Moral Dilemma.

06-14-2018, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted By theadlerian⏩

i put the first down payment in and i'm trying to find a venue for the wedding, like maybe a crackhouse!

She loved that too.

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06-14-2018, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

Thanks.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman who wasn't highly educated and all of that. I have never been with a girl who does drugs, so it was very new for me.

Plus, this girl is very pretty and extremely funny. I thought I hit the jackpot, to be honest. I thought she was like a vet in life and actually wanted to live and have fun because she suffered.

Plus, even her smell was intoxicating to me.

There was a lot going on that messed me up.

Are you just not going to tell us her rates?

06-14-2018, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

You didn't read my initial posts I guess.

You mean the first post in your thread titled "Moral Dilemma" about a junky ex gf that did countless terrible things to you and you're "worried she hates me" because she relapsed, and you're now struggling with whether or not to give her presents you bought for her birthday or send the porno she made to her new boyfriend because "I know all about psychology"....?

No, I read that one.

06-14-2018, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted By PowersKenny⏩

Adlerian don't be the literal cuck...I like your past posts, your going through the pain of love lost., Sometimes you need a slap in the face, you can help others but please help yourself..I'm no prince, the struggle of love is real

She was the past, enjoy the new girl and most of all love yourself

I agree.

It was a new situation for me and very surrealistic at times, so I had trouble dealing with it all.

06-14-2018, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted By Mortar34⏩

You mean the first post in your thread titled "Moral Dilemma" about a junky ex gf that did countless terrible things to you and you're "worried she hates me" because she relapsed, and you're now struggling with whether or not to give her presents you bought for her birthday or send the porno she made to her new boyfriend because "I know all about psychology"....?

No, I read that one.

You did not read what I asked.

06-14-2018, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted By tential⏩

Are you just not going to tell us her rates?

The BJ video was made by this black guy who travels around Kensington and gets hookers to blow him while he films them.

In the comments about his video he said, "She only wanted a ride! She had a really great personality too!" and of course she did.

I figured it out because she told me about the guy. This was immediately after we met and I said I hope you don't even talk to that creep. But, she's a terrible liar and I got a weird vibe. I told her at the time I'd pay for a transpass or whatever she needed, just stay away from Kensington.

After everything went to hell, I did a search on a popular porn site for "Kensington" and or course found all the vids posted by this dude. There she was!

In Kensington 20 bucks gets full service, or a ride.

She looked proud of herself in the video too.

Massively unpleasant.

06-14-2018, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

The BJ video was made by this black guy who travels around Kensington and gets hookers to blow him while he films them.

In the comments about his video he said, "She only wanted a ride! She had a really great personality too!" and of course she did.

I figured it out because she told me about the guy. This was immediately after we met and I said I hope you don't even talk to that creep. But, she's a terrible liar and I got a weird vibe. I told her at the time I'd pay for a transpass or whatever she needed, just stay away from Kensington.

After everything went to hell, I did a search on a popular porn site for "Kensington" and or course found all the vids posted by this dude. There she was!

In Kensington 20 bucks gets full service, or a ride.

She looked proud of herself in the video too.

Massively unpleasant.

Any miscers want to chime in on if that's BS? I mean.. that seems pretty low, but I'm sure some of you sik fuks know better.

And inb4 a miscer says they found the video and enjoyed their fap session.

20 bucks.... man, for your sake, I hope this is your rock bottom. That's purely for your sake. This forum does need content after all.

06-14-2018, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted By tential⏩

Any miscers want to chime in on if that's BS? I mean.. that seems pretty low, but I'm sure some of you sik fuks know better.

And inb4 a miscer says they found the video and enjoyed their fap session.

20 bucks.... man, for your sake, I hope this is your rock bottom. That's purely for your sake. This forum does need content after all.

20 to 40 bucks is common there.

The video I found of the ex says she did it for A RIDE and I still can't entirely deal with that.

She also made a video called Philly Piss Park where she pees on camera in park in Kensington.

06-14-2018, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

Oh man, I loved her a lot and wanted to give her a better life, which is what she said she wanted.

There's an old movie from the UK with Michael Caine called Georgie Girl, or something close, that's about this subject.

It never works out for Captain Save-a-Hoes the way they want it to. Never. Stop trying to save her. You can't. Never ever have contact with this woman again for as long as you live. Say a prayer for her every night if you must, but that woman is who she is and you cannot change her. She'll change on her own or not, but nothing you do will have any effect and she'll continue to treat you the way she has as long as you allow it. She probably already resents you as it is for seeing something in her she doesn't see in herself.

06-14-2018, 02:37 PM

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stopped reading at drug problems

Finished reading your post. You're a good guy, but I am going to neg you. Get a fuking clue and cut her out of your life. Don't ever talk to her again, and consider a restraining order. Also, if she gets you fired, that is grounds for a lawsuit. If her claims are fabricated, that is against the law. Protect yourself. This woman will go to any ends to destroy your new relationship. Get away from her.

Dude I watched the piss park vid, and IDK why you even give a chit about that disgusting trash.

06-14-2018, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

20 to 40 bucks is common there.

The video I found of the ex says she did it for A RIDE and I still can't entirely deal with that.

She also made a video called Philly Piss Park where she pees on camera in park in Kensington.

Are you taking us for "A RIDE" here boyo? Or are you giving us actual hints about how to find this video.I am really intrigued right now.I really want to see this video man.Can you PM me the link.I really want to see her.Maybe if she is really pretty i can see why you would have tis dilemma.

Okay i typed "Philly Park piss" and saw a vid with some chick wearing jeans who pisses in some park.Is that her?

Women can make a man do some crazy stuff alright.

06-14-2018, 02:51 PM

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How the **** is this a moral dilemma for you? Just stay the **** away from her. You are not a victim, so stop acting like one and move on with your life.

06-14-2018, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted By wincel⏩

stopped reading at drug problems

Finished reading your post. You're a good guy, but I am going to neg you. Get a fuking clue and cut her out of your life. Don't ever talk to her again, and consider a restraining order. Also, if she gets you fired, that is grounds for a lawsuit. If her claims are fabricated, that is against the law. Protect yourself. This woman will go to any ends to destroy your new relationship. Get away from her.

Dude I watched the piss park vid, and IDK why you even give a chit about that disgusting trash.

That's her in that video and even there she makes some kind of witty remark.

I only still care about her because I believe that if she was raised in another place, she'd be awesome. However, that's just fantasy because she is who she is, however, I got sucked in by sympathy.

Also, she has nothing and so attempting to go after her legally is pointless.

But, I did alert her college about her illegal activities and alias because she wanted to become a drug therapist. I don't think she's in school any more, so she will stay at her current ghetto level.

06-14-2018, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩

How the **** is this a moral dilemma for you? Just stay the **** away from her. You are not a victim, so stop acting like one and move on with your life.

I stated the moral dilemma was:

1. Be kind.
2. Ignore.
3. Tell her boyfriend who she is by messaging him her gross porn vids, thus poisoning their relationship, on her birthday this Friday.

06-14-2018, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted By khatskevitch⏩

Are you taking us for "A RIDE" here boyo? Or are you giving us actual hints about how to find this video.I am really intrigued right now.I really want to see this video man.Can you PM me the link.I really want to see her.Maybe if she is really pretty i can see why you would have tis dilemma.

Okay i typed "Philly Park piss" and saw a vid with some chick wearing jeans who pisses in some park.Is that her?

Women can make a man do some crazy stuff alright.

Go to P@@rnhub and search "Kenso Charlotte" and google "Philly Piss Park" and you will find it.

06-14-2018, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted By wincel⏩

stopped reading at drug problems

Finished reading your post. You're a good guy, but I am going to neg you. Get a fuking clue and cut her out of your life. Don't ever talk to her again, and consider a restraining order. Also, if she gets you fired, that is grounds for a lawsuit. If her claims are fabricated, that is against the law. Protect yourself. This woman will go to any ends to destroy your new relationship. Get away from her.

Dude I watched the piss park vid, and IDK why you even give a chit about that disgusting trash.

You suck for negging me!

However, I will not neg back since you're correct.

06-14-2018, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

You suck for negging me!

However, I will not neg back since you're correct.

Don't bother awaring the bf. He should know better than to associate with this trash. If you do aware him, be ready for her to come after you. I would just leave it. She's somebody else's problem. Don't try to be nice. Just get as far away from her as you can.

LOL@how she smiled and swallowed. Bro, why do you even give a chit about this kunt?

06-14-2018, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted By wincel⏩

Don't bother awaring the bf. He should know better than to associate with this trash. If you do aware him, be ready for her to come after you. I would just leave it. She's somebody else's problem. Don't try to be nice. Just get as far away from her as you can.

Yes, I was strongly tempted to tell the bf, like intensely. However, I talked myself out of it.

This girl told me she doesn't even love her own children and so she will only end up ruining whatever is going on now. The bf is a little dude who just got out of jail and had drug issues, etc so they will destroy themselves I'm sure. I don't need to help and plus I want to just focus on my situation.

Thus, I'm going with a pleasant attitude and out of the picture.

My plan is to keep my ******** closed for a good amount of time and then either open it or make a hidden one. I post a lot of funny comments and reactions to things and people miss me, but she stalks the hell out of it and I want to make me die out in her mind.

06-14-2018, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

I actually found the videos online by myself after she told me about them.

The pics she sent via phone.

We were basically over at that point. However, she kept contacting me, me her, etc.

I'm trying to figure out why you think these details make any kind of difference.

06-14-2018, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted By AdikinBawls⏩

I'm trying to figure out why you think these details make any kind of difference.

What do you mean?

06-14-2018, 04:19 PM

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OP- to echo what many others have already said, you need to drop all contact with this woman ASAP. It's great to be compassionate and empathetic, but don't let that be your demise, which is the only direction I can see continuing contact with this person will lead you.

06-14-2018, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

Go to P@@rnhub and search "Kenso Charlotte" and google "Philly Piss Park" and you will find it.

Thats a great BJ man.Do you want her physically?Is the physical part making you keep in touch with her?And the whole "i am batman and i want to save her" part only a cover up for your more primal desires really?

This girl is just a fap away and you can always access her and so you cant really forget her.

06-14-2018, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted By jlick⏩

OP- to echo what many others have already said, you need to drop all contact with this woman ASAP. It's great to be compassionate and empathetic, but don't let that be your demise, which is the only direction I can see continuing contact with this person will lead you.

I've closed down all typical ways she could contact me after thinking things through.

I assume that we will not meet again.

06-14-2018, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted By khatskevitch⏩

Thats a great BJ man.Do you want her physically?Is the physical part making you keep in touch with her?And the whole "i am batman and i want to save her" part only a cover up for your more primal desires really?

This girl is just a fap away and you can always access her and so you cant really forget her.

Oh, we had a HUGE physical connection.

I could SMELL her like an animal and we would be entranced by each other. On top of that, I'm giant as compared to her and she would get so wet the juices would run down her legs. On top of THAT she was the tightest I've ever felt. And, she liked my muscular physique a lot. She said I was the only guy she ever had that was in such good shape.

If you've ever seen Philly people, you know that's true.

I read in Evolutionary Psych that if a woman smells that good to you it may be a sign that you're a great mating match. That was yet another influence on me.

However, our sexual relationship was before the horrible truths were found out. After, I was more interested in some kind of repair relationship mixed with a sad love for her.

06-14-2018, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted By khatskevitch⏩

Thats a great BJ man.Do you want her physically?Is the physical part making you keep in touch with her?And the whole "i am batman and i want to save her" part only a cover up for your more primal desires really?

This girl is just a fap away and you can always access her and so you cant really forget her.

OP usually doesn't deliver, today, it got real...
I only asked for rates bruh....

Hope OP got checked.

06-14-2018, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted By jlick⏩

OP- to echo what many others have already said, you need to drop all contact with this woman ASAP. It's great to be compassionate and empathetic, but don't let that be your demise, which is the only direction I can see continuing contact with this person will lead you.

I don't mean to call you out, but IMO the behaviors of the OP are not showing compassion and empathy (not saying OP isn't a good person, sounds like he is). Those are good qualities to have and we should all do our best to treat our fellow man in that manner. What is being described in this thread is basically a form of harming one's self -- I don't know how else to put it. There is some underlying issue (not just the horn dog in all of us) that I hope OP will be able to work out, maybe in therapy. This chit is not normal, it's so far beyond being a good / nice guy and in fact it's actively harmful.

06-14-2018, 05:59 PM

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This thread cant be real life surely

06-14-2018, 06:13 PM

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Adlerian you are a very smart man, going through a tough time, be strong I believe in you, others can not make any difference

06-14-2018, 06:25 PM

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You know, you can feel bad for someone and not be in their life, right? You can forgive someone and not excuse their behavior either, too? This girl is probably a Borderline Personality Disorder, plus even more crazy from drugs.

06-14-2018, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted By dinosaurus1987⏩

You know, you can feel bad for someoneand not be in their life, right? You can forgive someone and not excuse their behavior either, too? This girl is probably a Borderline Personality Disorder, plus even more crazy from drugs.

You don't even have to feel bad for them. That's even better.

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