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post 1559709811 08-25-2018, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
This is true women dont have to work at all for men when I was dating I took all the initiatives and girls didn't respond at all most of the time. It's like they want the man to be perfect and social to bring them out of their shell or just stand around waiting to be impressed by the man. It's just retarded that the men have to do all of the work and the girls can still fuk you over or play games and cuck you while you are auditioning to keep her for the first 6 months lol.
ya because getting in shape and dressing up and looking good doesn't really count as working for men
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
ya because getting in shape and dressing up and looking good doesn't really count as working for men
Just stop being gay.
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Why even worry about what some random 4/10 sloot on a dating site thinks??? How does her opinion even matter?????


Link me studies on what women I actually find attractive think. There are none.

Every time I see a scientific study on what women find attractive, I think what the fukc land whale with child answered this.
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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Just stop being gay.
how so?
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Originally Posted By Casca⏩
Why even worry about what some random 4/10 sloot on a dating site thinks??? How does her opinion even matter?????


Link me studies on what women I actually find attractive think. There are none.

Every time I see a scientific study on what women find attractive, I think what the fukc land whale with child answered this.
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Stop whining OP. Sure women have iteasierin the dating world. But men have itbetterin the dating world, especially if you keep working on yourself.
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Originally Posted By Vatefairenculer⏩
Stop whining OP. Sure women have iteasierin the dating world. But men have itbetterin the dating world, especially if you keep working on yourself.
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post 1559904721 08-28-2018, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Vatefairenculer⏩
Stop whining OP. Sure women have iteasierin the dating world. But men have itbetterin the dating world, especially if you keep working on yourself.
Yes I'm aware that whining will never solve anything, I saw a powerful post last night that guys have to be properly socialized in their teens or formative years to be very good with women or what makes them get labeled as a natural, the thing that bothers and pisses me off is that it's automatic for women because women basically have no choice to be socialized because they are the ones being pursued, and I believe it's been proven that women are naturally more social than men are.
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
ya because getting in shape and dressing up and looking good doesn't really count as working for men
I’m starting to feel like being in shape isn’t even that big of a thing anymore. It’s almost like it’s an expected requirement to be in shape. I constantly see other guys being in good shape these days that you barely even stand out anymore if you’re in good shape yourself.
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
Yes I'm aware that whining will never solve anything, I saw a powerful post last night that guys have to be properly socialized in their teens or formative years to be very good with women or what makes them get labeled as a natural, the thing that bothers and pisses me off is that it's automatic for women because women basically have no choice to be socialized because they are the ones being pursued, and I believe it's been proven that women are naturally more social than men are.
Yeah, there’s women like 8 to 10 years younger than me at my job that get boyfriends so damn easily. Some of them had like 3 boyfriends in the span of a year or two.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
I’m starting to feel like being in shape isn’t even that big of a thing anymore. It’s almost like it’s an expected requirement to be in shape. I constantly see other guys being in good shape these days that you barely even stand out anymore if you’re in good shape yourself.
Nobody can even tell what you look like under clothes. There are guys that look kind of built but have mediocre physiques. Dudes that look skinny but lean af with abs. It's not really possible for girls to tell how a guy looks under clothes most of them just look at face. So being lean really helps get attention but i don't think most girls care much about that either as long as you aren't fat. But you do get more stares i noticed.
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post 1559923851 08-28-2018, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Nobody can even tell what you look like under clothes. There are guys that look kind of built but have mediocre physiques. Dudes that look skinny but lean af with abs. It's not really possible for girls to tell how a guy looks under clothes most of them just look at face. So being lean really helps get attention but i don't think most girls care much about that either as long as you aren't fat. But you do get more stares i noticed.
True I suppose but than that makes being in shape even more meaningless when it comes to women. If women don’t care about physique much than you don’t stand out regardless of how you look physically.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
True I suppose but than that makes being in shape even more meaningless when it comes to women. If women don’t care about physique much than you don’t stand out regardless of how you look physically unless you’re overweight.
Yeah it really doesn't matter i mean you might get more stares from being lean but it's not a big difference over a dude that's like 18-20%
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post 1559924601 08-28-2018, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Yeah it really doesn't matter i mean you might get more stares from being lean but it's not a big difference over a dude that's like 18-20%
lol it’s like why am I even going back to the gym if it’s not even going to do anything for me in any way. No one will notice or give a **** that I’m in good shape. It won’t bring any positivity to my life at all except for physically looking better on the outside yet no one cares anyway.
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
lol it’s like why am I even going back to the gym if it’s not even going to do anything for me in any way. No one will notice or give a **** that I’m in good shape. It won’t bring any positivity to my life at all except for physically looking better on the outside yet no one cares anyway.
Yeah i mean it really doesn't matter at all i just do it because there's literally nothing else for me to do and i don't want to look like a potato
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Yeah i mean it really doesn't matter at all i just do it because there's literally nothing else for me to do and i don't want to look like a potato
Yeah, I really do hate being skinny though. I’ve been working out & taking weight gainer protein powder to bulk up. It’s just I get this sense of like it’s so pointless though since women don’t give a **** & it doesn’t change anything about my day to day life in general.
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Jad T Jones released a good new video lately on how critically important it is for guys to grow up in a social environment to help them be good with women early on in life which makes guys to be labeled Naturals, I really admired the video but at the same time it also pissed me off because it goes to show how it's far more important for a guy than for a girl to grow up in a very social environment early on in life
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
Yeah, I really do hate being skinny though. I’ve been working out & taking weight gainer protein powder to bulk up. It’s just I get this sense of like it’s so pointless though since women don’t give a **** & it doesn’t change anything about my day to day life in general.
Yeah but honestly i haven't even lifted much in the past 2 weeks and i still look the same. Nobody can tell i look any different with a shirt on. I'm going on another bulk tomorrow but it is not like anyone is going to notice i put on 5 lbs of muscle or that i look any different from the other bigger guys that don't even lift. Unless i look shredded and get huge nobody will even notice.
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
Jad T Jones released a good new video lately on how critically important it is for guys to grow up in a social environment to help them be good with women early on in life which makes guys to be labeled Naturals, I really admired the video but at the same time it also pissed me off because it goes to show how it's far more important for a guy than for a girl to grow up in a very social environment early on in life
True and i think any significant time not spent with females destroys men's social skills. Men aren't supposed to go years without talking to or hanging out with the opposite sex. Every guy that is good with girls is constantly around them. Some guys don't really get that chance though.
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
Jad T Jones released a good new video lately on how critically important it is for guys to grow up in a social environment to help them be good with women early on in life which makes guys to be labeled Naturals, I really admired the video but at the same time it also pissed me off because it goes to show how it's far more important for a guy than for a girl to grow up in a very social environment early on in life
Real talk: is all you do angst about being forced to approach girls?
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Real talk: is all you do angst about being forced to approach girls?
yup, I refuse to do something about it, because it reminds me of my hatred and strong resentment towards masculinity with a huge passion, I hate how life, society, always coined or created "man of action" but you never hear of "woman of action", it pisses me off because, its a process of trial and error, I refuse to go through pain to get better at something, because i'm already too far behind, if I was 18 again, sure I would "do" something about it, but if I ever get better at something, I will always be behind.

that's why I started this whole thread, its only men who need to learn success with women, I don't see how women have to learn when they don't have to take action for anything and you only learn in life through taking action
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
yup
LOL
I refuse to go through pain to get better at something
That explains a lot right there, brah. Whatdoyou try at?
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Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
I don't see how women have to learn when they don't have to take action
You're so disconnected from reality. Here are examples of women taking action. if they didn't these articles wouldn't exist. Don't believe me, just go buy any women's magazine. I guarantee you'll find a similar article.

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-lov...w-to-meet-men/
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-lov...s-to-meet-men/
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https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-lov...-guys/?slide=1
Originally Posted By DoStuffYouHate⏩
yup, I refuse to do something about it, because it reminds me of my hatred and strong resentment towards masculinity with a huge passion, I hate how life, society, always coined or created "man of action" but you never hear of "woman of action", it pisses me off because, its a process of trial and error, I refuse to go through pain to get better at something, because i'm already too far behind, if I was 18 again, sure I would "do" something about it, but if I ever get better at something, I will always be behind.

that's why I started this whole thread, its only men who need to learn success with women, I don't see how women have to learn when they don't have to take action for anything and you only learn in life through taking action
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It's supply and demand. Guys go for women in general. Women can pick and choose the best if they want.
True. But how the hell can you compete with a guy who has a social circle when you have none? Like what can you give to her? This has happened in college before. There was this sloot there who didnt have much friends; her looks were definitely above average so she was a gf material. She considered me for a while but I had like 3 or 4 friends at college and I barely attended to classes so she choose the guy who had a huge social circle, car and rich dad and he frequented beach clubs all the time. When she hooked up with him loneliness problem is fixed and I kept on being single.

Why would a girl choose a guy who has no friends? That is my biggest problem. Apart from that I have a well paying job, a car, and hobbies so I dont sit at home 24/7
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Why would a girl choose a guy who has no friends? That is my biggest problem. Apart from that I have a well paying job, a car, and hobbies so I dont sit at home 24/7
Not all women are the same dude.
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Not all women are the same dude.
It was the same for all the women fron different races I've met. A friendless guy cant offer much to any woman out there.

And to all the brahs saying get your chit together before chasing girls; I've seen bartenders who make minimum wage+tips pulling HBBs and even marrying them. I have a feeling the women who will fall for you once you earn your keep, own a decent house and a car will be the leftovers of Tyrone who had enough of "finding herself"
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Originally Posted By Sinan09400⏩
It was the same for all the women fron different races I've met. A friendless guy cant offer much to any woman out there.

And to all the brahs saying get your chit together before chasing girls; I've seen bartenders who make minimum wage+tips pulling HBBs and even marrying them. I have a feeling the women who will fall for you once you earn your keep, own a decent house and a car will be the leftovers of Tyrone who had enough of "finding herself"
I forgot that this thread was toxic, forgot to unsub. I'm bailing, gl.

I'll leave you with this; not all women can be placed into your neat black and white buckets. You will end up bitter and resentful if you maintain your current mindset. Get off the red pill / MGTOW, etc. stuff asap.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I forgot that this thread was toxic, forgot to unsub. I'm bailing, gl.

I'll leave you with this; not all women can be placed into your neat black and white buckets. You will end up bitter and resentful if you maintain your current mindset. Get off the red pill / MGTOW, etc. stuff asap.
I was never interested in that red pill women hate neckbeard bullchit.....
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redpill and MGTOW has NOTHING to do with hating on women thou - the problem is that its flooded with incels and frustrated guys who are bitter towards women, so u see a lot of BS. the redpill/mgtow core thoughts are legit.
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