dude stop judging women anywhere you meet them. bars are no different than tinder, as is stores etc.

Lol, you don't meet a wife on tinder or a nightclub man. That's not judging. That's just a fact...

A girl with a BF (I teach her Maths) is meeting a female friend for food. She has also invited me. Should I go to improve my social skills?

I'm scheduled to teach both of them plus another Maths tomorrow, all 3 of them have BFs, but that's kind of irrelevant. I will be doing them a favour, and i'll maybe ask them to set me up with their friends (one of them definitely won't, we had a debate on feminism before).

Do you think it's a waste of time (and money, lettuce be cereal, i'm going to be picking up the bill) if I go today? Should I just keep it friendly but professional tomorrow in a proper setting rather than meeting two of them today in a casual setting for food, given they all have BFs?

Honestly Misc, my life is pointless. It's worthless. And i'm like 90% sure I won't make it past 40.

I'm starting to sympathize with used car salesman brah. Guy has everything like me; a good job, good savings, gets to go on vacations, some good brahs, no debt - but without a woman, it's meaningless. You're constantly lonely and life is pointless. I'm not even talking about marriage, but I don't talk to women. I have Tinder matches but don't know how to converse with women. I don't have ANY hope of getting a GF. Just like used car guy, I work in a male dominated environment so I don't have any female companionship at all. I'll probably never have sex again unless I pay for it. And it's just led to a massive FA hole in my life.

I want kids. I want something to look forward to. I want someone to tell me they love me. But the way my life is going, i'm thinking it's going to end in depression and suicide just like most corporates who never marry.



However, what if I think phuck saving and just make the most of my life from 25 to 40? If I know i'm going to call it a day when i'm single and there's nothing to live for, why waste my prime years not enjoying life and being a frugal kunt who saves for his wife to live in a 5-bedroom house? What if I fly business class instead of premium economy? What if I buy a Breitling as my daily wear instead of an Armani? What if I finance a $200,000 AMG Convertible Mercedes or a bit more and get a candy red Ferrari 458 on my poverty $75K salary with no phucks given, even if it's "beyond my means"?

There's no point me buying a house. It will just go to charity as i'll have no wife or kids to pass it to. Phuck paying mortgage for my remaining 15 years. I may as well move out of my parents house, rent a nice bachelor pad, buy the hnnnnngggggg watch I always wanted and saw the MD's wear in Investment Banks, drive a car that only a board member can afford and start living.



Rather than just rotting because my life is lonely, i'm an FA with no hope or saving hard to start a business and become a fund manager, why not just blow away any savings and inheritance I have on watches, cars, renting a nice pad, drinking goat alcohol everyday, partying with hookers, and then just die once all the money runs out?

Btw, i'm legit not even doing any of this to show off on Insta (I don't even have IG); i've honestly been contemplating that there's no point to my life and I may as well just go all out and enjoy it. I'll start small with a Breitling and see if that makes me feel better about life, and if so, i'll slowly add the rest in!



Thoughts Misc? Inb4 go see a counselor, go get an accountant and go hire an escort before you piss away all your savings and life in 3 years

Lol, you don't meet a wife on tinder or a nightclub man. That's not judging. That's just a fact...

picking up the bill for 3 girls you will be tutoring/ aren't even real friends with.. is moronic. i wouldn't go personally/ nothing to gain, unless one has a slooty vibe

all im sayin is women are promiscuous so it doesn't really matter, they all get fuked and degraded.

i mean ya bars are garbage, but still get out and go just cause' for social skill, number, lay..

you come off really needy too, women aren't really the all be all. they discharge, period, ****.

oh and society will treat you like chit without a girl out in the town, so get ready to hold your own. women will think you're a creep, people will think you're a loser.

so be prepared to face that, if you haven't already.

One is a real friend; the other two are her friends from uni.

Won't I improve my social skills if I for lunch or dinner with them? Bare in mind that I barely talk to females IRL because there's so few in the work place and I don't keep in touch with school friends.

It will cost me what, $70 for food and $30 for drinks? For the 4 of us? It seems like a small fee relative to the 10K Breitling, and atleast it will help me in some way with women. Women don't have a clue what a Breitling is srs...

i mean i guess. but if one of the females is a "real" friend. ask her if she has any single friends and to set you up?.. trust me she knows your probably not the smoothest around females. me personally i never understood the whole buying girls drinks ****..

Yes, spending more money on something stupid is going to make you feel like a man...? really?
Why don't you stand up for your country and not rot EU/ UK away?
Thenyou might have pride? If that isn't your style?... Then yes, spend a lot of money on stupid stuff, that will make you feel like a man and so smart.

So surely I should change that? By finding a good wife material girl ASAP?

WelshAutist, we've not always seen eye to eye in the past, but from a Miscer to a Miscer please don't blow 10k on a watch.

You seem to entertain only extreme permutations of how your life may play out, which isn't realistic or healthy. Stop over-analysing.Just follow your intuition and you'll find that the pieces will all fall gradually into place.

people like rolex because it's rolex.. doesn't really mean anything.. It's been reduced to something every poor man wears to appear rich.. nothing inherently unique about their design, materials ormovement. not sure how they're still in business when there are companies like Hublot and AP around, to name 2 of dozens of better manufacturers.

nope cause women can see a cuck a mile away.

that's one thing i give women credit for; their senses are usually on point.

they can smell desperation like sharks can smell blood in water.

even with money, your game is fuked up. women are going to use you for money, and cheat on you with someone like me.

Are you suggesting I join the Army?

I am suggesting you find or grow balls. But I doubt you will be able to do either.

I don't have issues with confidence. I've said that numerous times. Read some of my past threads or post 82.

I have a problem of:

1) I don't know where to find wife-material girls

2) I don't know how to be less misc/less myself/more normal around them - I don't do chit to be a social conformist like have IG and know about the life of the kardashians and all that crap. My interests aren't shopping and netflix and chocolate eating

3) I don't know how to not lose hope on all women after "sloots" present themselves as really easy to me; what makes me think girls who are GF material won't turn into this?

4) I have trust issues, major ones.

gonna lol hard in 15 years when ******* OP has run up hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt then all of a sudden realises he's not dying

I'm no expert, but it seems like OP is depressed and needs to get help.