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post 1687590983 08-01-2023, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By akmerle⏩
Jesus dude, how many times do folks have to tell you to go strict “no contact”?

You obviously want the drama with her as a way of staying connected to her.

Then you decide to do this while at work, after already being put on notice she is willing to threaten your career? Giving her a clear cut instance where she can go to HR and say are harassing / intimidating her at work?

You are showing just as much emotional / mental issues as she is.

Be an effing adult, stop any and all forms of contact with her, and move TF on.
I don't even want drama I just want to try and be on good terms with her but she's evidently batch*t insane so just tries to hurt me in any interaction we have. Imagine lying about being pregnant ..?

I've never met a girl with such evident mental health issues - she was so dead set on hurting me/making me jealous she came off as totally unhinged, totally changed my view of her.

The only good I see in her now is the sex. All the other memories have been tarnished by her actions .. I wish I could totally forget everything and have never met her srs

Always thought she was just clingy/immature/insecure from the early days but nothing more. Boy was I wrong

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post 1687601033 08-01-2023, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted By TheDude8734⏩
How to properly respond to this:

I read it as he was the one who said "lets talk"
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Any time you start dating someone, it's going to end one of two ways: you're either together for the rest of your lives, or you break up. Do you really want to be with this chick forever? If not, and especially when dealing with crazy, eject as soon as possible and count yourself lucky that she didn't burn your house down or boil your bunny rabbit.
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
I don't even want drama I just want to try and be on good terms with herbut she's evidently batch*t insane so just tries to hurt me in any interaction we have. Imagine lying about being pregnant ..?

I've never met a girl with such evident mental health issues - she was so dead set on hurting me/making me jealous she came off as totally unhinged, totally changed my view of her.

The only good I see in her now is the sex. All the other memories have been tarnished by her actions .. I wish I could totally forget everything and have never met her srs

Always thought she was just clingy/immature/insecure from the early days but nothing more. Boy was I wrong

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Originally Posted By PapaPrime⏩
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P.S. whenever someone violates your trust in a relationship by say.. going through your phone.. you know it's not there, bro
when she did that, i called her out - she got super upset, starting professing her love for me and cried
in a moment of weakness to make her feel better, i said if u wanna check my phone if u really feel sus about me then at least ask before.. just dont try and go behind my back and do it.

2 months later later when she felt sus - she asked, and i told her no cos in the time between then and now I decided it was a violation of my privacy and i wasn't ok with it. The reason why she couldn't trust me ought to be fixed - and seeing 'hard evidence' by checking my phone wouldn't solve the underlying issue. she was having none of it.

when she said but before you told me i could see if i asked - i admitted that I said that in the heat of the moment to make her feel better. she framed it that i lied to her, and that im a liar - srs

from that moment on, she always believed i was hiding something and that was the time (according to her) she stopped trusting me and it was always a massive struggle after that

also cos she was convinced i was a 'liar' i believe she lied to me many times, about many things. i now know this to be 'revenge lying' where she feels i deserve to be deceived
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
I don't even want drama I just want to try and be on good terms with her
If someone is no longer in your life (which she should no longer be as you are going NC, right?) then it literally makes zero difference if you are on good terms or bad terms.

You have to be okay with being the villain in her story and not giving a sh*t because you are at ease with yourself and the truth.
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Do you guys not think it's absolutely insane a girl would straight up claim she's pregnant just to get a rise out of me?

And when I act like I ask her to show me the test she goes 'why do you care, you don't wanna have kids yet anyways'

Then goes 'maybe it's not yours' again to get a rise out of me

This is in the same convo where she said she just handed out her number to another guy

From 1-10 how insane is she ?
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post 1687651623 08-02-2023, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
If someone is no longer in your life (which she should no longer be as you are going NC, right?) then it literally makes zero difference if you are on good terms or bad terms.

You have to be okay with being the villain in her story and not giving a sh*t because you are at ease with yourself and the truth.
Youre right .. just bothers me still

Can't believe I fell for someone so psycho
Probs getting her pussy filled as we speak
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
when she did that, i called her out - she got super upset, starting professing her love for me and cried
in a moment of weakness to make her feel better, i said if u wanna check my phone if u really feel sus about me then at least ask before.. just dont try and go behind my back and do it.

2 months later later when she felt sus - she asked, and i told her no cos in the time between then and now I decided it was a violation of my privacy and i wasn't ok with it. The reason why she couldn't trust me ought to be fixed - and seeing 'hard evidence' by checking my phone wouldn't solve the underlying issue. she was having none of it.

when she said but before you told me i could see if i asked - i admitted that I said that in the heat of the moment to make her feel better. she framed it that i lied to her, and that im a liar - srs

from that moment on, she always believed i was hiding something and that was the time (according to her) she stopped trusting me and it was always a massive struggle after that

also cos she was convinced i was a 'liar' i believe she lied to me many times, about many things. i now know this to be 'revenge lying' where she feels i deserve to be deceived
Haha you broke your word.. should've let her look and then been like "this is the last time"

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Originally Posted By PapaPrime⏩
Haha you broke your word.. should've let her look and then been like "this is the last time"
Yeah I guess you're right tbf..

I was super stubborn about it.
But even if she was right to be mad at that time for me breaking my word I still think it's wrong for her to even ask

And all the **** that's happening now it also wrong
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
And all the **** that's happening now it also wrong
I genuinely hope you listen to everyone telling you to STOP ALL CONTACT WITH HER, AND MOVE TF ON. What she is doing may be wrong, but you are the one willfully engaging in the manipulative toxicity. You have the option and ability to end this, but choose not to. In terms of respecting one’s self and being a man, you are the one who is even more in the wrong.

I promise you that once you truly move on and be happy, you will look back and be disgusted at how you are currently conducting yourself. Like genuinely want to kick your own ass for how weak and moronic you are being. We’ve all been there, and it only gets better when you start making better choices….. which is going no contact, deleting all connection, don’t interact with her, and ignore her.
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OP it looks like you’re going thru a break up and want answers, she is not going to give them to you and she knows it is hurting you.

I’ve been in your exact shoes before but let me be clear, once a girl threatens your lively hood (cops, job, family, friends) you need to STFU, do NOT EVER contact her again and move on today.



She does not love you, she does not care about you, in fact she doesn’t care about you so much she’s willing to ruin your life in order for her to feel better about herself being rejected of her emotional damage


No grown woman has friends read her private texts and contact people they had relationships with.


Bro listen to me… do not ever contact her again, do not ask her “just one more question”, what she did is betrayed you and she let you suffer for days now, confused, hurt and lost.



Pick your fukn pants up, go clean yourself up, workout, and go talk to other random woman and move on.


Do not settle for betrayal. The things this woman will do to you in the future I promise you, you will regret not listening to all of us now
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Originally Posted By Olympia2018⏩
OP it looks like you’re going thru a break up and want answers, she is not going to give them to you and she knows it is hurting you.

I’ve been in your exact shoes before but let me be clear, once a girl threatens your lively hood (cops, job, family, friends) you need to STFU, do NOT EVER contact her again and move on today.



She does not love you, she does not care about you, in fact she doesn’t care about you so much she’s willing to ruin your life in order for her to feel better about herself being rejected of her emotional damage


No grown woman has friends read her private texts and contact people they had relationships with.


Bro listen to me… do not ever contact her again, do not ask her “just one more question”, what she did is betrayed you and she let you suffer for days now, confused, hurt and lost.



Pick your fukn pants up, go clean yourself up, workout, and go talk to other random woman and move on.


Do not settle for betrayal. The things this woman will do to you in the future I promise you, you will regret not listening to all of us now
Fuk.. I know you're right man

I guess I'm still in a denial phase thinking I can fix it

Part of me thinks she deluded herself into believing I moved on and stopped caring so she did as well.. but she never even tried to clarify it or talk about it

So seems she made her mind up .. even after the other day when she said sue was pregnant (lmao) never bothered to call or text. Maybe her ego is so big.. even if she still cares she's just forcing herself not to ? But women operate emotionally. I don't think she'd have the resolve to not reach out if she still cared.

Honestly, this is the kind of stuff I only read about online and never believe it would happen to me
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shes obviously a complete basketcase. move on. putting up with this is just like saying this is what you deserve and this is your standard.

the bich violates one more boundary, next for good.
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Fuk.. I know you're right man

I guess I'm still in a denial phase thinking I can fix it

Part of me thinks she deluded herself into believing I moved on and stopped caring so she did as well.. but she never even tried to clarify it or talk about it

So seems she made her mind up .. even after the other day when she said sue was pregnant (lmao) never bothered to call or text. Maybe her ego is so big.. even if she still cares she's just forcing herself not to ? But women operate emotionally. I don't think she'd have the resolve to not reach out if she still cared.

Honestly, this is the kind of stuff I only read about online and never believe it would happen to me
Nah it’s real life and we all have gone thru this.


Once a girl betrays you, you stop asking yourself questions, stop doubting you could’ve done better or maybe she’s just confused etc etc etc


There is nothing for yourself to be confused about. She betrayed y’all’s relationship and let you suffer. Time to go talk to her best friends and hit the gym


And do not ever fukn talk to her again. Anywhere. Idc if it’s secret messages thru the stars, do not do it.
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Originally Posted By Olympia2018⏩
Nah it’s real life and we all have gone thru this.


Once a girl betrays you, you stop asking yourself questions, stop doubting you could’ve done better or maybe she’s just confused etc etc etc


There is nothing for yourself to be confused about. She betrayed y’all’s relationship and let you suffer. Time to go talk to her best friends and hit the gym


And do not ever fukn talk to her again. Anywhere. Idc if it’s secret messages thru the stars, do not do it.
Do you think it was still a betrayal if we were already broken up at that point but still talking semi-nornally?

I felt like it was at the time (cos it basically insulted everything we had and I had made it clear I still cared about her). But now I'm wondering cos maybe she didn't owe me anything..

But yeah to me, sending your friend my contact details (in order for her to harass me (ironic)) still stings me. She later told me it was cos I was complaining about her actions during our relationship and she had just had enough.. so she got her mate to write an offensive text and them to start trash talking me privately

I've heard this girl speak to her - she bosses her around and controls her under the guise of care. They're both Asian and her friend is older so there is this kind of power dynamic thing

Even before we broke up she talked to her like crap, so I think my ex does whatever she says.

So she would for sure be telling her to probably act totally uncaring, and treat me like crap even if she wants to reach out. How much would she let her be in control tho? How much has she actually brainwashed her vs her own genuine feelings?

I know I'm finding ways to ease the blame on her but it's just fukked up how a girl goes from so loving and kind to the total opposite.
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What does she have on you that could get you fired?

Just keep documents and texts saved in case and ignore.. don't see the problem. It's her way of grieving and trying to "win" the situation
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
What does she have on you that could get you fired?

Just keep documents and texts saved in case and ignore.. don't see the problem. It's her way of grieving and trying to "win" the situation
Not sure. Ive never been abusive or harassed her in any way

But I feel like toward the end she might have recorded some of our conversations. Just a feeling.

Also why would she need to win anything - she's already convinced she's the one who broke up and left me .. if she was so hurt why not just admit it and try to fix things instead of telling me shes giving your number to other guys
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Do you guys not think it's absolutely insane a girl would straight up claim she's pregnant just to get a rise out of me?

And when I act like I ask her to show me the test she goes 'why do you care, you don't wanna have kids yet anyways'

Then goes 'maybe it's not yours' again to get a rise out of me

This is in the same convo where she said she just handed out her number to another guy

From 1-10 how insane is she ?
I don't think she is insane.

This is female nature. Female nature is cruel and merciless when you show weakness.

Even the nicest of girls can end up treating you like dog poop.

You should have removed yourself from this situation immediately. Instead you kept probing, now she doesn't respect you at all.

And without remorse will treat you like crap and say whatever crazy things she wants to say.

She has that power.
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Originally Posted By BulletDodged⏩
I don't think she is insane.

This is female nature. Female nature is cruel and merciless when you show weakness.

Even the nicest of girls can end up treating you like dog poop.

You should have removed yourself from this situation immediately. Instead you kept probing, now she doesn't respect you at all.

And without remorse will treat you like crap and say whatever crazy things she wants to say.

She has that power.
Women in my experience still have some level of affection or attraction to their ex even when they broke up .. I've never been the subject of this kind of treatment before. I put so much effort into our relationship and she has just painted me black and said I never tried and never loved her.

Its true I did 'ocassionally' not prioritise her, go out of my way for her but that was in truth cos she became incessantly demanding, argumentative and needy and I needed a break from it.. she blamed these actions on me though of course

I don't think I've done anything to make her hate me or wanna hurt me .. maybe lying and changing reality is her way of forcing herself to move on. Fukked up tho
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So you were off the hook, finally, and then decided to blow up her phone at the end and give her all the power?

You sure are a miscer.
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Originally Posted By BullittEV⏩
So you were off the hook, finally, and then decided to blow up her phone at the end and give her all the power?

You sure are a miscer.
Up until now although we fought about stupid stuff a lot we were always very close.. didn't expect her to change overnight once her friend got involved ..

I honestly thought it was a misunderstanding we could fix.
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Up until now although we fought about stupid stuff a lot we were always very close.. didn't expect her to change overnight once her friend got involved ..

I honestly thought it was a misunderstanding we could fix.
How? All you did was fight, you hated it. She told you directly youll never be together.

And you still wanted it? You love abuse, bro. Youre the male equivalent of chicks that go back to abusive relationships.
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Originally Posted By BullittEV⏩
How? All you did was fight, you hated it. She told you directly youll never be together.

And you still wanted it? You love abuse, bro. Youre the male equivalent of chicks that go back to abusive relationships.
I mean .. I wouldn't go as far as saying i hates the relationship. I hated fighting about the same thing .. circular arguments, feeling like she didn't trust me etc

I hated how she often thought in black and white extremes only. She'd often use always/never statements about stuff I did like 'you never make effort for me' 'do you care about me at all' 'did you ever love me' etc when I was clearly putting effort and time toward her and showing her love (so to imply I was putting zero effort was definitely wrong). I felt unappreciated for what I 'did' do.

Bur then other times it would feel really close like she was obsessed with me, and the sex was good too. She was young and hot and hadn't been with that many guys. There was positives to her
Originally Posted By BullittEV⏩
She told you directly youll never be together.
Her friend wrote that text and told her to send it to me. She said later that she didn't mean it she was just super upset at me. But also never apologised for it or tried to fix things after.

Admittedly, when I saw her in person last week - she did look like she felt nothing for me, and ofc telling me she gave her number to another guy was pretty fukked up. So irrespective of who sent texts and for what reason .. her actions are kinda hard to argue with now I've seen her.

A lot of signs point to her having either BPD or NPD or a mix of both .. but the weird thing is the never tried to get back with me except in the first like 2 weeks .. but it was very vague efforts. Nothing direct like apologising or saying she wants to fix it or change.

Maybe cos she's found other guys to give her attention. Maybe cos she wants to try and hurt me. Honestly didn't think she'd walk away and actually stick to it

Kind if commendable she can have that resolve but also be an insecure jealous liar at the same time
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post 1687986963 08-08-2023, 09:16 AM
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  1. smashedurgfx10
  1. smashedurgfx10
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She stalked my IG followers again and messages them

I have totally removed her from my account, and she somehow found a girl who I recently followed

She messaged her and asked how I knew her and 'if we were dating'. The girl sent me screenshots of her asking.

Seems like she wants to find an excuse to prove that I'm a villain (in her mind) cos I'd previously told her I'm not dating

But Jesus- how tf did she even find this girl.
The girl has a public account, but what are the chances she'd see her post and see that I liked it if she isn't on my list? Has she installed some spy ware on my phone or something ?

She messaged her within 20mins of us following from some burner account which I'd never seen before

I haven't called her out cos no point. She will justify it somehow.
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