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post 1441641261 05-11-2016, 11:50 PM
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told girl that she should lose some weight and it rekt her feelings

I feel terrible right now boyos. Smashed this chick after meeting her on tinder and she was a tad overweight but a cute face (was horny so said fuk it and did it anyways).

After we smashed I said, "you know, if you lost maybe 20 lbs you'd be perfect" and she immediately got watery eyed and said that was the meanest thing anyone has ever told her. My heart fukking sank after seeing her reaction. Don't know why I was so straight up about it, since I know that girls hate it when guys are direct. I just basically thought out loud.

I desperately tried to save myself by saying "no, no you have a gorgeous face. You don't actually need to lose that much, I'm just being a perfectionist. No one is perfect and we all have our flaws blah blah blah" but obviously there was nothing I could've said to recover.

She sat there calling me an ******* while putting her clothes back on and said she's leaving and to not contact her again.

She still hasn't blocked my number cause I called but she wouldn't answer. There any way I can make her feel less bad? I feel awful about it.





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update:

apology did not end well

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post 1441641771 05-11-2016, 11:55 PM
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didnt read just looked at pic

gross

and just lol @ telling a girl the truth
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post 1441641781 05-11-2016, 11:56 PM
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Maybe 40.

Oh and if she doesn't realize she's fat in her own... Well that's her fatass problem as a whale.
post 1441641921 05-11-2016, 11:57 PM
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fell for that one before, ends well it does not....
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post 1441642081 05-11-2016, 11:58 PM
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don't apologize.

you are tall enough to be an ******* and get away with it
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post 1441642101 05-11-2016, 11:58 PM
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Ain't nothin' wrong with that.....I'd beat.
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post 1441642121 05-11-2016, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted By JeffriusCaesar⏩
didnt read just looked at pic

gross

and just lol @ telling a girl the truth
Originally Posted By TheSeriousOne92⏩
Maybe 40.

Oh and if she doesn't realize she's fat in her own... Well that's her fatass problem as a whale.
lol fuk you guys are worse than me
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post 1441642131 05-11-2016, 11:59 PM
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Go to her house and offer her an apology cake:

I break into old ladies' homes, steal biscuits from their tins and replace them with sewing materials for maximum grandkid confusion.
post 1441642241 05-12-2016, 12:00 AM
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Don't know if I should neg for saying that to her or rep for including a pic???
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post 1441642441 05-12-2016, 12:01 AM
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fuking lol

tell her you bought her a gift to make up for it. Then show up with a free 1 month membership to the gym.
post 1441642551 05-12-2016, 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted By 5htp⏩
Go to her house and offer her an apology cake:

This apology cake OP

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post 1441642621 05-12-2016, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
Don't know if I should neg for saying that to her or rep for including a pic???
rep me *******
Originally Posted By dj924s⏩
SRS, someone had to tell her. Most people are not honest when you are overweight. WK's, friends, and family all say you look great, so you believe it. You gave her a gift OP.
You could be right, but based off of her reaction she did not take it well at all.

She was like "what if i told you that you needed to gain 40 lbs of muscle before you'd look good. How would you take that!?" to which i said "I'd just use it as motivation to hit the gym"
Originally Posted By juvefan⏩
This apology cake OP

lmao
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post 1441642711 05-12-2016, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By dj924s⏩
SRS, someone had to tell her. Most people are not honest when you are overweight. WK's, friends, and family all say you look great, so you believe it. You gave her a gift OP.
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But srs op weight is always a sensitive issue to girls. Lesson learned. You're gonna have to try real hard to redeem yourself. Although why try if you think she's not gf type
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post 1441642821 05-12-2016, 12:05 AM
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Lmao at that being the meanest thing someone has ever told her
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post 1441642891 05-12-2016, 12:06 AM
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Was very insensitive ... Why say that then and there after sex... What was there to gain from that...it was insulting for her... Doesn't matter if it's a fact or not, it's insulting...
There is hope still since she didn't block your number... If u r sincerely sorry, text and apologise to her...and mean it when u do...
People are their own worst enemies, they don't need other people to help trample on them...
Best of luck...
post 1441642951 05-12-2016, 12:06 AM
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I srs cant tell if those eyebrows are glue ons or natty. I keep staring at them.
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post 1441642961 05-12-2016, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted By cojones539⏩
you know, if she lost maybe 20 lbs she'd be perfect.
post 1441643021 05-12-2016, 12:07 AM
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women always seem to become emotionally attached to their fat cells for some reason.. i blame oprah
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post 1441643031 05-12-2016, 12:07 AM
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would recommend lose weight and rhinoplasty

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post 1441643041 05-12-2016, 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
Lmao at that being the meanest thing someone has ever told her
sloot lives gotta be pretty fuqing amazing if that's the meanest thing she heard in her life. tfw slapped in the face and told to stop being a weak little ******* b!tch at my grandparents funeral by someone I thought was going to hug me instead.
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post 1441643191 05-12-2016, 12:09 AM
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Lmfao you destroyed her
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If she didn't block your number, then you still have a chance. she is just playing hard to get. You could still smash OP.
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post 1441643691 05-12-2016, 12:14 AM
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Text her,

"I miss you chunky monkey <3"
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Originally Posted By Julieusername⏩
Was very insensitive ... Why say that then and there after sex... What was there to gain from that...it was insulting for her... Doesn't matter if it's a fact or not, it's insulting...
There is hope still since she didn't block your number... If u r sincerely sorry, text and apologise to her...and mean it when u do...
People are their own worst enemies, they don't need other people to help trample on them...
Best of luck...
She should have taken it as motivation to lose weight and be decent looking.
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why do you care about this girl's feelings

you've already gotten what you wanted

she's not even hot

let it go bro
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Text her,

"I miss you chunky monkey <3"
lmaoooo

this and the whale cake gave me a hearty chuckle
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Why should you apologise for telling the truth?
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Originally Posted By Better
sloot lives gotta be pretty fuqing amazing if that's the meanest thing she heard in her life.tfw slapped in the face and told to stop being a weak little ******* b!tch at my grandparents funeral by someone I thought was going to hug me instead.
Mirin. I remember being at my 11th birthday party and my granddad ran over our dog as he was driving up to the garage. I started quietly sobbing and he just came up to me and said "Man up pussy" and put his cigarette out on my arm. Everybody laughed and we just got on with the party.
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Originally Posted By Better
Text her,

"I miss you chunky monkey <3"
lol'd
Originally Posted By Masterbetaa⏩
She should have taken it as motivation to lose weight and be decent looking.
Originally Posted By JeffriusCaesar⏩
why do you care about this girl's feelings

you've already gotten what you wanted

she's not even hot

let it go bro



lmaoooo

this and the whale cake gave me a hearty chuckle
Originally Posted By BrustBruder⏩
Why should you apologise for telling the truth?
yeah you brahs are right. I just felt pretty bad about it and that giving an apology was the right thing to do

edit - she blocked my number
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Come up with a lie about how you used to be overweight and didn't lose the weight until people stopped sugar coating it and started being honest about it to you.
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Originally Posted By Better
sloot lives gotta be pretty fuqing amazing if that's the meanest thing she heard in her life. tfw slapped in the face and told to stop being a weak little ******* b!tch at my grandparents funeral by someone I thought was going to hug me instead.
LOL, that's f*cking hilarious
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