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post 1541609231 01-23-2018, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By halfbreedbrah⏩
Roll thread. If you were freinds she wouldn't disrespect you like that. The whole thing sounds unbelievable. Unless she pulling the female version of trolling fatties.

Also even if op is the biggest beta in the world it shouldn't matter. A lot groups have the one guy they hangout with out of pity.
Loooool, I've seen girls do way chittier things to betas than this. This isn't unbelievable at all.
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Originally Posted By AdikinBawls⏩
Loooool, I've seen girls do way chittier things to betas than this. This isn't unbelievable at all.
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post 1541630691 01-23-2018, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
To the people asking no i didnt pay for her ticket, we bought our tickets separate last month , she asked me to go with her

And I didnt give her a ride either she picked me up and dropped me off, i didnt say a word the whole ride while she tried to small talk me
You are 100% lying, you paid for the ticket.

I'm not giving you a hard time, but girls don't ask guys they are CLEARLY not interested in to go to concerts if they are paying for their own ticket.

Here are the rules bro:
1) Stop getting so attached to girls that have done NOTHING for you and don't SHOW interest in you.
2) Get a life....get things going for you, build up your self esteem, learn new skills.
3) I don't know why you fools EVER go to a concert with a girl, any "pop" music that a girl wants to go to is for sure garbage, and for sure overpriced.

So many of you here just have no backbone, its really unbelievable
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
I went to some concert with a girl that i have a crush on that i’ve known for a year im thinking we finally get to hang out, and my head is full of wonderful moments and i imagine life together (not srs)

We get there, the venue is 3/4 full we have bad seats, she goes to the restroom before the concert starts comes back and says “im gonna sit over there for a while to take videos until the people who bought those seats come” never asked me if i wanted to come

Well 30 minutes pass and she doesnt come back then i notice she is hanging out with her friends while im over here like a dumbass all alone, well the owners of the seats come and she heads towards me, im thinking in relief “shes finally back, maybe she just got caught up with her friends”

Nope, she walks up to me and says “can you pass me my drink” like a cuck i give it to her, she does not say a single word, proceeds to sit somewhere else far away in the front where a single seat is empty.

You’d think we argued for her to do this but nope, she just gave no fuqs and did it because she could



The remaining three hours of the concert not once did she check on me or say anything while i sit there like a jackass all alone and everyone is dancing with their friends/couple

Lesson learned, i feel like i learned something, not sure what but i will definetly come back different

I had severe oneitis with this girl, felt that she was the best thing ever but this ****ing did it, going full no contact and all the dumb feelingsi had for her are gone
Bold is where it got brutal. Damn... what a bish

Hope that smashed the rose-tinted glasses clean off your face





I also think you paid for that ticket, OP...
Originally Posted By xEryx⏩
She probably thought in her mind "We came together, but I just needed some company for the ride, once we are there I am watching it with my friends, he can do what he wants." and that sounded completely normal and nice to her cause her whole world is about being a bitch.
This is the only other explanation

In which cases she's a cartoon-level bish and OP should have seen this coming a mile away
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
OP - you are not a beta. She is just a b1tch. Next time just drive your own car so you can leave anytime you want.
I don't think there should be a next time if I'm to be completely honest.
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post 1541649891 01-23-2018, 11:21 PM
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I didnt pay for her ticket , I might have had oneitis but no girl is gonna use my ass for money thats for dam sure


It boggles my mind why she would even ask me to go, and even pick me up, just to leave me by myself

Women logic


She probably didnt want to walk into the concert by herself, then she gained confidence while there and went off on her own

Aint gonna sit here and lie to myself, dont care anymore anyway, shes done in my book
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Has there been contact / follow up?
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I'm curious why she didn't go with her friends that she met up with if her concern was 'getting there and walking in'
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
I didnt pay for her ticket , I might have had oneitis but no girl is gonna use my ass for money thats for dam sure


It boggles my mind why she would even ask me to go, and even pick me up, just to leave me by myself

Women logic


She probably didnt want to walk into the concert by herself, then she gained confidence while there and went off on her own

Aint gonna sit here and lie to myself, dont care anymore anyway, shes done in my book
That may be true if she has the mentality of a child. Is she like 18 years old?

You dodged a bullet nevertheless. In the long run a person like this will just be trouble. I am sorry if you liked her.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Has there been contact / follow up?
We all want to know this OP. Did you go nc?
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I don't think this girl did this because she dislikes you, I think she dislikes or even hate herself on some level and have some serious mental issues. Probably comes from a home where she didn't get enoug love and attention.
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Originally Posted By twiceasnice⏩
I'm curious why she didn't go with her friends that she met up with if her concern was 'getting there and walking in'
Pretty easy question to answer. OP is lying and paid for her ticket.
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This story makes ZERO sense. When women do dumb chit like this with guys they know have oneitis for em but they're not interested in it's because they GAIN something from it. According to OP, SHE paid for her ticket and SHE drove there. OP provided NOTHING for her....the whole time at the concert she was with her friends so wasn't even using him for some weird sense of validation. Some have said maybe she just wanted company/not walk in alone to the concert....but her friends were there so why wouldn't she just go with them if that was the case?

OP has either paid for her tickets and is too pussy to tell us...OR something else has happened that he has left out of the story. Either way I know you're a cuck because after she did all that you still waited for her and left WITH HER. Holy ****, I mean she already knew you were a bitch but god damn, I can't even describe how bad that is. I would have left by myself and not said anything to her ever again.
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Originally Posted By twiceasnice⏩
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A friend of mine from university is one of the biggest betas I know. His gf broke up with him for the third time or so, then some weeks after the last break up she invited him and another guy home after a party. My beta friend was still heartbroken and had some hopes of reconciliation. His ex gf then proceeds to start making out with this other guy and tell my friend he must leave if he doesn't wanna watch they have sex. (The other guy didn't know they were exes)
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It was a venue with reserved (numbered seats) my guess is that when we bought the tickets she didnt know her friends were going. Then we she saw them in the arena she just went and sat with them

And i havent talked to her neither has she and probably never will
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Originally Posted By Merc009⏩
It was a venue with reserved (numbered seats) my guess is that when we bought the tickets she didnt know her friends were going. Then we she saw them in the arena she just went and sat with them

And i havent talked to her neither has she and probably never will
LOL at letting her get away with this with nothing more than a little cold shoulder on the ride home. I'd neg you, but your experience already did that for you. You should have hit her with it in the car "WTF was that chit? invite me to hang out at a concert then ditch me to hang out with your friends?" Then end her with "I wouldn't have agreed to go had I known you were such a chitty friend."

Too late to do anything now though. You both know what happened and obviously will never talk again.
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
LOL at letting her get away with this with nothing more than a little cold shoulder on the ride home. I'd neg you, but your experience already did that for you. You should have hit her with it in the car "WTF was that chit? invite me to hang out at a concert then ditch me to hang out with your friends?" Then end her with "I wouldn't have agreed to go had I known you were such a chitty friend."

Too late to do anything now though. You both know what happened and obviously will never talk again.
That just makes him look like a butthurt orbiter in her friendzone. She'd laugh about it later with her girlfriends if he did that. Best to just not react at all and go NC forever. He could have made a little bit of small talk in the car just to not let on that he felt disrespected, but that's about it. He put himself in a no-win position. Just move on and learn from it.
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She's trash buddy.
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
LOL at letting her get away with this with nothing more than a little cold shoulder on the ride home. I'd neg you, but your experience already did that for you. You should have hit her with it in the car "WTF was that chit? invite me to hang out at a concert then ditch me to hang out with your friends?" Then end her with "I wouldn't have agreed to go had I known you were such a chitty friend."

Too late to do anything now though. You both know what happened and obviously will never talk again.
Also, this is horrible advice OP.
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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
Not sure if this has been asked, but do you have your own vehicle, OP? If you do, why in the world did you get picked up and driven there by a girl you are interested in?
OP paid for the tickets and gave her a ride back after the concert
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OP all you can do now is get jacked, find a smashable female, and post pics with her on Snapchat to reassert your manhood. Until then, you have micropenor.
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
That just makes him look like a butthurt orbiter in her friendzone. She'd laugh about it later with her girlfriends if he did that. Best to just not react at all and go NC forever. He could have made a little bit of small talk in the car just to not let on that he felt disrespected, but that's about it. He put himself in a no-win position. Just move on and learn from it.
I don't get this. Your not gonna tell her she fcked you over and you shouldn't treat people like that. Fck if she tells her friends. Tell she's a bit** and then never talk to her. Let someone walk all over you and not call the person out lol.
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Originally Posted By iwant2beswole⏩
OP paid for the tickets and gave her a ride back after the concert
I reckon this is exactly what happened. She used OP to buy her tickets and give her a ride to the place.
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Originally Posted By needspace⏩
A friend of mine from university is one of the biggest betas I know. His gf broke up with him for the third time or so, then some weeks after the last break up she invited him and another guy home after a party. My beta friend was still heartbroken and had some hopes of reconciliation. His ex gf then proceeds to start making out with this other guy and tell my friend he must leave if he doesn't wanna watch they have sex. (The other guy didn't know they were exes)
that is just plain evil lol. actually that's like asking to get butchered to death if the beta ex bf is crazy enough.
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She asked you to go because it was a couples concert and she didn't want to look like no one cared about her enough to come with her. When she saw her friends it was a more favorable situation for her - she didn't want others to think you were together "like that".

Been to many concerts, there are ALWAYS random sloots by the bar/concession area, no matter who the artist is. All those couples there and they were all in love and inseparable??? Fuk no. You didn't try hard enough to recover.

Either way she's a piece of sh!t. If you think about it your lucky to find out this way instead of pouring your heart out to her on bended knee.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
This story makes ZERO sense. When women do dumb chit like this with guys they know have oneitis for em but they're not interested in it's because they GAIN something from it. According to OP, SHE paid for her ticket and SHE drove there. OP provided NOTHING for her....the whole time at the concert she was with her friends so wasn't even using him for some weird sense of validation. Some have said maybe she just wanted company/not walk in alone to the concert....but her friends were there so why wouldn't she just go with them if that was the case?

OP has either paid for her tickets and is too pussy to tell us...OR something else has happened that he has left out of the story. Either way I know you're a cuck because after she did all that you still waited for her and left WITH HER. Holy ****, I mean she already knew you were a bitch but god damn, I can't even describe how bad that is. I would have left by myself and not said anything to her ever again.
I believe it. Him being there alone was the validation she needed. She had her beta bish to show of to her girls. " look friends I had the power to get him to buy a 150$ ticket to this concert , and I won't even sit with him." Hopefully he went full no contact or else she's going to tell all her friends how you came back groveling and can't get enough of her.
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
LOL at letting her get away with this with nothing more than a little cold shoulder on the ride home. I'd neg you, but your experience already did that for you. You should have hit her with it in the car "WTF was that chit? invite me to hang out at a concert then ditch me to hang out with your friends?" Then end her with "I wouldn't have agreed to go had I known you were such a chitty friend."
And what would that have accomplished?
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her friends probably said something like.

"youre with that guy..eww"
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Originally Posted By BeefStrokinoff⏩
She asked you to go because it was a couples concert and she didn't want to look like no one cared about her enough to come with her. When she saw her friends it was a more favorable situation for her - she didn't want others to think you were together "like that".

Been to many concerts, there are ALWAYS random sloots by the bar/concession area, no matter who the artist is. All those couples there and they were all in love and inseparable??? Fuk no. You didn't try hard enough to recover.

Either way she's a piece of sh!t. If you think about it your lucky to find out this way instead of pouring your heart out to her on bended knee.
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