If you have kids, you suck it up and stick it out. The only acceptable circumstances for divorce when kids are involved is if a spouse cheats, or if one spouse is abusing the other or the kids. Also if you're losing everything, then that's a result of the huge mistake of not getting a pre nup. You fukked up boyo.

If your wife is witholding sex from you but fukking another guy/guys, I seriously feel bad for you, but you've really put yourself in a corner here.

Brah, in a few weeks you won't think about her much at all. In a few months, you'll be right back to normal and hopefully have some healthy new habits, looking solid, thick and tight. The broads and sloots will be all over you, and you can pick and choose as you please.

Just don't rot.

Sup bro,

Honestly, yeah, had some insane hellish months, but like everything, time did it's thing. And keep in mind I was already good looking and fit af, AND I still got rekt lmao, womem are something else. All that to say I didn't have the usual escaping and self improving paths available to me (go to the gym, get fit, eat right, etc etc), ofc at the moment I'm in the best shape of my life, and been taking care of myself more than ever, which is more than normal after getting destroyed.

To be honest, there is no easy path or solution, you gonna have to find and choose productive stuff to do which contributes for you to have a better life, and level up. Discipline will be everything, you gonna have to do everything regardless of how you feel, and eventually, enough time passes you will get better and better. Ofc gym, working out, being in top shape is one of the main pillars, strong body = strong mind.

I dunno how old you are, or in what stage in life you are, but regardless, learning to make money, invest, read, meditate, brother you know all these things, just do it. And ofc you will fail, and ofc you sometimes will do sht you aren't suppose to do, and ofc, you won't do what you are supposed to do everyday, but the important thing is to keep going. One good rule of thumb is, before doing anything, ask yourself, "would this make God proud?". I dunno what you believe in, but you get the idea.

And yeah, this time of the year is hard, and it's messing me up a bit, I found myself thinking about her more than usual, I mean, keep in mind also, I'm alone in a foreign country, all my life in here was spent with her, for the first time in my life, and especially in 9 years, I'm truly alone. Yeah I have some friends, but it's not the same thing.

But you know whats the conclusion I always come to? This sht is making me harder than every before, suffering molds you, the ability to overcome this type of suffering eventually makes you a complete beast, you get better, stronger, in every possible way. So... fking welcome it, embrace it, eat it all up. Not a lot of ppl have the mindset to be like this, most just crumble like pussies and be sorry for themselves. Fk all that, I aint letting anyone, let alone some girl that became a total kunt after 9 years to bring me down, I went through too much to let that happen, and I thank God, for all the suffering and stuff that happened to me before this, cause thats what gave me the strength to overcome this now, and that's how it goes.

Anyway, like I said, 7 months is nothing, you will seel, in a few months, that its just another stepping stone and lesson in your life, something better will come, stay hard, stay discipline, and don't let anyone bring you down. Don't think about the what if's, don't be afraid of the future, live the present, and keep striving to be your best version everyday. You got this, just don't every give up.

We all gonna make it.