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Thread: Do women in their 30s play games like this?!

post 1546884391 03-19-2018, 10:00 PM
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Think I'm gonna start going to church again.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Just gonna go NC.
Why not make a clean break & be blunt with your reasons (either text or voicemail if you are afraid of speaking with her) and move on with closure instead of the games? What you are doing right now is how you lose respect from women. She will be upset & will probably be a little pissed off but she will respect you for sure. I'm still trying to understand the NC initiative.



I dont get miscers sometimes. They love setting themselves up for failure.
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Why not make a clean break & be blunt with your reasons (either text or voicemail if you are afraid of speaking with her) and move on with closure instead of the games? What you are doing right now is how you lose respect from women. She will be upset & will probably be a little pissed off but she will respect you for sure. I'm still trying to understand the NC initiative.

I dont get miscers sometimes. They love setting themselves up for failure.
Because SHE is not communicating with me when I attempted to contact her man. It's not the other way around. I'd totally talk to her in person but she has been acting distant.
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post 1546891461 03-20-2018, 12:25 AM
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Why not make a clean break & be blunt with your reasons (either text or voicemail if you are afraid of speaking with her) and move on with closure instead of the games? What you are doing right now is how you lose respect from women. She will be upset & will probably be a little pissed off but she will respect you for sure. I'm still trying to understand the NC initiative.



I dont get miscers sometimes. They love setting themselves up for failure.
How can he go nc when she wasnt contacting him back in the first place?
post 1546891781 03-20-2018, 12:32 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Because SHE is not communicating with me when I attempted to contact her man. It's not the other way around. I'd totally talk to her in person but she has been acting distant.
She just got back from vacation? Who says she’s conscious?

You’ve attempted contact leave it until she gets back to you

Goddam you young uns and your ghosting and fade outs ....ridiculous game play you’ve invented to fuk with your own heads
post 1546892241 03-20-2018, 12:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
She just got back from vacation? Who says she’s conscious?

You’ve attempted contact leave it until she gets back to you

Goddam you young uns and your ghosting and fade outs ....ridiculous game play you’ve invented to fuk with your own heads
yo...she got back from vacation Sunday. I waited a day to call her and no response.

I see her on IG liking ****
Then BOOM active on Bumble (location is shown when you're recently active)

Alls I need to see.
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post 1546892291 03-20-2018, 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
yo...she got back from vacation Sunday. I waited a day to call her and no response.

I see her on IG liking ****
Then BOOM active on Bumble (location is shown when you're recently active)

Alls I need to see.
Oh ok then ...she ducked your call? You left a message?

Not much else to do
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Oh ok then ...she ducked your call? You left a message?

Not much else to do
Didn't leave a message. **** that. The missed call is the message.

Probably next girl I have sex with I'm going to unleash all my rage on her.
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post 1546892581 03-20-2018, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
yo...she got back from vacation Sunday. I waited a day to call her and no response.

I see her on IG liking ****
Then BOOM active on Bumble (location is shown when you're recently active)

Alls I need to see.
Sorry bro, next
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Originally Posted By silliestrabbitt⏩
How can he go nc when she wasnt contacting him back in the first place?
Leave a text stating that you are ending it for the reasons that you describe & leave it at that. If she cares she will reply. If not you have closure. The OP had sex with the woman a few times so if he does not receive a reply he knows that he was nothing more than a booty call. It does not get simpler than that and you have closure. *shrug*
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post 1546892891 03-20-2018, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
yo...she got back from vacation Sunday. I waited a day to call her and no response.

I see her on IG liking ****
Then BOOM active on Bumble (location is shown when you're recently active)

Alls I need to see.
Dude, just send a text ending this. She is looking for new guys to draft on her roster (this is the same thing the last woman I kicked to the curb did and she was pursuing me). You are way too sensitive for this!


The OP is getting a hard lesson on how promiscuous women really are. lol
post 1546893051 03-20-2018, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Dude, just send a text ending this. She is looking for new guys to draft on her roster (this is the same thing the last woman I kicked to the curb did and she was pursuing me). You are way too sensitive for this!


The OP is getting a hard lesson on how promiscuous women really are. lol
I know how promiscuous women are. Just her words and actions were otherwise.

No hookups want something serious rah rah right? She resisted my advances before she decided she was comfortable and secure enough to have sex with me.

I recall one time going over to her place after having sex with her 24 hours ago just to walk in have sex. I tried and she stopped me to talk, said she wanted that first before doing anything...lol I **** you not dude. Oh and the long text about sex being an emotional connection for her.


Contrast to one night stands I have. One girl I talked to for a few weeks due to scheduling conflicts finally meeting and one night standing her. Her calling me a dick tease for taking so long lol.

I thought the doc was looking for something serious as she said. Oh well.
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post 1546893081 03-20-2018, 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It's not only women but just modern dating in general. Plenty of guys do the same thing to women.

It's just the reality of modern dating where people have many more options than before, plus modern technology (texting, online dating etc) makes it easier to string people along and then slow fade and ghost.

But the essence of it is just that their interest levels did not match up. And that is hard to accept when you're the more interested one. You just have to keep trying until you get lucky and meet someone with equal interest.
This chit is why I was resistant to break up and really wanted my relationship to work out. I had a girl that was exclusive, loyal and committed to me since the beginning. And I let her go, for personality reasons.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It's not only women but just modern dating in general. Plenty of guys do the same thing to women.

It's just the reality of modern dating where people have many more options than before, plus modern technology (texting, online dating etc) makes it easier to string people along and then slow fade and ghost.

But the essence of it is just that their interest levels did not match up. And that is hard to accept when you're the more interested one. You just have to keep trying until you get lucky and meet someone with equal interest.
going from 'you look nice! you smell nice!' to frigid the next day. just lol

also the actions I got from when I tried to have sex with her

Yeah and I admit I've ghosted before too but gave the chick closure.

I'm no angel too but I've learned how to be better at dating with intention now.
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post 1546893591 03-20-2018, 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I know how promiscuous women are. Just her words and actions were otherwise.

No hookups want something serious rah rah right? She resisted my advances before she decided she was comfortable and secure enough to have sex with me.

I recall one time going over to her place after having sex with her 24 hours ago just to walk in have sex. I tried and she stopped me to talk, said she wanted that first before doing anything...lol I **** you not dude. Oh and the long text about sex being an emotional connection for her.


Contrast to one night stands I have. One girl I talked to for a few weeks due to scheduling conflicts finally meeting and one night standing her. Her calling me a dick tease for taking so long lol.

I thought the doc was looking for something serious as she said. Oh well.
How did you screen her out (if you even done it at all)?
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
How did you screen her out (if you even done it at all)?
You talk about dealbreakers mostly. Just where the conversation lies. Honestly on first dates I talk about things to connect with the girl. Very topical.

I probably can screen if I practice though but her behavior appeared as though she wanted something serious. Would call me, make plans, yada yada. Like I said about the sex stuff too wanting an emotional connection.
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Maybe she didn't like the sex and doesn't know how to tell you?

Who cares man. Just move on.
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The juice is never worth the squeeze.

Waiting for it is never worthwhile.

You're always better trying to build something with a girl who gives it to you early than one who makes you jump through tons of bull**** hoops. Why? Because chances are the one that didn't make you jump through all the nonsense hoops actually likes you more
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Chitty to hear this brah, you seemed very excited to continue this. Strict NC now unless she reaches out to you first and don't sound phased by the fact that she never answered your call or question her about it if she does reach out, just welcome back, how was trip, etc.

If you have the time for it, its always good to have 2-3 on the go as it softens the blow when chit like this happens. Its usually never a bad thing for her to know that she has competition as well, especially subtly. Lessons learned, stay positive but never truly get your hopes up until she is in the boat beside you
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Sword just hook up with a female miscer....plenty of them are on your D.
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You went weak on the pipe game.

She thought/hoped you was mandingo. NC once she confirmed you weren't.

No sweat Ovie! Onto the next.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
You went weak on the pipe game.

She thought/hoped you was mandingo. NC once she confirmed you weren't.

No sweat Ovie! Onto the next.
Ha no dude. I ****ed her good. She told me she was playing with herself thinking about how I felt and how I was dirty talking her.

She's sorta weird though. I recall the second time having sex with her. I was about to have sex with her on the couch and she told me let's go to the bed. She then got her linen out of the dryer, put on the sheets and went into the bed. I **** you not dude. Was just kinda off and mechanical.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Ha no dude. I ****ed her good. She told me she was playing with herself thinking about how I felt and how I was dirty talking her.

She's sorta weird though. I recall the second time having sex with her. I was about to have sex with her on the couch and she told me let's go to the bed. She then got her linen out of the dryer, put on the sheets and went into the bed. I **** you not dude. Was just kinda off and mechanical.
Sounds like she doesn't really respect you and is just using you for dick tbh.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Sounds like she doesn't really respect you and is just using you for dick tbh.
Yeah maybe but I was telling an older friend about this...he's 48. He told me he got ghosted by a 44 yesterday old lol. We were just saying how much multi dating goes on.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I don't think it's a screening issue or anything you did or did not do or that was in your control. In dating it's just normal and to be expected that interest levels will vary and you just have to keep looking until you meet someone with equal interest.

When that happens the connection is more effortless and you don't have to try so hard or analyze what they are thinking etc. It's just clear that they like you. And this can be clear quickly within the first couple of dates.
Sorta went from high interest to low interest. You're right.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Ha no dude. I ****ed her good. She told me she was playing with herself thinking about how I felt and how I was dirty talking her.

She's sorta weird though. I recall the second time having sex with her. I was about to have sex with her on the couch and she told me let's go to the bed. She then got her linen out of the dryer, put on the sheets and went into the bed. I **** you not dude. Was just kinda off and mechanical.
Sounds like a lack of sexual chemistry regardless. I know ive ghosted many a chick in my day that I lacked sexual chemistry with. I always give it a 2nd chance too.

Its not really women, its people of any age, we have no conflict resolution skills as a culture anymore, so instead of her communicating its over, she patrick swayzes.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Sounds like a lack of sexual chemistry regardless. I know ive ghosted many a chick in my day that I lacked sexual chemistry with. I always give it a 2nd chance too.

Its not really women, its people of any age, we have no conflict resolution skills as a culture anymore, so instead of her communicating its over, she patrick swayzes.
She explicitly said we had good chemistry lol so no.

Just a psycho modern dater lolol. Conflict averse for sure.

I did ghost a girl once because her pussy stank. Legit tried to get her to shower with me the next time and wipe but she didn't. Couldn't have sex with her twice.
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