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Asked bumble chick to get coffee- this is what she said
09-01-2022, 10:04 AM
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OP you did nothing wrong. I have never understood why people are on dating apps but refuse to actually date. I was on there to find someone I liked enough to date, not for attention or penpals. If I was interested in someone from online dating I usually met them within a week or two. The only reason for a longer delay was because I had my son and could only date when he was with his dad. There were times when I was available and met in the first couple days. No point wasting time texting when you don't know if you're actually going to be attracted to them in person.
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09-01-2022, 11:27 PM
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She doesn’t like you.
Women aren’t just gonna come outright and tell you “hey, I never wanna talk again and I’m seeing/banging someone else right now who I think is the better option.”
That’s exactly what is happening right now^ Just delete her number and move on to the next. If she comes back she comes back.
Women aren’t just gonna come outright and tell you “hey, I never wanna talk again and I’m seeing/banging someone else right now who I think is the better option.”
That’s exactly what is happening right now^ Just delete her number and move on to the next. If she comes back she comes back.
09-01-2022, 11:31 PM
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Red flag bro, any woman that is hesitant to meet up is an ogre in real life.
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09-03-2022, 06:15 AM
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09-03-2022, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I think for women #1 is about getting social validation. If they can get chad or tyrone to slide through its just icing on the cake.I have never understood why people are on dating apps but refuse to actually date.
Online dating is pretty much the worst. As has always been the case, stop messaging women first. If they are interested they'll let you know about it.
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09-04-2022, 12:01 AM
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Sounds like a waste of time. I only used a dating app once and it was filled with no responses or gay **** like the Convo in the OP.
Went to college, and the women there are more normal to talk to.
None of this bull**** wasting time crap.
She sounds retarded OP plain and simple.
Even girls in highschool were more normal than that crap.
Went to college, and the women there are more normal to talk to.
None of this bull**** wasting time crap.
She sounds retarded OP plain and simple.
Even girls in highschool were more normal than that crap.
09-04-2022, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I was thinking along these lines. Maybe they don't really look like their pictures. Maybe they are using someone else's pics and all they can settle for is the texting and online companionship.Red flag bro, any woman that is hesitant to meet up is an ogre in real life.
Just meet people irl -- none of this online nonsense. Most are probably below average at best.
09-04-2022, 01:07 PM
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Yeah, she is attention whoring.
Lots of chicks (and brahs) on online dating are super avoidant, and they will unmatch you or refuse to meet you for the dumbest chit simply because they are afraid to. But just coming out and point-blank saying "I'm not ready for a relationship!"... then what the fuk are you doing on dating apps, brahette.
Lots of chicks (and brahs) on online dating are super avoidant, and they will unmatch you or refuse to meet you for the dumbest chit simply because they are afraid to. But just coming out and point-blank saying "I'm not ready for a relationship!"... then what the fuk are you doing on dating apps, brahette.
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09-04-2022, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
this...she'd even meet up the day ofTranslation : she's mostly using the app for attention from guys like you but if someone really caught her eye she'd meet that day
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09-04-2022, 01:20 PM
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09-05-2022, 10:26 AM
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lol. she using you for attention. realize that and cut her tf off. aint got time for that nonsense
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09-27-2022, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So you want to keep a guy around to hopefully someday be able to ride his coattail from HIS achievements?Yes this is normal. I don’t meet up with 99% of guys I chat with. Plenty of guys are willing to chat for months or years without meeting up srs.
I’ve chatted with a Notre Dame football player for years now without ever meeting up. We just talk and exchange nudes etc. He’s cool af to talk to. I’m going to keep him as a pen pal in case he makes the NFL because it will be cool to have an NFL pen pal.
I’ve chatted with a Notre Dame football player for years now without ever meeting up. We just talk and exchange nudes etc. He’s cool af to talk to. I’m going to keep him as a pen pal in case he makes the NFL because it will be cool to have an NFL pen pal.
10-06-2022, 03:21 PM
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No, you did nothing wrong.
Translation to her last message: Thank you for your attention, validation and for slightly boosting my ego by asking me out. That's all I'm here for.
Honestly? Immediately after I would seeI can't meet up yet, I don't do meet ups just yet hahahshe would get unmatched, ghosted etc
Translation to her last message: Thank you for your attention, validation and for slightly boosting my ego by asking me out. That's all I'm here for.
Honestly? Immediately after I would seeI can't meet up yet, I don't do meet ups just yet hahahshe would get unmatched, ghosted etc
10-06-2022, 05:43 PM
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if you had a few days of texting already under your belt i would expect at least a blow job on the first date
lucky you let this one go, a real time waster. probably texting a few guys just for the attention fix
girls that are into you make it easy for you, remember that
lucky you let this one go, a real time waster. probably texting a few guys just for the attention fix
girls that are into you make it easy for you, remember that
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10-06-2022, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
most delusional poster I see here consistently nglif you had a few days of texting already under your belt i would expect at least a blow job on the first date
lucky you let this one go, a real time waster. probably texting a few guys just for the attention fix
girls that are into you make it easy for you, remember that
lucky you let this one go, a real time waster. probably texting a few guys just for the attention fix
girls that are into you make it easy for you, remember that
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10-06-2022, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Now you're not even doing an original LARP anymore but just copying Mantai Teo's story.Yes this is normal. I don’t meet up with 99% of guys I chat with. Plenty of guys are willing to chat for months or years without meeting up srs.
I’ve chatted with a Notre Dame football player for years now without ever meeting up. We just talk and exchange nudes etc. He’s cool af to talk to. I’m going to keep him as a pen pal in case he makes the NFL because it will be cool to have an NFL pen pal.
I’ve chatted with a Notre Dame football player for years now without ever meeting up. We just talk and exchange nudes etc. He’s cool af to talk to. I’m going to keep him as a pen pal in case he makes the NFL because it will be cool to have an NFL pen pal.
10-06-2022, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By estival⏩
this doesn't mean she's seeing someone elseShe doesn’t like you.
Women aren’t just gonna come outright and tell you “hey, I never wanna talk again and I’m seeing/banging someone else right now who I think is the better option.”
That’s exactly what is happening right now^ Just delete her number and move on to the next. If she comes back she comes back.
Women aren’t just gonna come outright and tell you “hey, I never wanna talk again and I’m seeing/banging someone else right now who I think is the better option.”
That’s exactly what is happening right now^ Just delete her number and move on to the next. If she comes back she comes back.
it could be literally anything lol
who the hell cares what the reason is anyways, she isn't interested for whatever reason
alot of people here think there alwayshasto be another dude involved, idk why
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10-07-2022, 04:37 AM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
you cannot make statements like that brah. ask the female miscers in this thread to be honest and see if they sucked a dick on the first date. lol if they say they haven't. srs.most delusional poster I see here consistently ngl
now as a man that knows when a woman is feeling him, and wants the cawk, it isn't all that difficult to do.
one woman i had texted on and off for almost year a while back. a handful of times. not daily/monthly conversations like SS sloot above. we would match on bumble maybe 2 or 3 times. but it never went anywhere as she was looking for a relationship. we had 1 phone call also during that time. anyhow, one evening she invited me over. and she swallowed within 30 minutes of meeting in person. and later that night after she paid for a bottle of vodka, she got creampied in the ass also. and again in the morning - and swallowed in the morning also.
i don't understand how you think these things cannot happen.
of course there has been countless times of just meeting randoms and the same things have happened. handjobs in the car, blow jobs in the park, anal at the lake.
i've since changed my ways though and am no longer a sloot maker.
God willing.
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10-12-2022, 09:19 AM
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Just be prepared to have your feelings hurt when you see her Instagram posts riding around with some Chad
11-03-2022, 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By antman12⏩
Sloots gunna slootThis.
Move on OP
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11-05-2022, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
It’s normal when you’re not Chad, yes. She’s sitting around pining for that one super hot dude she knows, wishing that he would text her back. But he’s too busy rotating the 13 other women (that are hotter than her) through his house every week, and he forgets about her. Meanwhile, she looks for validation in other men that she’s not attracted to, but can get free attention from.Me: What's your schedule like for the rest of the month? Let's meet for coffee
Her: I can't meet up yet, I don't do meet ups just yet hahah
Me: why?
Her: I'm just not used to meeting up with people and just not ready for that. That's all.
Me: No worries
Her: [Irrelevant smiling dog gif]
Me:When you're ready, give me a text. Cos I don't wanna invest in something which isn't actually going anywhere. Just being honest.
Her; You know what, I have no idea when will I be ready.. Just to be fair and honest, I'm not really looking into relationships or anything ar the moment, I don't want to waste your time any further so I think it's better to stop this chatting thing but let me tell you, in a short period of time I enjoyed our conversation. Thank you for your time
wish you all the best!
Me:
Sure, all the best.
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Is this normal nowadays? People just want to chat and not actually meet? You can't get get know someone online. I get for a woman it's a bigger deal to meet up with a guy you don't know but you need to take a risk.
Glad I nipped this in the bud. Gave her an option to text me when she is 'ready' whatever that means but she'd rather cut me off for being assertive. OK lol
Anything I did wrong here? Surely this was a better option than texting her for weeks on end with no meet up
Especially now that I've said to meet and she said no I'd be completely bending in to her frame which I don't want.
Shed meet up for Brad Pitt etc.
Her: I can't meet up yet, I don't do meet ups just yet hahah
Me: why?
Her: I'm just not used to meeting up with people and just not ready for that. That's all.
Me: No worries
Her: [Irrelevant smiling dog gif]
Me:When you're ready, give me a text. Cos I don't wanna invest in something which isn't actually going anywhere. Just being honest.
Her; You know what, I have no idea when will I be ready.. Just to be fair and honest, I'm not really looking into relationships or anything ar the moment, I don't want to waste your time any further so I think it's better to stop this chatting thing but let me tell you, in a short period of time I enjoyed our conversation. Thank you for your time
wish you all the best!Me:
Sure, all the best.
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Is this normal nowadays? People just want to chat and not actually meet? You can't get get know someone online. I get for a woman it's a bigger deal to meet up with a guy you don't know but you need to take a risk.
Glad I nipped this in the bud. Gave her an option to text me when she is 'ready' whatever that means but she'd rather cut me off for being assertive. OK lol
Anything I did wrong here? Surely this was a better option than texting her for weeks on end with no meet up
Especially now that I've said to meet and she said no I'd be completely bending in to her frame which I don't want.
Shed meet up for Brad Pitt etc.
Meanwhile, she sits and laments, “I don’t know what’s wrong with men these days. There’s no good ones left. They’re all players”
A tale as old as time.
11-05-2022, 07:25 AM
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You have to have professional photo shoot pics and a link to social media with minimum 10,000 followers
She swiped right cause she thought your lead pic was decent but upon further review your account as a whole doesnt warrant a meet up, she is looking for high status gigachad with social and financial proof. Being a mediocre bradlite is not enough anymore.
She swiped right cause she thought your lead pic was decent but upon further review your account as a whole doesnt warrant a meet up, she is looking for high status gigachad with social and financial proof. Being a mediocre bradlite is not enough anymore.
11-05-2022, 07:40 AM
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* makes dating profile
* takes photos of butt cheeks being spread open and every Picture bent over
*alcohol in every photo
*bikini pictures in middle of winter
“NoT LoOkInG for dates! Friends only! Shirt off automatic ignored! I have a boyfriend!!”
Lmao Idk how some of y’all so desperate these days for these toxic people
* takes photos of butt cheeks being spread open and every Picture bent over
*alcohol in every photo
*bikini pictures in middle of winter
“NoT LoOkInG for dates! Friends only! Shirt off automatic ignored! I have a boyfriend!!”
Lmao Idk how some of y’all so desperate these days for these toxic people
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11-05-2022, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Olympia2018⏩
Equally as funny is when the same profile has “looking for serious relationships only”. Ahhh judging by your pictures your not datable.* makes dating profile
* takes photos of butt cheeks being spread open and every Picture bent over
*alcohol in every photo
*bikini pictures in middle of winter
“NoT LoOkInG for dates! Friends only! Shirt off automatic ignored! I have a boyfriend!!”
Lmao Idk how some of y’all so desperate these days for these toxic people
* takes photos of butt cheeks being spread open and every Picture bent over
*alcohol in every photo
*bikini pictures in middle of winter
“NoT LoOkInG for dates! Friends only! Shirt off automatic ignored! I have a boyfriend!!”
Lmao Idk how some of y’all so desperate these days for these toxic people
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