You live in a white and liberal state, yet Southern boys?? Those two should be mutually exclusive.

I agree that a female would have to not give a crap what her family thinks to be in a mixed race relationships.

I have a family member who has since passed, who heard that I dated a Mexican man (who had his own business and was quite successful) and a Columbian man years ago, and I can't even tell you the nasty comments I received.

They aren't, but really dude... Having sex at an extremely young age is nothing to brag about or be proud of. Would those mother****ers be bragging if they were parents at the age of 11-13? Context is everything. They fail to realize that if they didn't have kids at that point that they got extremely lucky, considering it's doubtful that they used any kind of protection. Furthermore the area you're in in Florida is actually notoriously high with its rate of HIV and other STD infections, especially when compared to neighboring and nearby counties.

I lost my virginity at age 18. Who the **** am I trying to impress by ****ing everything that walks while still being a kid? If someone brags about that it is because they have done **** all with their lives. And most people having sex at that point haven't.



Yes, people to a degree will assume that because you are black you are desperate for pussy and will do anything to get it. What do you do in that instance? Rise above. Hold yourself to a higher damn standard, and be all the better for it. But you're feeding into the **** when you refer to these women as hos. I don't call a woman a ho or a bitch unless she proves she is actually deserving of that title. Break free of that stereotypical **** you're feeding yourself...trust me. You might not think you're feeding into it, but you are.



Lmfao. This situation describes my ex perfectly. Instagram and ******** accounts loaded with selfies. No hobbies outside of work and exercise. Always had to talk about how guys or patients (she's a nurse) would hit on her or how they sent her angry messages when she was off the market last month while we were an official couple. She was all about keeping up appearances on social media but not about building anything of worth or relevance. But what was I? Blinded by the fact that she was good looking. Signs were obvious that I should have ignored it but I didn't. The only reason I was really with her in retrospect was to smash, because based on the subject matter of conversations she would start it was obvious she wasn't really worth her salt. Lmfao. I could keep on going about that one, but I definitely dodged a bullet. And you're right about it. You typically don't learn these women are **** until you actually date them and then watch those facades drop as they become more relaxed, natural and show you how they really are. Y'all don't hear us though. We fail way more than we succeed, and when it comes to women, don't let your eyes fool you. You might see me with a fly girl and think I'm winning when in reality I may be losing.

MSTOW crew checking in. Men sent their own way.

I have pretty much given up on dating and relationships. I'm highly introverted and my sex drive is nonexistent, so it doesn't bother me much.

Anyone listen to the black phillip show? much wisdom by the late Patrice O'neal
if you doing some house work throw on some headphones and learn

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAm...5F580AB012D5E3

Yea I listen to it on occasion. Some of the chit he comes out with cracks me up.

"I'm gonna give you a lil' bit of medicine Joe, and it ain't gonna taste good..."

But his advice is also a bit too "dark triad" and jaded at times, and you'd end up a douchebag if you followed everything he said to a T.

To DLB. You can attempt to shame me or whatever, but up until the 90s getting or wanting a woman that wasn't obese was completely reasonable. Sorry I havent dranken the kool aid and think being unhealthy is normal or attractive.


Sidenote. I should have invested more

Trevan, it has nothing to do with shaming you. You and I both gained a lot of weight recently. I know we are both losing, but the weight gain made me realize how shallow I was previously because I felt that if I ate disgusting food, then the guy can't get away with ordering a Large pizza and downing it, even at age 25, if I'm ordering a salmon salad for dinner. Now my diet isn't that strict, so I don't expect the man to look like a Miscer avi.

Did you read FLChamp's post? A hot woman isn't necessarily the best thing possible.

I am open to a man that no longer has a six pack and looks like Adonis, so I think you would mature as I have. Perhaps I was wrong. Look beyond the physique for someone of quality. Who cares if she has a 32 inch waist?

I dont want a hot woman. I just want a woman this isnt going to die in her 50s or get diabetes.Who cares if she has a 32 inch waist? LOL. I do. Get your fat acceptance nonsense out of here.

As always, DLB makes everything about DLB.

Well, then stop complaining you can't get a woman then.

So because I don't want to date a women with a 32 inch waist or obese women in general I need to "stop complaining" ?

You are a basket case.

Well of course, aren't all women throwing up their cheat meals?

I've gone 5 weeks without purging. Have been doing 2.5 hour workouts instead.

I can be a terrible narcissist, my apologies. My hell exists in my head.

It's not fat acceptance, it's me trying to navigate through a world in recovery where I cannot starve or engage in unhealthy restrictive eating habits, but the world around us hates fat.

Therapist says I shouldn't date, so I should just be FA because I medically cannot diet as it may kill me before the age of 50? My avi is of me before I ended up in the ambulance and placed in the Eating Disorder hospital for 3 months, where they had me gain 50 lbs in 3 months eating 3,000 to 4,000 calories a day.

How does one go out into the real world and exist in an eating disordered society full of dieting and unhealthy behavior?

Even though I am unstable, the Lord gave me brains. AMD is a bad investment IMO. I work down the street from them.

Invest in a company with long-term growth potential, that very few people are aware of.

I dont want a hot woman. I just want a woman this isnt going to die in her 50s or get diabetes.Who cares if she has a 32 inch waist? LOL. I do. Get your fat acceptance nonsense out of here.

And Trevan, how would you like it if a woman rejected you now for being too fat?

i will go post in the Eating Disorder thread where they are kind and understanding, and not a bunch of shallow jerks like you guys.....

This has nothing to do with me being shallow. Stop trying to shame people for not falling in line with your new world view.

Ive been rejected skinny, lean, yolked, and now chubby. So it all feels the same lol. At the moment Im not expecting to really get any women.

should just ignore DLB.
She cray cray.

Yeah she made a pretty substantial chitpost thread last night. I think she took a mod neg for it, too. Of course she deleted it later.

Yeah she made a pretty substantial chitpost thread last night. I think she took a mod neg for it, too. Of course she deleted it later.

Well of course, aren't all women throwing up their cheat meals?

I've gone 5 weeks without purging. Have been doing 2.5 hour workouts instead.

I can be a terrible narcissist, my apologies. My hell exists in my head.

It's not fat acceptance, it's me trying to navigate through a world in recovery where I cannot starve or engage in unhealthy restrictive eating habits, but the world around us hates fat.

Therapist says I shouldn't date, so I should just be FA because I medically cannot diet as it may kill me before the age of 50? My avi is of me before I ended up in the ambulance and placed in the Eating Disorder hospital for 3 months, where they had me gain 50 lbs in 3 months eating 3,000 to 4,000 calories a day.

How does one go out into the real world and exist in an eating disordered society full of dieting and unhealthy behavior?

Even though I am unstable, the Lord gave me brains.AMD is a bad investment IMO. I work down the street from them.

Invest in a company with long-term growth potential, that very few people are aware of.

Their stock has been going up steadily and they have a new line if gpus and cpus that will put serious pressure on Intel and Nvidia. Its not a bad investment at all. Especially seeing how I've already gotten 40% of my initial investment back in profit. If you would have had $5000.00 worth of AMD stock a few years back you would be looking at about $18,0000 profit right now. Add to the fact they just struck a deal with Apple and their new server CPUs are supposed to do some serious work.

Their stock has been going up steadily and they have a new line if gpus and cpus that will put serious pressure on Intel and Nvidia. Its not a bad investment at all. Especially seeing how I've already gotten 40% of my initial investment back in profit. If you would have had $5000.00 worth of AMD stock a few years back you would be looking at about $18,0000 profit right now. Add to the fact they just struck a deal with Apple and their new server CPUs are supposed to do some serious work.