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post 10000234270 Yesterday, 06:55 AM
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Do people think you’re gay if you’re 30+ and never had a girlfriend?

I don’t know anyone so don’t have to worry about what others think but if you are an NPC with a job would your coworkers think you’re gay?
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post 10000234271 Yesterday, 06:56 AM
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Originally Posted By TFcrew
I don’t know anyone so don’t have to worry about what others think but if you are an NPC with a job would your coworkers think you’re gay?
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post 10000234275 Yesterday, 07:01 AM
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I am 43 and never had a gf. Honestly, its not much of an issue. Immediate family never mention my situation or heckle me about it, and very rarely has anyone ever probed into whether or not I have ever had a gf.
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post 10000234278 Yesterday, 07:03 AM
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People think you are gay because they themselves have suppressed homo erotic fantasies.

It has nothing to do with you.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

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post 10000234282 Yesterday, 07:10 AM
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Combine that with the fact that you’re an OP and we have way more than reasonable suspicion
post 10000234284 Yesterday, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
People think you are gay because they themselves have suppressed homo erotic fantasies.

It has nothing to do with you.
That is interesting
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post 10000234288 Yesterday, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By TFcrew
That is interesting
Everyone is projecting all of the time. Fundamental aspect of psychology.

Also, I am projecting my projection tendencies.
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My grandpa used to ask if I was gay because I didn't have a girlfriend at 15 (ded fkin srs). He told me when he was my age he had 3 at a time. I didn't lose my virginity until 17 because I was shy and awkward around girls. Felt good proving him wrong.

I would say in your 30s it's extraordinarily odd to have never had a girlfriend. Not necessarily gay.
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no they don’t think you’re gay





they KNOW you’re gay
post 10000234338 Yesterday, 08:43 AM
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No but I'm pretty sure they think we are all losers which honestly feels even worse. At least if you're a homo people see you didn't totally fail to pair up with another human being.


Here's a general summary
18-22: Stay single and have fun
23-29: Kind of wondering if you're gay
30+ He's a loser


And this applies even if you had a girlfriend but it's been awhile since you had one.
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post 10000234354 23 hours ago, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap
I am 43 and never had a gf. Honestly, its not much of an issue. Immediate family never mention my situation or heckle me about it, and very rarely has anyone ever probed into whether or not I have ever had a gf.
At your age looking back, I can honestly say that dating for me was nowhere near a net gain. The good times and the good feelings don't compare to the money lost, sanity lost, and a bunch of other negative things which occurred as a result of dating. Obviously some guys hit the jack pot and have a great wife and such.
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