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post 1444130491 05-25-2016, 01:38 PM
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Embarrassing moment with new roommates, should I reveal truth? (FA PROBLEMS)

What would misc do in this situation?

My roommate and I are moving into a house with two other guys that he knew from home. They got into town last weekend.

Last night we started talking about women and everyone was giving their "counts" one at a time. Everyone was over 20, and then they started looking at me and said " So are we over 100 combined! where are you at?

In the past I've lied but I didn't want to do that anymore, so I just told them I wasn't going to say. It got super quite and they pressed me but I just joked and said I would reveal later.

One of them texted me today and said he wants to know why out of curiosity
Was fuking embarrassing, I think they are aware of my FA status and it's wrecking my self esteem. They are all over 20 fuking smashes and I'm kissless.




=(
post 1444131331 05-25-2016, 01:44 PM
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pls rspnd =(
post 1444131861 05-25-2016, 01:47 PM
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are you a virgin?

at the end of the day, who cares? srs. if it really bothers them, then just be glad you have roommates who will pay rent and not bother you.
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post 1444132121 05-25-2016, 01:49 PM
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kno that feel lol i got through similar situations, every looks at me like O_O when i tell em my count is 0, it awkward but o well
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Originally Posted By Zackad
are you a virgin?

at the end of the day, who cares? srs. if it really bothers them, then just be glad you have roommates who will pay rent and not bother you.
Yea I am

we all like each other it's not like they would go NC on me, but its embarrasing and they'll probably look at me differently and will DEFINITELY make fun of me. Don't want to lie but they're going to keep pressing they can tell something is weird
post 1444132311 05-25-2016, 01:50 PM
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it matters not brah.. just tell them, if they judge you thats their own insecurities coming out trying to make themselves feel better.
OR, they could be great guys and if they're good friends theyll bring you out on the town and plug in with some sloots!
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None of them is at 20, and even lucky to be around 10, all men exaggerate when it comes to pussay.

Regardless, just say 0. If they are cool, they'll make it their mission to make you meet girls to up your count.
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They will find out if you live their long enough after you don't bring any sloots back. Heck maybe they will help you pull some sloots
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Originally Posted By Madevilz
None of them is at 20, and even lucky to be around 10, all men exaggerate when it comes to pussay.

Regardless, just say 0. If they are cool, they'll make it their mission to make you meet girls to up your count.
20 sounded like a ton especially considering they've all had LTR but it actually is believeable. They're all 25-27 years old. Thats not that many chicks per year especially considering college

I just dont want to be mad fun of and it'll be embarassing either way
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis
What would misc do in this situation?

My roommate and I are moving into a house with two other guys that he knew from home. They got into town last weekend.

Last night we started talking about women and everyone was giving their "counts" one at a time. Everyone was over 20, and then they started looking at me and said " So are we over 100 combined! where are you at?

In the past I've lied but I didn't want to do that anymore, so I just told them I wasn't going to say. It got super quite and they pressed me but I just joked and said I would reveal later.

One of them texted me today and said he wants to know why out of curiosity
Was fuking embarrassing, I think they are aware of my FA status and it's wrecking my self esteem. They are all over 20 fuking smashes and I'm kissless.




=(
Wait, so people still do this bit where they extol their number of smashes? The fact that these guys feel the need to bring it up every time you're hanging out with new people just shows how insecure they are. Probably exaggerated their numbers.
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Originally Posted By Madevilz
None of them is at 20, and even lucky to be around 10, all men exaggerate when it comes to pussay.

Regardless, just say 0. If they are cool, they'll make it their mission to make you meet girls to up your count.
I phucked 7 girls last semester and hooked up with like at least 4 others, you mad?
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Lololllll you're a 25 year old virgin!? That must f*ck with your entire self confidence on a daily basis.
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Originally Posted By Tinge52
it matters not brah.. just tell them, if they judge you thats their own insecurities coming out trying to make themselves feel better.
OR, they could be great guys and if they're good friends theyll bring you out on the town and plug in with some sloots!
Just feels so fuking embarrassing. I have friends that I'm tight with that know, but I've known them for years since I was a kid. I don't know how these guys would judge me
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They'll be jealous of your no-HPV/herp status.


No they won't, but seriously just be honest, why should they care about your count?
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Originally Posted By HandsomeAryan
I phucked 7 girls last semester alone and hooked up with like at least 4 others, you mad?
Lol, no one takes reds seriously. Cute you think you could rustle someone. Just LMAO
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post 1444133601 05-25-2016, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By XabstractX
Lololllll you're a 25 year old virgin!? That must f*ck with your entire self confidence on a daily basis.
it does
post 1444133751 05-25-2016, 01:58 PM
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OP, most guys like to embellish in the amount of women they have been with.

No guy is going to admit to a group of buddies that they aren't getting laid.
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Originally Posted By HandsomeAryan
I phucked 7 girls last semester and hooked up with like at least 4 others, you mad?
That's great bro. Have a cookie.
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if you think they are your real brahs, just tell them the truth and they WILL hook you up, guarantee it.
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If you tell them you are a virgin they will make it their mission to get you laid 100%
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Been in that situation before. If you don't want to lie then just own it. If they see it as an insecurity they'll just use it against you, but if you don't care they'll think it's strange and leave it.
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post 1444134031 05-25-2016, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis
it does
You need to smash some sloots at all costs, even if it's a hooker (srs)
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If you're lucky they'll force you to approach women. Always do better in groups, it's a proven psychological fact, even if you're the ugly one in the group
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don't tell them bro, although if they are your friends they won't make fun of you with any real malicious intent, just be bros and bug you but deep down it will make you pissed off I think.

I would just say, the truth is, my number is 1, or very low, or something like that, let them know you are having issues getting laid but not a virgin
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I don't believe any of them are at 20. If they were at 20 they'd be saying 40. Just say 0, they'd lol but they'd also help you out.
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis
Just feels so fuking embarrassing. I have friends that I'm tight with that know, but I've known them for years since I was a kid. I don't know how these guys would judge me
Everyone is judging you and you should be very and I mean very embarrassed.
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