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post 1701520421 05-25-2024, 02:51 AM
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Originally Posted By AlBHappy⏩
Karma for being a rude churl to Dusty last month.
Who?
post 1701568801 05-26-2024, 07:42 AM
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It's Memorial Day weekend and people are still whining they can't get laid XD.
post 1701597951 05-26-2024, 10:59 PM
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Found my future wife.
post 1701605261 05-27-2024, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Found my future wife.
I'm sorry you're so attracted to retards.
post 1701756391 05-30-2024, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Plus you have a great personality, truly baffling why you can't attract women.
Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
What girl doesn't want a man who complains about how women don't like him on an online forum everyday?
Lmao...

In other news, everytime I go to get boba tea I see so many average and below average young couples. I also see so many average couples at shopping malls. Maybe people on this forum are having dating issues is because they are above average???
post 1701760771 05-30-2024, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Lmao...

In other news, everytime I go to get boba tea I see so many average and below average young couples. I also see so many average couples at shopping malls. Maybe people on this forum are having dating issues is because theythink theyare above average???
Fixed your post.

Seriously though, I think it's more due to personality issues wrt attracting women. Not even so much looks (although imbored21 fails on both counts)
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post 1701798891 05-31-2024, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Lmao...

In other news, everytime I go to get boba tea I see so many average and below average young couples. I also see so many average couples at shopping malls. Maybe people on this forum are having dating issues is because they are above average???
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fixed your post.

Seriously though, I think it's more due to personality issues wrt attracting women. Not even so much looks (although imbored21 fails on both counts)
I definitely have the mindset of "I'm at my best at 36 - I don't want to settle for someone whose best days are behind them" which keeps my standards high but is also a bit limiting.
I can't complain with how my online experience has been compared to others but I probably need to get back out there more IRL to bat at or above my league looks-wise.
post 1701815431 05-31-2024, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
I definitely have the mindset of "I'm at my best at 36 - I don't want to settle for someone whose best days are behind them" which keeps my standards high but is also a bit limiting.
I can't complain with how my online experience has been compared to others but I probably need to get back out there more IRL to bat at or above my league looks-wise.
Same here man. Girls truly don’t act the same on apps as irl.
I’m starting to focus on getting out. I think my number one drawback is I’ve been living too far from a real dating scene and relying too much on these apps.
Started looking at apartments in a city nearby with much more going on. Have to move from my comfort zone I think. Put it off too long. Also joining a running club in the city.
Still will utilize apps. For now bumble has died for me. May be back on hinge this weekend. We all gonna make it brahs.
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
Same here man. Girls truly don’t act the same on apps as irl.
I’m starting to focus on getting out. I think my number one drawback is I’ve been living too far from a real dating scene and relying too much on these apps.
Started looking at apartments in a city nearby with much more going on. Have to move from my comfort zone I think. Put it off too long. Also joining a running club in the city.
Still will utilize apps. For now bumble has died for me. May be back on hinge this weekend.We all gonna make it brahs.
Godspeed brother
post 1701941471 06-03-2024, 07:16 PM
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I'm mentally ill. I watch this clip every day before bed and get flustered by her cuteness. Makes me feel soo lonely I don't have a girl who makes me feel this way. Like teenagers in love...

post 1701944741 06-03-2024, 09:01 PM
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Must suck to be an incel and a loser like the rest of your butt buddies in this forum eh imbored?
post 1701962981 06-04-2024, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
Same here man. Girls truly don’t act the same on apps as irl.
I’m starting to focus on getting out. I think my number one drawback is I’ve been living too far from a real dating scene and relying too much on these apps.
Started looking at apartments in a city nearby with much more going on. Have to move from my comfort zone I think. Put it off too long. Also joining a running club in the city.
Still will utilize apps. For now bumble has died for me. May be back on hinge this weekend. We all gonna make it brahs.
Cheers man, best of luck to you as well.

Yeah I also just don't want to go out nearly as much as I used to. I like looking for events to attend but rarely in the mood to go out drinking on a weekend night like I used to be (and I don't think I'm going to find someone I'm interested in at a bar at 1am).
I tend to be in a better mood and more likely to chat up women when I'm traveling - need to bring that energy when I'm out and about in my city.
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Finally have something to contribute to this thread.

I haven't been trying to date, but a coworker connected me up with her cousin, and I grabbed coffee with her last night for a blind date Kinda interesting, this was my first blind date ever. Leading up to it was way more nerve-wracking, though maybe that's also just since it's been a while.

She was actually good looking like my coworker said, and I thought we got along pretty well. Not too sure that she's into it though - she insisted on paying for herself, goodbye was a bit awkward, and I wound up being the one to text afterward (just did so now), but we shall see.
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Finally have something to contribute to this thread.

I haven't been trying to date, but a coworker connected me up with her cousin, and I grabbed coffee with her last night for a blind date Kinda interesting, this was my first blind date ever. Leading up to it was way more nerve-wracking, though maybe that's also just since it's been a while.

She was actually good looking like my coworker said, and I thought we got along pretty well. Not too sure that she's into it though - she insisted on paying for herself, goodbye was a bit awkward, and I wound up being the one to text afterward (just did so now), but we shall see.
Aw fuk hi she says it was "wonderful" meeting me and wants to meet again
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Aw fuk hi she says it was "wonderful" meeting me and wants to meet again
Nice, BOL.

How long you been taking a break from dating and why?
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Nice, BOL.

How long you been taking a break from dating and why?
Thanks brah. The start with covid/living at my mom's a bit, but my health's just been a chit show the past few years. Knee issue took two surgeries and is *close* to better now, have a shoulder surgery in 3 weeks, my hands are fuk-y (autoimmune arthritis? No clue), and I've got some persistent ankle issues as well.

Between injury restrictions and time spent with appointments, it's just been hard to answer the question "what do I do for fun," so I figure it's not worth worrying about dating when I struggled with it while fully healthy.
post 1702111971 06-07-2024, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Thanks brah. The start with covid/living at my mom's a bit, but my health's just been a chit show the past few years. Knee issue took two surgeries and is *close* to better now, have a shoulder surgery in 3 weeks, my hands are fuk-y (autoimmune arthritis? No clue), and I've got some persistent ankle issues as well.

Between injury restrictions and time spent with appointments, it's just been hard to answer the question "what do I do for fun," so I figure it's not worth worrying about dating when I struggled with it while fully healthy.
Ah sorry to hear and hope things improve for ya. Dating is tough when you don't feel at your best.
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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Thanks brah. The start with covid/living at my mom's a bit, but my health's just been a chit show the past few years. Knee issue took two surgeries and is *close* to better now, have a shoulder surgery in 3 weeks, my hands are fuk-y (autoimmune arthritis? No clue), and I've got some persistent ankle issues as well.
Ye it’s difficult to date when you aren’t in full health, especially mental health. Takes a bunch of energy.

The dating ritual is kinda funny when you think about it, it’s peacocking to establish attraction, and once that’s established, less energy is invested.
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍

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Originally Posted By legbroke⏩
Thanks brah. The start with covid/living at my mom's a bit, but my health's just been a chit show the past few years. Knee issue took two surgeries and is *close* to better now, have a shoulder surgery in 3 weeks, my hands are fuk-y (autoimmune arthritis? No clue), and I've got some persistent ankle issues as well.

Between injury restrictions and time spent with appointments, it's just been hard to answer the question "what do I do for fun," so I figure it's not worth worrying about dating when I struggled with it while fully healthy.
I'm so sorry to hear about these injuries. Definitely work on meditation and positive thinking to heal yourself and then once you're in a happier, healthier state you will attract positive people.

Keep us posted on how the date went!
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Bumble is irritating me as I keep getting guys trying to sell crypto. They are ruining the app.

I found one guy I like who is 35 but he's an hour away. His son is coming to visit him so hopefully we can meet once I move into my new place.

I'm FINALLY going to live in my own place, and in a cute downtown where I can walk everywhere!!!!
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Honestly bored as hell of meeting new women. I already did all the fun stuff like take a cute girl to disneyland/the beach etc... How can I have motivation to take these 5/10s out? :/
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decided to try out coffee meets bagel, after seeing some it posted here.

im not sure if i was doing it wrong, but it looks like you absolutely have to pay, in order to see who likes you. on top of that, you can only check out 12 people per day.

i think i'd rather pay bumble/hinge for that.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Ah sorry to hear and hope things improve for ya. Dating is tough when you don't feel at your best.
Thanks yeah, hopefully this upcoming surgery will at least square one thing away.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Ye it’s difficult to date when you aren’t in full health, especially mental health. Takes a bunch of energy.

The dating ritual is kinda funny when you think about it, it’s peacocking to establish attraction, and once that’s established, less energy is invested.
Yeah exactly. While I haven't been dating much, I've noticed the same thing with just regular relations - I dread meeting new people since I have to explain my health crap, but it's much easier to just chat chit and be like yeah things are still fukd with the boys.
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I'm so sorry to hear about these injuries. Definitely work on meditation and positive thinking to heal yourself and then once you're in a happier, healthier state you will attract positive people.

Keep us posted on how the date went!
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Bumble is irritating me as I keep getting guys trying to sell crypto. They are ruining the app.

I found one guy I like who is 35 but he's an hour away. His son is coming to visit him so hopefully we can meet once I move into my new place.

I'm FINALLY going to live in my own place, and in a cute downtown where I can walk everywhere!!!!
Thank you and will do. Congrats on getting your own place finally, that's huge. A good location also can't be understated.
Originally Posted By Skirrel⏩
decided to try out coffee meets bagel, after seeing some it posted here.

im not sure if i was doing it wrong, but it looks like you absolutely have to pay, in order to see who likes you. on top of that, you can only check out 12 people per day.

i think i'd rather pay bumble/hinge for that.
I haven't used it in years, but I heard it changed/got worse.
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Originally Posted By Skirrel⏩
decided to try out coffee meets bagel, after seeing some it posted here.

im not sure if i was doing it wrong, but it looks like you absolutely have to pay, in order to see who likes you. on top of that, you can only check out 12 people per day.

i think i'd rather pay bumble/hinge for that.
I didn't like Coffee Meets Bagel. I kept getting "military men" (who had numbers from ****lia on WhatsApp) who tried to scam me nonstop.

Now I'm getting nonstop Crypto guys on Bumble so I'm really annoyed.

I'm in the midst of moving so I'm busy but guys will unmatch you if you don't reply back right away. It's really annoying. I'll just wait to swipe when I can actually meet in a few weeks.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I didn't like Coffee Meets Bagel. I kept getting "military men" (who had numbers from ****lia on WhatsApp) who tried to scam me nonstop.

Now I'm getting nonstop Crypto guys on Bumble so I'm really annoyed.

I'm in the midst of moving so I'm busy but guys will unmatch you if you don't reply back right away. It's really annoying. I'll just wait to swipe when I can actually meet in a few weeks.
You aren't attractive enough to be dating. Just give up and get some cats.
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I had 4 more guys write me about BTC after asking a ton of other questions. I just wrote Bumble that’s a huge time waste and I never had scammers like that on there before.

I’m banned from Tinder as people complained my pics were fake even though they’re recent and the same ones posted on here so I guess Hinge is the last resort. I didn’t like the men on there a couple of years ago.

Bummer as I met a lot of FWBs on Bumble over the years.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I had 4 more guys write me about BTC after asking a ton of other questions. I just wrote Bumble that’s a huge time waste and I never had scammers like that on there before.

I’m banned from Tinder as people complained my pics were fake even though they’re recent and the same ones posted on here so I guess Hinge is the last resort. I didn’t like the men on there a couple of years ago.

Bummer as I met a lot of FWBs on Bumble over the years.
godam this person is having more sex than me? The west is doomed.
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
godam this person is having more sex than me? The west is doomed.
her posts are annoying and add no substance to this thread
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Originally Posted By Skirrel⏩
her posts are annoying and add no substance to this thread
Why are my post annoying? And I am discussing this topic in this thread, which is about dating apps?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fixed your post.

Seriously though, I think it's more due to personality issues wrt attracting women. Not even so much looks (although imbored21 fails on both counts)
hahaha.. Thanks for fixing the post. I do see a lot of non-avi users on this forum that claim that they are above average.

I agree with you. Personality trumphs over looks for long term relationships/marriage. Of course you have to be attracted to the person, but there is so much you can take if the person's personality sucks. For me, I would add that intelligence and values are also important over looks.

Physical appearance changes all the time due to different factors such as age, eating habits, lifestyle, etc. I can meet someone who is above average one day, and then five months later that person can turn into average or below average. It can also go vice versa. Hahaha..
Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
I definitely have the mindset of "I'm at my best at 36 - I don't want to settle for someone whose best days are behind them" which keeps my standards high but is also a bit limiting.
I can't complain with how my online experience has been compared to others but I probably need to get back out there more IRL to bat at or above my league looks-wise.
Approaching random people IRL takes courage. Good on you for taking that approach. Good luck.
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