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I figured out why its better to be an empath rather than a narcissist

so everyone eventually deals with saturn, aka a hardship period
ppl arent going to like u, they will give u hardships, etc
the narcissists will look to abuse and cause hardships towards those weaker than them to gain back the power they lost
empaths will abuse and look inwards to themselves and see how to attract others to gain back power
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Nuummite connected me to Saturn many years ago, it's the planet of Karma and also self mastery and there is a balance in check in the universe it's quite simple if u only do evil deeds your karma will grow massive and people will naturally treat u like shit since u deserve it hardship is in itself a way of paying it back and it gets converted into blessing or "better times" ahead like a swinging pendulum yin and yang blah blah blah

As a gemini I naturally had the duality of jeykl and hide anyway but mastering those 2 energies is key to just about everything they're opposing and very different just like everything else in the world and the universe
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Being a narcissist is just a miserable existence eventually. They're not happy people deep down, and they make everyone around tehm miserable.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Being a narcissist is just a miserable existence eventually. They're not happy people deep down, and they make everyone around tehm miserable.
This makes sense when you realize narcissists have to jestermaxx 24/7
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget⏩
e to Saturn many years ago, it's the planet of Karma and also self mastery and there is a balance in check in the universe it's quite simple if u only do evil deeds your karma will grow massive and people will naturally treat u like shit since u deserve it hardship is in itself a way of paying it back and it gets converted into blessing or "better times" ahead like a swinging pendulum yin and yang blah blah blah

As a gemini I naturally had the duality of jeykl and hide anyway but mastering those 2 energies is key to just about everything they're opposing and very different just like everything else in the world and the universe
yes bruh saturn is brutal asf. this crush i had in college is an aries. id check her instagram often and cry while wackin off cuz she rejected me 10 years ago. now that saturn is in aries, magically i stopped finding her attractive and only check in on her to see how much uglier she got. lookin shriveled up asf. sloot shouldve let me smash while she had the chance. good riddance
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Being a narcissist is just a miserable existence eventually. They're not happy people deep down, and they make everyone around tehm miserable.
Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This makes sense when you realize narcissists have to jestermaxx 24/7
thanks to social media exposing these psychos, empaths have been learning their tricks and building up barriers. ive been keeping an eye out on these ex-narcissists. they are like crackheads desperately searching for something they can control.
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Originally Posted By dropped40lbs⏩
id check her instagram often and cry while wackin off cuz she rejected me 10 years ago.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
This makes sense when you realize narcissists have to jestermaxx 24/7
Yeah, I've had the misfortune of getting close with a couple true narcissists, and they're not happy people in private. Another friend of mine is married to one as well, and it's like she's always trying to fill an empty hole. But she started getting nasty to me last time I was at their house, so I decided I'm only hanging out with her husband away from her in the future.
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The empath has the ability to regulate their emotions and use them appropriately, even though it is a difficult process to learn and apply.


The narcissist will only become more and more compromising in behavior as conflict escalates. To their detriment.

Their emotions can easily be used against them.

I fucking love to bully bullies. It is one of my favorite things to do. The more calm and controlled you are, the crazier they get lol. You can control them. This is how I get cops in trouble. Say something that is legally protected but you know will trigger them. Then let them dig their own grave lol.

My favorite thing to do.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
The empath has the ability to regulate their emotions and use them appropriately, even though it is a difficult process to learn and apply.

Yea i had this problem when i was younger. Having a difficult time processing and applying. Its like when i get into a conflict i'd immediately pause and go into trying to find a resolution for both parties even if i was blatantly wronged. And if there was a mediator like a teacher/principal, they'd see me pause then give the benefit of the doubt and see that as "admitting fault". This empathy pattern put me into so much rage cuz i been pushed over so many times. I'm learning now tho lol. Fk this gay earth
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Originally Posted By dropped40lbs⏩
yea i had this problem when i was younger. having a difficult time processing and applying. its like when i get into a conflict i'd immediately pause and go into trying to find a resolution for both parties even if i was blatantly wronged. and if there was a mediator like a teacher/principal, they'd see me pause then give the benefit of the doubt and see that as "admitting fault". This empathy pattern put me into so much rage cuz i been pushed over so many times. I'm learning now tho lol. Fk this gay earth
Some things I do is to practice feeling that type of discomfort are pretty safe.

Simply not going along with the script.

Don’t hold the door for people, don’t acknowledge a stranger who smiles and says hi to avoid awkward silence, say no without explaining yourself to people who make requests of you (you don’t even need a reason, it’s just practice), get in blatant staring competitions with people. Just making people feel uncomfortable without actually harming them or doing anything wrong. Literally just “bad manners”.

It is not easy, but you will adapt.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Some things I do is to practice feeling that type of discomfort are pretty safe.

Simply not going along with the script.

Don’t hold the door for people, don’t acknowledge a stranger who smiles and says hi to avoid awkward silence, say no without explaining yourself to people who make requests of you (you don’t even need a reason, it’s just practice), get in blatant staring competitions with people. Just making people feel uncomfortable without actually harming them or doing anything wrong.

It is not easy, but you will adapt.
Yea i been doing this for the past 2 years. It's def trained me into being more confident and self-aware and rdy for conflict if needed. But I think i'm rdy to stop being disrespectful on purpose now. Was on a late night walk and just gave this middle aged doordash driving dweeb a death stare. He seemed goofy like an IT worker who prob lost his job and he's doordashing at night to make ends meet. It's cheeky and fun but only lasts for a couple mins.
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Originally Posted By dropped40lbs⏩
Yea i been doing this for the past 2 years. It's def trained me into being more confident and self-aware and rdy for conflict if needed. But I think i'm rdy to stop being disrespectful on purpose now. Was on a late night walk and just gave this middle aged doordash driving dweeb a death stare. He seemed goofy like an IT worker who prob lost his job and he's doordashing at night to make ends meet. It's cheeky and fun but only lasts for a couple mins.
What's the point of meanmugging a doordasher
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetHigh⏩
What's the point of meanmugging a doordasher
there isnt a point

i was replying to ironmanlet saying how he practices being mean so he can stand up for himself during times of real confrontation

edit: well ig thats the point, practicing
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