Most people who have kids aren't prepared for them, kids are often the result of not pulling out in time or failed birth control, thats why there are so many single welfare mothers.

A lot of people are just stupid, they enter relationships without the intention of staying together, so they just break up after a couple months or years, I have literally known women who treated marriage like something to write off a bucket list rather than a sacred vow, they get together because they see it as someone to have sex with everyday, not as a life partner.

I wouldn't want to have a kid right now, probably never, I'm so old now the kid would probably be born with issues because of my age, its been proven that welfare is carried on like a tradition, I literally know welfare mothers who made plans for their kid to go on welfare once they turn 18 rather than have them ready with a resume, its disgusting.

If I could go back 20 years I wouldn't have bothered with women, I would have got a job as a salesman and retired at 45 with everything I want and probably some rental properties, now I don't even have the ambition or desire to work because of bad experiences and spinning my wheels for almost 25 years in the workforce and having nothing to show for it.