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post 1538811811 12-28-2017, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
Wait a minute, are you saying it's okay to go and stay in a hotel with friends/coworkers when you're in a committed relationship?

I'm sorry, but that would not be acceptable to me. If someone in a relationship behaves like a single person - they should be left alone to be single again and do all the things they want to do.
You live a different lifestyle, plain and simple. Lol at not being able to stay at a hotel with friends, especially if they got one a hour or two away.

The only bad thing about this story is she didn’t invite him out with them for the night on her birthday.
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Originally Posted By athleancali
UPDATE:

I was on ******** at 4 am today while she was in my bed and noticed she accepted a friend request from the promoter at the club she went to.

I immediately called her out on it and she denied knowing him.

I kept pushing it and she admitted that he bought all the girls in the group drinks cuz it was her birthday.

But says she doesn’t know how he knew her name to add her.

I had enough and told her I’m dropping her off and broke up with her.

She is calling me crying saying she is sorry.

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Lol at breaking up over a friend request of a club promoter.
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Originally Posted By athleancali
UPDATE:

I was on ******** at 4 am today while she was in my bed and noticed she accepted a friend request from the promoter at the club she went to.

I immediately called her out on it and she denied knowing him.

I kept pushing it and she admitted that he bought all the girls in the group drinks cuz it was her birthday.

But says she doesn’t know how he knew her name to add her.

I had enough and told her I’m dropping her off and broke up with her.

She is calling me crying saying she is sorry.

CLIFFS:

Hos gonna hos
Miss was right.
Lol you're such a cuck.
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Love and relationships should always be fun and playful, you are taking things way too seriously. Nobody likes to lose their freedom. It’s a ******** friend man, this is just cringy.
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Originally Posted By athleancali
UPDATE:

I was on ******** at 4 am today while she was in my bed and noticed she accepted a friend request from the promoter at the club she went to.

I immediately called her out on it and she denied knowing him.

I kept pushing it and she admitted that he bought all the girls in the group drinks cuz it was her birthday.

But says she doesn’t know how he knew her name to add her.

I had enough and told her I’m dropping her off and broke up with her.

She is calling me crying saying she is sorry.

CLIFFS:

Hos gonna hos
Miss was right.
Lol OP you have severe problems. I think you should stay broken up and go to therapy.
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Everyone that's saying breaking up with her over a ******** request is cringy is absolutely WRONG. Now let's break this down step by step. Op's girl gets hotel for whatever reason , why would she do that and not invite OP, my gf for her birthday invited me to go out with her to her friends school 3 hours away for the weekend. This brings the question, Did she already have plans set up with the club promoter and his friends at the hotel afterwards?? Did they already meet before, but nothing came out of it?
OK so let say she didn't know him before hand. She goes to the club and the promoter decides to drop over a 100$ on some random girls ( drinks are very expensive at clubs). He has one main objective to doing that, and that is to get their attention and try to fck them.
Now let's see if this makes sense, Op is awake at 4am with his gf and she accepts a friend request of the club promoter. He calls her out, she makes an argument "but but he doesn't even know my name" we know that's a lie in itself because how dafuq you find someone you met once at Club but don't know their name. From what I know about ******** people are suggested that fb believes you might know through mutual friends or you get someone's name and add them that way.

The club promoter has money and girls usually love guys that spend a ton of money on them and their friends, especially when it comes to buying a whole group of girls overpriced drinks. This is what I believe happened the gf went to the club the promoter starts buying them drinks and starts talking to ops girl and she's already attracted to him cause his showing off his wallet, her friends approve of him for the same reason. She's also been drinking and is drunk from his bought drinks. She mentions they have a hotel the promoter and some of his friends go with them. The promoter and his buddies bang them out and she while getting banged out forgets to call op. Another scenario is that she already knew him before hand and that is why she really got a hotel. Either way I highly suspect she fcked him. I say good job op. Switch the situation around and she'd think something is up too. You did good op
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Originally Posted By Coolman468
Everyone that's saying breaking up with her over a ******** request is cringy is absolutely WRONG. Now let's break this down step by step. Op's girl gets hotel for whatever reason , why would she do that and not invite OP, my gf for her birthday invited me to go out with her to her friends school 3 hours away for the weekend. This brings the question, Did she already have plans set up with the club promoter and his friends at the hotel afterwards?? Did they already meet before, but nothing came out of it?
OK so let say she didn't know him before hand. She goes to the club and the promoter decides to drop over a 100$ on some random girls ( drinks are very expensive at clubs). He has one main objective to doing that, and that is to get their attention and try to fck them.
Now let's see if this makes sense, Op is awake at 4am with his gf and she accepts a friend request of the club promoter. He calls her out, she makes an argument "but but he doesn't even know my name" we know that's a lie in itself because how dafuq you find someone you met once at Club but don't know their name. From what I know about ******** people are suggested that fb believes you might know through mutual friends or you get someone's name and add them that way.

The club promoter has money and girls usually love guys that spend a ton of money on them and their friends, especially when it comes to buying a whole group of girls overpriced drinks. This is what I believe happened the gf went to the club the promoter starts buying them drinks and starts talking to ops girl and she's already attracted to him cause his showing off his wallet, her friends approve of him for the same reason. She's also been drinking and is drunk from his bought drinks. She mentions they have a hotel the promoter and some of his friends go with them. The promoter and his buddies bang them out and she while getting banged out forgets to call op. Another scenario is that she already knew him before hand and that is why she really got a hotel. Either way I highly suspect she fcked him. I say good job op. Switch the situation around and she'd think something is up too. You did good op
Lol my friend is a club promoter on the side and has thousands of friends on ********. It’s called PROMOTING. You have to add everyone to get people there. He also does his own parties too though. Oh and guess what, he’s married, so should she break up with him because he’s adding tons of girls? The guy would never cheat.

You obviously haven’t been to much clubs, the clubs will give away free drinks, comped bottles, table service until the tables are filled to bring guys in.
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Regardless, OP is clearly not her priority. So he was right to break up with her.
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Originally Posted By Coolman468
Everyone that's saying breaking up with her over a ******** request is cringy is absolutely WRONG. Now let's break this down step by step. Op's girl gets hotel for whatever reason , why would she do that and not invite OP, my gf for her birthday invited me to go out with her to her friends school 3 hours away for the weekend. This brings the question, Did she already have plans set up with the club promoter and his friends at the hotel afterwards?? Did they already meet before, but nothing came out of it?
OK so let say she didn't know him before hand. She goes to the club and the promoter decides to drop over a 100$ on some random girls ( drinks are very expensive at clubs). He has one main objective to doing that, and that is to get their attention and try to fck them.
Now let's see if this makes sense, Op is awake at 4am with his gf and she accepts a friend request of the club promoter. He calls her out, she makes an argument "but but he doesn't even know my name" we know that's a lie in itself because how dafuq you find someone you met once at Club but don't know their name. From what I know about ******** people are suggested that fb believes you might know through mutual friends or you get someone's name and add them that way.

The club promoter has money and girls usually love guys that spend a ton of money on them and their friends, especially when it comes to buying a whole group of girls overpriced drinks. This is what I believe happened the gf went to the club the promoter starts buying them drinks and starts talking to ops girl and she's already attracted to him cause his showing off his wallet, her friends approve of him for the same reason. She's also been drinking and is drunk from his bought drinks. She mentions they have a hotel the promoter and some of his friends go with them. The promoter and his buddies bang them out and she while getting banged out forgets to call op. Another scenario is that she already knew him before hand and that is why she really got a hotel. Either way I highly suspect she fcked him. I say good job op. Switch the situation around and she'd think something is up too. You did good op
The fact that she lied to me and didn’t contact me really threw things off.
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All I can say wirh assurity is OP is a major cuck, and his GF is lieing about something although is to clear what she did, Maybe blew some random dude or the promoter.

Either way she’s not interested in OP so NC and move on. OP stop being a controlling cuck monster
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Originally Posted By backinbusiness
All I can say wirh assurity is OP is a major cuck, and his GF is lieing about something although is to clear what she did, Maybe blew some random dude or the promoter.

Either way she’s not interested in OP so NC and move on. OP stop being a controlling cuck monster
You lost because you gave TOO much interest in your relationship. The less you care and focus more on your life you'll win dude. Your mindset has to be if you lose this girl, you don't give a fk because you can get any girl easy. The more you care about this petty sht, you're going to continue to get steamed over by future GF's. Especially over 3 months.. that's kinda crazy.

Focus on your life so much, that you just don't give a fk man.. Use this as a lesson learned and move on.
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Eh, lose-lose situation


You sound like a needy insecure bish, and gave her friend-panel a chit-ton of material to beat you with in that text exchange... but I wouldn't be happy dating a girl who ditched me to go get hammered in a club on her birthday. Clearly not a priority to her, she'd rather be in an environment where other dudes are hitting on he/trying to dance up on her all night

The promoter could feasibly be innocent - they're total horn-dogs, but they tend to add people from the guest list then just hammer 'people you may know' requests thereafter. Unless your gf is the hottest, easiest girl there he probably wouldn't have given her a second look - dude likely has lots of options. Booking a hotel room is always sketchy - they say it's because they're getting wasted, but it really means at least one of the girls was looking to get phucked that night

Guarantee they weren't drinking the comped champagne on their own. Tables of girls with a bottle draw in groups of guys. Be more concerned that she'd rather spend a birthday with them than with you.

Don't date a girl who needs to be controlled





Edit:

Disregard post. Hadn't read rest of thread...


Male co-workers... hotel... birthday...


SLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT!
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I’m mad about the promoter because she lied and I had to press her to get the truth.
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Originally Posted By athleancali
I’m mad about the promoter because she lied and I had to press her to get the truth.
Do you like have any real life hobbies? or do you just sit on your phone all day trying to find dirt.
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Originally Posted By BetaBoy4life
Lol my friend is a club promoter on the side and has thousands of friends on ********. It’s called PROMOTING. You have to add everyone to get people there. He also does his own parties too though. Oh and guess what, he’s married, so should she break up with him because he’s adding tons of girls? The guy would never cheat.

You obviously haven’t been to much clubs, the clubs will give away free drinks, comped bottles, table service until the tables are filled to bring guys in.
OK that's your MARRIED friend, no one said this promoter was married. We are all making speculation. The fact here is that anything could've happened I stated what I BELIEVED happened. However the fact that she is lying to him and who the guy is means she knows him, if she did not she never would've lied and stayed with her original arguement. Either way why dafuq is she getting a hotel room without her bf in a town they live in. She didn't go an hour away she literally went to the same town they live in. Why do that? It makes no sense other than she was hiding something. Come on man
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It's over at this point.
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"girls only night for her birthday and get a hotel" u guys already know what that means lol. And she feelzzz guilty to. Something happened that night homie
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Originally Posted By athleancali
I know bros that some will say I’m insecure and some will say I have every right to do this.

The reason why I texted her what I did is because that’s what truly was on my mind.

Overall we bang every time we see each other and she is always down to do the nasty and does clean my condo as well once in a while.

At first I let it go and wasnt mad but as the day went on my gut felt off.

So it makes me insecure and controlling for saying how I feel about it? Or would it be better to stay quiet and star seeing other females? Cuz I focus on one female that’s my gf unless I’m single then I have multiple ones at all times
never try to tell her how ur feeling bruh. That **** don't mean anything to them. U need to over exaggerate the situation. Even if she is innocent. It will stop her from doing sloot thing's in the future
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
girls really try to rationalize those things..
A girl I was seeing was planning on going to montreal with me for halloween weekend. We were super close up to the day we were supposed to go.
She goes silent suddenly and does so for a few days. Turns out she went with "her cousin and sister"
Yet apparently she thinks its ok to completely go silent for a few days.
Ends up ending it when she gets back, just lol
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Originally Posted By ezjax
The reaction is fine as long as you are true to yourself. You need to remain in control. And from my experience lying to yourself or putting on a fake act will just have you beneath a woman's boot..

Fear of loss should be her driving force not yours
exactly. Nothing wrong for men to be controlling over there bish. Just don't be some desperate insecure fool
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Originally Posted By BetaBoy4life
Lol my friend is a club promoter on the side and has thousands of friends on ********. It’s called PROMOTING. You have to add everyone to get people there. He also does his own parties too though. Oh and guess what, he’s married, so should she break up with him because he’s adding tons of girls? The guy would never cheat.

You obviously haven’t been to much clubs, the clubs will give away free drinks, comped bottles, table service until the tables are filled to bring guys in.
wtf ur friend got to do anything?? My homie is a party promoter in so cal, I've had the best night's of my life with him.
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Did the right thing broski. I also have an observation.

what do guilty people do when they get questioned about their whereabouts, or how they knew this or that person, or why they were here or there on a certain day and time? They deny every bit of it and play dumb - UNTIL - you drop the bomb on them that you know otherwise. Yeah thats when they start remembering things as if by some miracle or because it just "slipped their mind."

but what do innocent people do? they're up-front & honest & aren't afraid to tell you what happened since they know they didn't do anything wrong.

these lend me to believe that more happened that night than you or anyone with testicles will ever know about. hats off though OP. you stood your ground & sent that worthless skank packing.
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you keep mentioning disrespect and how you don't approve

you sound like a parent speaking to their daughter

weird dynamic

"I called her and told her she didnt meet my expectations"

you sound a bit crazy and insecure
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At the end of the day who really wants to deal with this. I learned pretty quickly in my dating career that these party girls aren't worth the trouble. Who wants to be with someone that will make you sit around all night, wonder what they're up to, when they're going to call, stress you out and make you do P.I. work to get to the bottom of all their excuses. No way. It's fuking exhausting.

OP I think her story very suss but even if nothing happened, you saved yourself a lot of future headaches.
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Lol you're such a cuck.
obviously not if he dumped her for it
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Originally Posted By gwg77
-OP's girlfriend goes out for bday and doesnt invite OP
-She goes clubbing with her friends/co-workers
-promoters buying rounds of drinks for her and friends
-she rents hotel room
-A train (consisting of promoters and co-workers) is run on OP's girlfriend
-Video of hotel gang-bang on OP's girlfriend can viewed in American Bukkake volume 350
wotttt the f***


I really hope thats a troll thread/or post
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Originally Posted By snailsrus
wotttt the f***


I really hope thats a troll thread/or post
The above post last 2 cliffs were bull****.

OP didn't have evidence of anything happening, some promoter just sent her a friend request on ******** and he dumped her for it lol
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