Know a guy who was friendzoned twice. No matter how much advice, he wouldn't get the hint. Also overheard a guy saying some girl had another guy's name as food in her contacts.


Can't say I feel sorrow or empathy for those dudes though

Every guy I know who's been friend zoned deserve it. Zero remorse for beta male weaklings

Having been the guy knowingly in the friend zone, Lemme let you in on something. He's hardly never "just a friend". Maybe some are, but most of the time, no.

A girl that is a friend, where she's attractive enough while also having a good enough personality to hang with, but you don't want to be in a relationship with her crazy ass, because I know she's a cheating whore, so you be her friend and hit it every so often.

feels bad man

Papi chulo has never been friend zoned

I went through the whole 'Nice Guy Syndrome' thing many years ago and was friend zoned a lot . I started reading all the info about it back in 2007 which led me to all the Red Pill/PUA stuff which led me to OG Misc. (MGTOW theory came after that)

I used to actually feel gulty and sad when I finally told women to get lost and went NC with them, until I read all that and understood how vindcitive women can be.

Reminds me of one time at a party this chick brought her non-lifting, short orbiter and I was making out with her and I asked "Who are you?", and he answered back "I'm her protector!", then she made him leave after they drove like 30 miles to be there hahaha.

It depends. There's different levels to this.

If she is using him by asking him to do things for her I agree it's pathetic on his end. If there's more mutual respect I wouldn't consider it pathetic, but I know it sucks wishing there could be more.

I have honestly been in the latter. I genuinely liked talking to her and had fun hanging out. We'd go to lunch and take turns paying so it wasn't like she was just using me for things. At the end of the day she was just unavailable. Is it possible she kept me around in case her current relationship didn't work out? Yeah for sure. And while that doesn't feel good to be in that spot the reality is she was already unavailable when I met her and most people, sane ones anyway, aren't going to drop something reliable that they have to explore something else.

It is ok to be friends with a girl, even if you liked them. It's not ok to let that cloud your judgment where they use you though. That's the difference here. Is it a real friendship or are you just some loser she doesn't even treat like a friend?

If you write off all women that aren't available to you though you close yourself off to meeting a lot of other women who are available.

this. do u guys not fuck your female friends? whats the point then

this guy gets it.

worse is they have a friend telling them, they are being used/put in that zone and they ignore it. back in my bees days. there was this sever who would buy the bartender starbucks and help her with her side work all the time..

yet he was not even getting a kiss on the cheek. she would casually flirt with a regular while he was doing her side work. literally right next to them. i wasn't friends with dude but it was sad/pathetic to see