I was actually going to let this thread die but you bumped it so I'll go ahead and embarrass myself royally on here. If anything, maybe some of the younger guys can learn from my mistakes on this one.

Sooooooo......

The end of February was non-stop school and finals. I had a written 8 hour final and an 8 hour skills final to wrap up the 21 units I was taking since last September. Every free moment was either gym, sleep or studying in the library. I consider myself an intelligent person but this was next level in terms of effort put forth. Even though I did really well in the class, I had to prove to the instructors that I was the guy who would go the extra mile because clinicals and internships are the next phase and it's highly competitive.

So I was in the middle of an 8 hour study session the day before the written final and the 21 year old waitress texts me that she needs to talk. I tell her I'm busy and that it'll have to wait until after the final. She says it's important and that she's on the way to my class area and I should talk to her outside. Great.

I walk out there and she's standing near her car:

Her: Hey....I need to tell you something
Me: What?
Her: It's embarrassing and I understand if you don't want to talk to me after this
Me: <nervous as fck now thinking she's pregnant even though she has an IUD> What do you have to tell me?
Her: I just got results back from an STD test and I tested positive for chlamydia
Me: .......
Her: I understand if you don't want to talk to me again
Me: You told me you were clean and that you were just tested a month ago? <I get on my phone and start looking or signs and symptoms because now I'm nervous as fck>
Her: Look at me
Me: Did you lie to me?
Her: I slept with my ex right when we started seeing each other
Me: Then why did you tell me you were clean? You said you were tested and clean. You told me this so we didn't have to use condoms anymore.
Her: I'm sorry


That's basically how the convo went, it's still fresh in my mind even though it was a few weeks ago. I grabbed my stuff, went to the VA facility and got blood work and pee tests done. Results? Positive for Chlamydia. Yep, bitch gave me an STD.

I blocked her on social media. She then texts me saying how she deserves to be treated better than that. I couldn't believe the **** she was saying. Crap like:

-I deserve better than this
-Why are you upset that I slept with someone that I was once in love with?
-I deserve to be treated like a decent person

^---Basically every possible mental gymnastics ploy went into play. A case study could have been done on this ****. Lashing out at me for blocking her when she LIED to me and gave me chlamydia. She couldn't get that wrapped around her mind, she didn't feel as if she did anything wrong. I finally sent one long text to her explaining that actions have consequences and that the YOLO lifestyle only works when you don't fck other people over in their lives which is exactly what she did with me. Complete astonishment on her part, she could not understand where I was coming from. I blocked her number after that and haven't spoken to her since.

Before anyone gets grossed out on me, I did my research and apparently this is a bacterial infection that is gone within 2 weeks after antibiotics so it doesn't stay with you. I lost some serious sleep over this one though and this was the night before my 8 hour written final. I slept maybe 2 hours that night. Still got a 90% on it. Fck her. Oh yeah, she also couldn't understand how her timing was terrible in telling me all this. Lol, classic.

Anyway, that's my update. 19 year old finally stopped blowing my phone up too, haven't heard from her in a week. I had to leave California for training last week, just got back Saturday after a week doing government **** for training and back to the grind. March is looking like 4/5 of it will be work/clinicals so free time will be as minimal as possible but that's life. I'm afraid of going on a date with anyone until this **** is all cleared up and I feel stupid as fck for believing this whore but that's on me for ever trusting someone. Lesson learned.

I was in charge of the entire class of 40+ students during training so I didn't get much sleep last week. Trying to make up for it now and also get all my errands done, taxes, etc. Also got accepted into the internship I wanted and that's as much of a blessing as possible. Almost everyone in our class was turned down for the area and I somehow landed it so I feel good about that. Now it's time to double down on the workload and finish the next few months out.

Also saw Logan in theaters. Haven't been to a movie in forever. Good movie, R rating is waaaaay better than PG-13.

apple cider vinegar and garlic pills daily will actually prevent and treat the clap also brother, save you that awkward appointment at the VA.

You must be joking. He can go to an urgent care or Planned Parenthood and get some azithromycin in less than an hour, does not require a VA appointment for this. You will not find a single legitimate scientific study showing that fcking apple cider vinegar and garlic pills will treat chlamydia effectively.

He went to the VA, reading skills......you'd still get a bill from the other places we get "free" healthcare at the VA.

Pretty funny, at least it was only chlamydia. Also LOL at 'treating me like this!', it's cool, I only lied and gave you an STD, why are you treating me like an STD-infested liar?!

100% agreement on the not-brawling thing. I had words with Mrs Beer early on because she yelled at some dude without a good reason, I'm like that's all fine but I'm the one that has to fight it out if things get physical so use your brain next time.

If it makes you feel any better, you seem like an awesome dude Srs. Would have a beer with/10. Some of your other posts have motivated me lately and stick in my head..

These have been similar experiences to mine lately. No stds so to speak but the "doing no wrong" thing. Really makes you wonder how often they do this to other guys, and how they handle it. Because you have three options when it comes to this: 1) don't say anything and go NC 2) Say something which will inevitably lead to an argument and she won't admit she did anything wrong and how you are insecure 3) go full cuck, speak your mind and feelings and take her back anyways because surely nothing like this will ever happen again..

Ive just decided personally I'm going to get to around 8% body fat and completely remove myself from women. Not going to look around online or irl. Want to focus on my own personal goals and career for a while, and outside of the occasional lonely nights it's been great.

You're gonna make it brah.

apple cider vinegar and garlic pills daily will actually prevent and treat the clap also brother, save you that awkward appointment at the VA.

Lol the entitlement is real with this broad. I only lied through my teeth and gave you an std, why aren't you treating me with more respect??

On the flip side, Chlamydia is pretty minor and easily treated - just be thankful it wasn't something more serious.

So this thread has been a lot of flakes and you caught an STD ? I applaud you Ranger. LOL.screw that son.

You must be joking. He can go to an urgent care or Planned Parenthood and get some azithromycin in less than an hour, does not require a VA appointment for this. You will not find a single legitimate scientific study showing that fcking apple cider vinegar and garlic pills will treat chlamydia effectively.

And? Either way it doesn't matter, apple cider vinegar and garlic pills are not going to treat chlamydia. Don't spread medical misinformation that can harm people.

Anyways, not going to get into an argument in someone else's thread but I can't read something like that and not comment. I do enjoy reading the log though Ranger, hope you continue to update it but sounds like you have a lot going on.

I walk out there and she's standing near her car:

Her: Hey....I need to tell you something
Me: What?
Her: It's embarrassing and I understand if you don't want to talk to me after this
Me: <nervous as fck now thinking she's pregnant even though she has an IUD> What do you have to tell me?
Her: I just got results back from an STD test and I tested positive for chlamydia
Me: .......
Her: I understand if you don't want to talk to me again
Me: You told me you were clean and that you were just tested a month ago? <I get on my phone and start looking or signs and symptoms because now I'm nervous as fck>
Her: Look at me
Me: Did you lie to me?
Her: I slept with my ex right when we started seeing each other
Me: Then why did you tell me you were clean? You said you were tested and clean. You told me this so we didn't have to use condoms anymore.
Her: I'm sorry


That's basically how the convo went, it's still fresh in my mind even though it was a few weeks ago. I grabbed my stuff, went to the VA facility and got blood work and pee tests done. Results? Positive for Chlamydia. Yep, bitch gave me an STD.

Braaahhh, come on man... you of all people... ?? You know better than to believe what a girl "says" especially when it comes to sex, let alone a 21 year old. ALWAYS wear rubber, unless it's a long term GF. If it wasn't an STD, it could have easily been babynames.com, FFS.

Sighs. Damn.

works just fine for me and numerous other people I know, but hey what do I know I am not 24. ACV also neutralizes your bodies PH, acts as an antibody, same with garlic and guess where there most potent release of enzymes are...yes the kidneys in the urethra tract.

Not sure if serious.

She had an IUD as I mentioned. Plus, you can feel that **** in some positions.

Also, I've never had an STD before and I'm 35 and even the dumbest bitches I've dated were usually smart enough to wear a rubber with the dude they were cheating on me with. This is some next level dirty whore ****.

You must be joking. He can go to an urgent care or Planned Parenthood and get some azithromycin in less than an hour, does not require a VA appointment for this. You will not find a single legitimate scientific study showing that fcking apple cider vinegar and garlic pills will treat chlamydia effectively.

Mrs. Beer would be correct to listen to you in that.

And yes, the mental gymnastics with this recent one was some next level **** for sure.



You're absolutely right with the A, B, C options. Unfortunately, my brain gravitates towards B. When there is an injustice, I want the person to understand why I might be upset or not want to speak to them anymore. But, that never works because people are AMAZING at making every excuse in the book to justify their crappy actions. Very few times is there a mutual understanding that people go their separate ways. Meanwhile, the next guy this whore meets will learn all about how she dated this TERRIBLE GUY over the last couple months, etc etc. The poor dude will have no idea what a whore he's dating until it's too late. That's why it always cracks me up when I hear about how awful ex's are from women. I call bull**** on 99.9% of the stuff I hear from them in that regard.

And don't get me started on women who claim every EX was a scumbag yet they still talk to them and hang out with them sometimes and when they are caught they make up the dumbest excuses as to why.

And i'm talking about women in their 40's acting this way.

They claim he's a scumbag because he dropped her. They hang out with him hoping to get him back.

tl;dr: Fck off with your smug, pseudoscience garbage. Don't even bother responding to this post. Let the man continue his log in peace. Btw, your on-topic contributions to these sort of threads are garbage at best but I suppose it's your prerogative to post as you wish.

Pretty funny, at least it was only chlamydia. Also LOL at 'treating me like this!', it's cool, I only lied and gave you an STD, why are you treating me like an STD-infested liar?!

100% agreement on the not-brawling thing. I had words with Mrs Beer early on because she yelled at some dude without a good reason, I'm like that's all fine but I'm the one that has to fight it out if things get physical so use your brain next time.

yup.
what blows my mind is i know women whose ex's really were scumbags.
put them down all the time.
told them they needed to lose weight, ect.
One was actually hit by one ex and yrs later when he contacted her she started talking to him again and hung out a few times even though he had a new GF.
lost all respect for that woman after that.

Wow a huge copy and paste from ncbi, please continue your medical career/enlightening us with the only cure for everything is pills/meds. Going for personal attacks with a swing and a miss....it's okay brother.

An IUD makes you more susceptible to STDs. So really not smart to not use a condom with someone you're not in a committed relationship with even if they're on birth control. That's should really be saved for gfs.

Anywho thanks for the update. sorry things turned out for you like this but like I said before there is a reason why you shouldn't give everyone a chance. Not to make you bitter but you need to protect yourself better, both emotionally and physically.

Stop calling her a whore already... Because according to your standards that you like so much to use on her, you yourself would be the biggest whore of you two by far, since you slept the entire time with two women without telling anyone of them anything, plus risking them to get infected with stds anytime. I hope you have or will contact the 19 y.o. teenager to get medical treatment as well.

"I can't argue with the facts presented."

She is a whore.

You defend women regardless of the actions they take.

Also, strong logic (not srs) on your part. I never lied to anyone about anything. She lied to me. And yes, I will contact the psychotic 19 year old soon. I'm sure it will be a glorious psychotic rage on her part with more insults saying what a piece of **** I am because I'm not a doctor like she's going to be. Zero fcks given if she gets mad.

But like I said, I never lied to either of them. I never told either of them anything that wasn't true. Whore was the one who lied and 19 year old was the one who went full retard and insulted hundreds of thousands of people and their professions because they weren't going to be doctors like she will be. Must be easy to say those sorts of things when you come from a multi-million dollar family. I see the same sort of posts from certain female members of this forum. That doesn't count you, you're just legit mentally ill.

She is a whore.

You defend women regardless of the actions they take.

Also, strong logic (not srs) on your part. I never lied to anyone about anything. She lied to me. And yes, I will contact the psychotic 19 year old soon. I'm sure it will be a glorious psychotic rage on her part with more insults saying what a piece of **** I am because I'm not a doctor like she's going to be. Zero fcks given if she gets mad.

But like I said, I never lied to either of them. I never told either of them anything that wasn't true. Whore was the one who lied and 19 year old was the one who went full retard and insulted hundreds of thousands of people and their professions because they weren't going to be doctors like she will be. Must be easy to say those sorts of things when you come from a multi-million dollar family. I see the same sort of posts from certain female members of this forum. That doesn't count you, you're just legit mentally ill.