it's been an incredible ego boost since I am matching with some very beautiful women. I doubt that would happen if I weren't passporting around the world. On the other hand, I put almost no effort into my profile. All I have are three selfies of me alone. No shirtless pic or anything like that. No bio. I am only average looking, though I do have blue eyes.

Probably most guys aren't interested in connecting with random chicks from around the world, but I think it's fun. I met one extremely interesting girl who I talked to for hours the day we matched.

use this in an example

I think dating apps are mostly trash tbh. I have went on many dates on them. Something casual? okay. Serious? It is not the way. The chances of meeting someone decent is low.

Personally think its not worth the admin and time.

still crushing tinder like it's 2013

Chad out unless the woman you talked with for hours was Filipina

I only swipe right on women if under 25, skinny, no IG link, no LGBT flags on profile, can't be flat chested, etc.


Somehow people call that high standards when the average foid is like: "he must be 6 feet, 6 figure income, 6 pack abs, multimillionaire, traveled to 60+ countries, model face aethestics" whilst the female is a 4.

Struggled on tinder but doing good on hinge. No idea what the difference would be

how do you have 6 pictures lol? I only have 2 on Tinder. Can't use hinge because you need 6.

Hey man, why would u think girls would report u if u r shirtless?

This happened to me too

girls get jealous when guys are a prize. THey have thousands of pictures on their phones of themselves in the same 4 angles but get mad when a guy mogs them and takes away all their attention.

Just got blocked by a girl when i asked: "why girls like iphones so much?", she messaged me 1st btw. Another one stopped responding cos "she read my message and in her head it was in a rude tone". I literally do not care in a slightest.
Only way to tinder: Be lean, take good pics and put as little effort as possible with 0 expectations. Every 1-2 month i have some 6-7\10 girl with high interest that i can bang. Good enough.

1-2 months while she can get a guy every meal of the day with a boring ass persoanlity and subpar face.

as a guy i have to be successful, handsome, charming, and even then I still have to jestermax wehn she gets to sit back and enjoy the ride.

It is what it is. At least i'm not that guy to wine and dine for nothing.

Nothing new here. You either lucky enough to meet good girl in social circle/activities/work or stuck with dating apps and girls 1-3 points lower than you.

I don't think any slim pretty girl is on dating apps to find anything except ig followers. They have lot's of guys of any caliber hitting on them irl.

I had only 3 opportunities to bang those in 3 years span. Tho i failed every time due to impatiens.

I still swipe yet for the past 5 years I get next to zero results.