Dedfknsrs.

Just went to my second NA meeting. Its working.
I feel im getting stronger so i need to beat my next fear.
Wich is sober dating.
Fuark.

How im gonna go about it is:

-hit the barbers. Gotta look sharp.

-Take new pictures. Not too much effort will go to these ill have kind of a lame profile since i dont have any cool moments happening. So just a selfie and one full body mirror one is gonna have to do.

-Then once i start talking to the matches. This is the KEY.
Ill draw out the talking via phone for like 2 weeks.
This is important and comforting to me because my big insecurity regarding sober dating is that i cant flow like i did on benzos, alcohol, speed, whatever.
It is not normal to be having sex with someone the same day you first talk to them. I need to get used to that reality.
Somebody might be able to do that sober. Not me cuh.
Just the way it is. So im not gonna feel pressured by myself into doing that.

-and the first meet up. Ill just go for a kiss if i feel like it, it usually leads to sex anyways but i will again not pressure myself into sealing the deal.
Im not looking for a hook up. Im gonna get me a girlfriend.


So yah. Dass it mane. there ya go.

The alcohol isn't for you though, it's for the sloot. Drinking gives them an excuse to feel less slooty about fucking the same day.

You only really need to drink 2-3 drinks to make it look like you're "drinking" to get them to drink.

Before and after barber pics pls

Honestly this is for you because youre 35 going for younger chicks.
Im planning to go girls my age or couple yrs younger.
They dont need to a extra push into having sex with me.

Sure mayne.
Im thinking just a clean medium length cut. No skin fades. Old money look

Looks good.

I go for a Beatles look

Yeah buddy that shit rocks.
I got that cut right now.
But it doesnt fit for my facial features.

Tinder is disgusting

Gjdm but a selfie and mirror pic is absolutely poverty. It just signals that you have no life and no friends.

Make a Hinge
set your location to anywhere in China overnight
you'll get so many likes (numbers game)
set your location back to your home location
you'll be on the top of everybody's feed and get prime views
srs

Thats the truth for me.
I have the face aesthetics to make up for it though.

This is another point i forgot in the OP.
Ill be myself fully. Im not gonna front being like i been in the past. Im not a tough guy, im not a sick cunt.
Im a sober dude who lost everything and im building back better.
If a girl wont take that, then she aint the one for me.
I dont want to get into a relationship built off false impression and lies.

Good luck

Thanks for the tip brah. Ill try it out

no self improvement program can include tinder, please have some self respect

Not true. But what you suggest?

Meeting people is difficult cuz im in a small town.
Options for me would be a hobby or workplace.
The hobbies also have alot of older people in them.
Like i was looking into theater, there was one 29yo sloot.
Shit is tough for piram over here.

tinder is all prostitutes, fake profiles, and ugly chicks who can't get dates on other platforms

Hinge >>> Bumble >>>>>>>>>> Tinder

Bruh

Don't put your height, income, or any pictures of yourself on your profile, then you might have a shot

Not sure if srs. U can talk about my height. (6ft) Cuz u got a couple inches on me.

But im pretty. Get yo ass outa here😂

Insecure hercules

If you aren't just putting one pic of your face with no info or anything other than height and just message chicks with "hey" while getting results then there is no point using dating apps.

Dont sell urself short.
Americans might be different with the standards sloots have. But if i was u in finland. Id get matches with a decent selfie.
Here you really just need to be lean and have clean appearance, clean style, to be getting the initiative.
All u can get with little effort u dont need genetics.
Having a different skin color than white is the only cockblock honestly.
(And being bald)

Chicks these days they dont get approached and all the mid chicks be getting tired of being pump and dumped.
They dying to be in just a regular relationship with a regular dude