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post 10000258309 Yesterday, 02:44 PM
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What is an ideal after work life for a single man with a typical corporate job?

Assume the guy makes good money and has a corporate job where he's up at 7AM, at work at around 8:30, and after hitting the gym, gets home at 6:00, showers, eats dinner, and has some free time at 7:00.

What's the optimal way to spend time?

I mean what can you do SOCIALLY, not talking about staying home and picking solo hobbies.

Drinking is not an option, and you are in your mid 30s.
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post 10000258346 Yesterday, 03:19 PM
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I go to the beach after work sometimes, sometimes golf with some local buddies. But the real answer is to get you one of those XX models and fuck for hours.
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post 10000258350 23 hours ago, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By BigGuyForYou⏩
Hopefully you have a friend group because it gets really hard to make friends after a certain point srs
who do you make friends with after 35+, everyone's either in a relationship or has kids
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
Assume the guy makes good money and has a corporate job where he's up at 7AM, at work at around 8:30, and after hitting the gym, gets home at 6:00, showers, eats dinner, and has some free time at 7:00.

What's the optimal way to spend time?

I mean what can you do SOCIALLY, not talking about staying home and picking solo hobbies.

Drinking is not an option, and you are in your mid 30s.
u want to meet a woman or what is ur goal here
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post 10000258358 23 hours ago, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
u want to meet a woman or what is ur goal here
Ideally yea. I'm cutting down to 10% then going to start looking.
post 10000258364 23 hours ago, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
Ideally yea.
ok so u want a woman get in line lol joking

mixed dance classes srs it's corny yes but women love love love to dance and u will find total smoke shows there yes u can go as a single man because there will always be more single women than men srs

at worse u improve ur balance and coordination and get some cardio at best u find a nice girl

do u live in a city
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post 10000258370 23 hours ago, 03:32 PM
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post 10000258377 23 hours ago, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
I'm cutting down to 10% then going to start looking.
why

women don't care about 10% bf u have made this up in ur mind because u are scared to start looking for a woman

i did it myself when i was young too it's just an excuse not to put urself out there "oh i can't go on dates atm because i will go over my caloric budget i need to diet to 10% bf" BS

stop wasting ur time son u can do both
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post 10000258378 23 hours ago, 03:38 PM
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Now that I'm knocking on 40 I think the simple life really is best.

-Monday to Thursday after work focus on gym to lift weight 2-3 days per week. Either BJJ or Muay Thai 2-3 days per week.
-Fridays: Quick workout or martial arts session then out to a dinner with either girl/friends/family.
-Saturdays: Outdoors recreational activities that are season/weather appropriate.
-Sundays: Morning church service with family/friends. Then go back to the house and BBQ or have a cook-out for the family & friends Just relax, eat and socialize. Meal prep for the week.

Seasonally:
-Fishing, cast netting for shrimp or running lines for crabs. Fry/boil them with friends/family.
-Hunting and cooking up wild game with friends/family.
-Taking a ride on the motorcycle on roads or ATV if on trails.
-Mountain Biking.
-Kayaking.
-Boating.

Vacations:
-Hiking spectacular mountains.
-Scuba diving and snorkeling.
-Beach & related activities.
-Skiing or snow boarding.


Obviously nearly all of these activities can be done solo or with friends. There are a ton of people who do these sorts of things and typically if a person does multiple of them they really have to have their shit together. So by default you're hanging out with a higher tier of friend. It really doesn't matter if you're religious or not I think that's the best way to spend a Sunday.
post 10000258384 23 hours ago, 03:42 PM
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Just join a social sports league. That's literally what they're made for.

Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
Ideally yea. I'm cutting down to 10% then going to start looking.
This is my mindset too lol but realistically I got the most girls when I was out of shape drinking every week.
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post 10000258385 23 hours ago, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
why

women don't care about 10% bf u have made this up in ur mind because u are scared to start looking for a woman

i did it myself when i was young too it's just an excuse not to put urself out there "oh i can't go on dates atm because i will go over my caloric budget i need to diet to 10% bf" BS

stop wasting ur time son u can do both
I've been at 10% before. The difference in how dates go is night and day.
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
I've been at 10% before. The difference in how dates go is night and day.
I put effort in all my threads srs

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Originally Posted By LAHipster1⏩
why

women don't care about 10% bf u have made this up in ur mind because u are scared to start looking for a woman

i did it myself when i was young too it's just an excuse not to put urself out there "oh i can't go on dates atm because i will go over my caloric budget i need to diet to 10% bf" BS

stop wasting ur time son u can do both
They do care, I took a chick to the beach last weekend. She showed up early and I had nothing except my swim trunks on getting my boat ready. Her panties were off before we got a chance to go to the beach.
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
They do care, I took a chick to the beach last weekend. She showed up early and I had nothing except my swim trunks on getting my boat ready. Her panties were off before we got a chance to go to the beach.
Need more deets!
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Boxing or Muay Thai. Srs.

There's just something about hitting the bag after wageslaving and comuting 1 hour in traffic. You can take all your frustrations out on the bag
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Boxing or Muay Thai. Srs.

There's just something about hitting the bag after wageslaving and comuting 1 hour in traffic. You can take all your frustrations out on the bag
If you get paired with a young hbb for clinch work, it's heaven
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Originally Posted By PrimarisIn⏩
If you get paired with a young hbb for clinch work, it's heaven
Have you got paired with a young hbb?
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Have you got paired with a young hbb?
Yep she was 18 lol
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