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post 1623136751 11-19-2020, 06:52 PM
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Anyone here spending the holidays alone with no significant other?

All of my friends have their s/o and newborns while I’m still here with no one. Even my siblings have their s/o

Pretty sad to be going another year without one and makes me wish I stayed with the last one two years ago.


What are you guys going to be doing? Truly miss shopping with someone and enjoying the holiday spirit
post 1623139601 11-19-2020, 07:21 PM
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newly FA checking in

prob gonna go vacation somewhere w some bros tho
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post 1623141011 11-19-2020, 07:36 PM
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After so much time being without a women you get used to being a lone and start enjoying it
post 1623141521 11-19-2020, 07:44 PM
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Yep. You get used to it. It doesn’t phase me anymore.
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post 1623146631 11-19-2020, 09:00 PM
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eh, me too, 2 and a half week broken up going on 3 weeks. sucks, but that's just the way it is. the breakup doesn't wait for an opportune time, it just happens holiday or no holiday. oh well... good luck op, hope you have a good Thanksgiving. I'll try my best too.
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post 1623148191 11-19-2020, 09:17 PM
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Do you have friends/family?

Being alone is the GOAT
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post 1623149041 11-19-2020, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted By the700level⏩
Do you have friends/family?

Being alone is the GOAT
Agreed. No pressure of spending the holidays with her family, no wasted money on gifts, no disappointment from her if she doesn’t get engaged, no dread feeling of her leaving you if she doesn’t get engaged at the holidays. All of my breakups seemed to happen right after December. Would rather have avoided it all and just been with my family.
post 1623153311 11-19-2020, 10:50 PM
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I had someone I was talking to but she found some random Chad on Tinder. I'll be spending my holidays with my parents while she'll be getting dicked by Chad Thundercock.

Getting cucked sucks.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
post 1623155281 11-19-2020, 11:26 PM
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I was talking to someone but her crazy was at odds with my crazy. It was like we never even had a honey moon phase, she just went right through the devaluation stage for about 2 1/2 months and it was terrible.
post 1623180461 11-20-2020, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
I was talking to someone but her crazy was at odds with my crazy. It was like we never even had a honey moon phase, she just went right through the devaluation stage for about 2 1/2 months and it was terrible.
Narcissist females are the worst. One I was banging had a harem full of losers constantly buying her gifts and chit and constantly texting them and they were all whinging and complaining every time I came around to creampie her. Not worth it no matter how good the pussy. Abort mission from psycho hoes especially if they have a loser harem constantly gifting her crap.
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post 1623182301 11-20-2020, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Narcissist females are the worst. One I was banging had a harem full of losers constantly buying her gifts and chit and constantly texting them and they were all whinging and complaining every time I came around to creampie her. Not worth it no matter how good the pussy. Abort mission from psycho hoes especially if they have a loser harem constantly gifting her crap.
agreed and pm'd
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post 1623190481 11-20-2020, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
agreed and pm'd
Dated a hott stripper for a while that had a bunch of losers constantly gifting her stuff, typical beta orbiters. Morbidly obese, ancient herman munster looking guys, guys with half their teeth missing. She would play head games with them and they'd drop wads of cash on her. I was just taking her out hiking or to the beaches or rivers and knocking the bottom out of it. She started saying she was in love with me and wanted to get married and have kids but it was all bullchit. She wasn't giving her creepshow cash crew up for it so I would get mad and walk. Then she'd suck me back in with great sex and amazing blowjobs. You could tell she had lots of practice. So glad I never knocked her up. I'd be paying her crazy ass for 18 years.
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post 1623191341 11-20-2020, 10:59 AM
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Tbh I wish I was alone. (Be careful wat wish for)

I would love to be moved out, alone. But instead going to family’s where there will be a bunch of people I don’t like/not good at socializing with, for like 4 days.
post 1623198221 11-20-2020, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Narcissist females are the worst. One I was banging had a harem full of losers constantly buying her gifts and chit and constantly texting them and they were all whinging and complaining every time I came around to creampie her. Not worth it no matter how good the pussy. Abort mission from psycho hoes especially if they have a loser harem constantly gifting her crap.
This one was the opposite. She was frigid, didn't like putting out, had been damaged from previous relationships, and was weird about getting physical in general. By the end of it I wasn't even attracted to her because she was so hot / cold about sex. She was really depressed, and it rubbed off on me and then I realized after we called it off how she was making me feeling like sh!t for a month. Energy vampire sh!t. She wasn't malicious, though. Just damaged.
post 1623200071 11-20-2020, 12:23 PM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend during Christmas time. Looks to be a nice time of year to have a significant other with the shopping and Christmas markets, Christmas movies etc. Christmas films give off such a great vibe and outlook of how nice it is to have someone that time of year and I can’t relate so I just don’t watch them lol.
post 1623272901 11-21-2020, 07:54 AM
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Been single my whole life. Have always spent Christmas with the parents. Have been going over to the family estate every Christmas since moving out 8 years ago.

Doesn't really bother a veteran like me. I don't get rustled by all these Christmas adverts with happy couples snuggling together on the sofa.
Cook the man some eggs!
post 1623274231 11-21-2020, 08:14 AM
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first year spending holiday celibate. interesting, will probably be drunk asf with the boyos ordering some escorts after midnight on new year LOL
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post 1623309321 11-21-2020, 04:15 PM
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who cares brah srs

vidya and sports is all I need.
post 1623314021 11-21-2020, 05:18 PM
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Going through a divorce after 9 years of being together (no kids). I have absolutely no family where I live. I have a few good buddies who invited me to spend the holidays with their family, but I feel odd about it. Not to mention, it probably make me feel worse. Sucks...
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nah **** that going to see the family. My grandparents are already gone
post 1623334041 11-21-2020, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah⏩
who cares brah srs

vidya and sports is all I need.
You know what I like even more than sports cars?

KNOWLEDGE.
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Keep an eye out for a gmiscer repost thread about being alone at Dennys on Christmas. You and the other miserable bastards can post in that one too.
post 1623443851 11-23-2020, 06:05 AM
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Pubs and Clubs (not nightclubs) are open here until 6am christmas morning, been coming home stumbling down the middle of the street its that quiet seeing happy families open presents and enjoy family time
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Broke it off with the girl 2 weeks ago.

Definitely gonna be alone during the holidays.

Ah well, I figure it's better to be alone and have hopes for the future vs being in a relationship that makes me feel hopeless.
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Originally Posted By TallSaint⏩
Broke it off with the girl 2 weeks ago.

Definitely gonna be alone during the holidays.

Ah well, I figure it's better to be alone and have hopes for the future vs being in a relationship that makes me feel hopeless.
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Alone for second year in a row.

Still think about my ex WAY too much, we broke up just over two years ago (but hooked up a few times after, not good decision)/ She's with someone else and I need to seriously move on. We were together 6+ years and my brain just won't let go. Hate to admit it.

I have a date tomorrow though. Won't be a long term thing since she's moving, but maybe some good times.
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i sometimes still feel like an FA, while yes i have dated before, but i've never been in a serious long-term relationship, just 4 months, and i feel i kinda settled for it, but to raise my self-esteem, i repeat to myself that it was better than nothing, i did it for the reference experience, another thing, we never dated or were never together during critical times of the year, such as Valentines Day or during the Holidays, never traveled together, and we never introduced each other to our friends or families.

I did that mainly because i wanted to finally break, snap the single streak, finally cross that hurdle, i didn't want to have to mental stigma attached to me that i was single throughout my 20s.
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Originally Posted By InsanePain11⏩
Alone for second year in a row.

Still think about my ex WAY too much, we broke up just over two years ago (but hooked up a few times after, not good decision)/ She's with someone else and I need to seriously move on. We were together 6+ years and my brain just won't let go. Hate to admit it.

I have a date tomorrow though. Won't be a long term thing since she's moving, but maybe some good times.
Don't worry buddy after a long time you'll eventually forget.
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Originally Posted By EctoPlasmic217⏩
i sometimes still feel like an FA, while yes i have dated before, but i've never been in a serious long-term relationship, just 4 months, and i feel i kinda settled for it, but to raise my self-esteem, i repeat to myself that it was better than nothing, i did it for the reference experience, another thing, we never dated or were never together during critical times of the year, such as Valentines Day or during the Holidays, never traveled together, and we never introduced each other to our friends or families.

I did that mainly because i wanted to finally break, snap the single streak, finally cross that hurdle, i didn't want to have to mental stigma attached to me that i was single throughout my 20s.
I'm in similar boat, feel like i missed out. Will women judge us ?
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newly FA here too. dumped on thanksgiving while i'm laid up at home from surgery. cant drive until i'm healed, so i'm literally stuck at home alone with my dogs & can't go back to work this year. All her christmas presents are sitting on the kitchen table lol. this makes the 3rd christmas in a row for me without an SO. it's not so bad bro. you'll make it.
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