Title. She came over my house tonight and we fukked. After that she just switch up and lashed out randomly; over the situation and our future. She said that I'm going to be a chitty father and that she doesn't want me to be there at the hospital when the baby is born. Like wtf? She also complained about how all I want is sex, and asked me if I really care about / love her. She doesn't think I really care about her and just with her for sex and also thinks that I'm trying to run away from the situation.


- Its like everytime we get into an arguments for dumb reasons. And she lashes out and flip chit on me randomly. Feels like sometimes she just does things to be hurtful and stir me up. And at times after we argue she would be distant for a few days and come back and apologize and use this pregnancy as an excuse to the way she acted. I was aware that pregnancy makes you hormonal and emotional but I didn't know it was this bad. I hate arguments.

(Snapchat; she's wearing a bra)

come on dj, give me a break. I'm in a stressful situation.

Hey my bolo brah,

Remember her hormones are going to be elevated during this time & you need to be patient with her.

Goodluck, hoping for twins.

Your 22 years old. Why did you breed some random whore?

At this point I'm pretty sure you're just 2 selfish scumbags who only care about themselves and use this pregnancy in their advantage- you for sex because you know she probably wants a father and that pampers money - she to keep whatever of a provider you can be around and pay from time to time for her addictions. None of you thinks about the fact that another life will be brought into this world and that innocent human being deserves none of what you losers will offer. Triggered.

I treat with more respect and kindness street cats, you're just too much for me.

Negged, loser

Eighteen years, eighteen years. She got one of your kids, got you for eighteen years

I've been patient enough and had enough of her chit. I get that she's pregnant but I have feelings too, and being pregnant is not an excuse to lash out and be hurtful.

Must care for her posting her image on a international media platform. *******

is this the type of woman you see yourself living with for the rest of your days? Go on holidays together? Buy a house and raise your ćhildren with?

Dude, she had quit drinking since she got pregnant and trying to keep her and the baby healthy. Her family are supportive. Idk why your ass is being so negative.

I always provide pics. (Was a Snapchat). And if I didn't care then I wouldn't be working right now making $$$$ while in college.

Well your ghey thread is fukken chit . You deadbeat

I only know her for 8 months, that's not enough time to know someone and marry them. I'm still in school (one more year left) and not financially stable yet.

- it's a scary situation. It is what it is, what's done is done. Can't do chit about it now. I made the mistake and dealing with the consequences. I got a job part time while in school. It's not enough, but it's better than nothing; at least I'm putting in effort.

I'm sorry I rustled your FA ass in my pasts threads. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

Negged

You have to put the baby up for adoption seriously. Its legit the best thing for all of you.

lol. Idk why you're being rustled or quick to judge. You never been in this situation to even know what it's like. (Don't)

Adoption is what I want since its better than killing it. Her family is Italian and they're catholic, so yeah.

- I've talked about putting it up for adoption with her, and she mentions how imagine carrying the baby for 9 painful months and it would be heartbreaking to give the baby away. That's why she said I'll be a chitty dad, because I don't it. And that's the vibe she probably sees. You know what I mean?

I know enough about kids at my age and I know that from what you posted you are not someone mentally sane, she's also mentally challenged. If she quit drinking for 2 weeks it doesn't mean that she won't relapse, you both seem mentally and emotionally unstable. Oh now you're so supportive, but made a thread about screaming at your pregnant girlfriend to clean her chit up after puking. Father of the year, will you also scream at you 1 day baby to clean his chit up when he poops ?

It's not the fact that you try or not, why didn't you look for parents already since you wanted to solve the situation ? Stop trying to make it work, it's clear that you are both trailer trash, incapable of communicating properly as adults, let alone raising a child in a normal family with the love and attention he needs. Don't you get it ? You probably didn't have yourself a good home, she is an ex addict, who will raise this kid properly, the supportive family that held her too, cause that's why she needed to ''quit drinking?''

Wake up *******, someone who is capable to be a parent doesn't need to quit drinking and go to rehab in the first place, normal people don't spend their lives in trap houses.

You deserve the chit other posters are giving you for knocking up a crazy rando but props for trying to make the best of it OP.

Good luck bruh

This situation is similar to Khal drogos and Daenerys relationship on the show Game of Thrones, passionate, fearful and revengeful. Stop treating her like a queen tho, think differently


Spoiler!

Did you photoshop that queen banner in hopes she would stumble on this friend and forgive you for you're selfish ways ?

You have to sit her down and tell her she's being selfish. This baby is a whole other life. Its gonna turn into a living breathing person that you are responsible for. You guys are both going full retard and the baby will likely end up being a statistic. At least with adoption you can do your homework and find a good home for it. Its your baby and if you really want to give it the best life possible you'll push for adoption as much as possible. Do you really wanna grow up resenting not just her but the baby as well? She needs to understand that if she really loves the baby she must at least consider the possibility.

I live in one the most expensive areas in the country and attend college. My house is probably bigger than yours too. At least I have successful parents; unlike you.

- how can you predict/talk chit? Have you ever been through pregnancy? If not then stfu. Until you been through this situation then you'd know what it's like.

Was a Snapchat. Was before we got into an argument.

The best thing you could have done in this situation was to put a topless picture of the woman carrying your unborn child on a bodybuilding forum.....you really will make a chitty father.

That's what I've been telling her. You can want anything but the girl has to agree too. She thought abortions were selfish and I told her that keeping it and not able to raise it is selfish too. I want to give it up for adoption, but she needs to agree with that too. Her parents are supportive and helping her out with the doctors appointment and she doesn't have to pay rent, she lives with them and commutes to school.

*******, don't come at me with what your parents own and the area of the house they own. Talk about what you own, having no career, no work experience, a ******* who is still in college with no dating and serious relationship experience.Most of all, you are mentally challenged for making a hook-up who you have 0 in common with - your baby momma. Just listen to people's advice, you're both failures, search for a good family with educated, high class parents so the kid has access to education, proper environment and will grow emotionally and mentally. With you 2 that kid has no chance other than being traumatized for life.

I always provide pics.

- I'll admit it, I'm not ready to become a father. I'm still in school and not financially stable yet.