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Thread: told girl that she should lose some weight and it rekt her feelings

post 1441650451 05-12-2016, 01:22 AM
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lold so hard. wtf brah
who tf says that to a girl...
and all those apologies afterwards.
It reminded me of a bad sitcom. fckn dead lmao
The moment you opened your mouth it was over. Might have as well farted in your palm and tossed it in her face. Would be as effective as apologizing.
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post 1441650541 05-12-2016, 01:23 AM
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[QUOTE=cojones539 post_id=1441646521]so she's an avid gamer on steam too (probably explains her weight) and she let me borrow one of her alt accounts to play a multiplayer game with her and I changed her account name to "i love b-b-c" last night just for the lols and she just messaged me a few min ago. Did not end well:

[img]http://i.imgur.com/G4ve4VW.png[img][/QUOTE]Fuark OP, shes sounds like a really cool chick. You fuked up

















Did you ask her if she has wii fit?
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post 1441650581 05-12-2016, 01:24 AM
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found a winner.
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post 1441650611 05-12-2016, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted By juvefan⏩
This apology cake OP

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post 1441650781 05-12-2016, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Nattydread⏩
Oh well OP. If she is fat, then she is fat. I've been called worse than that to be honest. I've been called fat, been called ugly, been looked at with disgust by women, been called boring, loser, ass-whole, golliwog etc.

But still, you are doing a service to her if you did, because the time I was being called fat and ugly was when I decided to lose weight and stopped being a fat ass. I rarely have sympathy for women for how easy they usually have things, and this still isn't the time
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post 1441650891 05-12-2016, 01:27 AM
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So because you used to be fat, you developed such a complex over it you had to say something to her,because if you felt bad about yourself,so should she?Sounds like you need a psychiatrist. And you also slept with a girl ,that according to you needed to lose 20 pounds? I wouldn't have ****ed a girl that fat in the first place for one.

I don't believe you said it out of any genuine reason to help her, but because of your own issues with your past weight gain/loss.And possibly because you felt slightly disgusted with yourself for fuking her in the first place. I bet you saw that gut of hers and fat rolls lying next to you in bed , and you felt pi55ed off.

But I think it's rather obvious that telling her this in the way you did,will have the total opposite effect.First thing she will do whe she gets home is reach for the twinkies. Why? because she is mentally weak, as are you for getting yourself into such a state in the first place. While you have sorted out your body ,you still have the mentality of a fat person.
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Originally Posted By cojones539⏩
I feel terrible right now boyos. Smashed this chick after meeting her on tinder and she was a tad overweight but a cute face (was horny so said fuk it and did it anyways).

After we smashed I said, "you know, if you lost maybe 20 lbs you'd be perfect" and she immediately got watery eyed and said that was the meanest thing anyone has ever told her. My heart fukking sank after seeing her reaction. Don't know why I was so straight up about it, since I know that girls hate it when guys are direct. I just basically thought out loud.

I desperately tried to save myself by saying "no, no you have a gorgeous face. You don't actually need to lose that much, I'm just being a perfectionist. No one is perfect and we all have our flaws blah blah blah" but obviously there was nothing I could've said to recover.

She sat there calling me an ******* while putting her clothes back on and said she's leaving and to not contact her again.

She still hasn't blocked my number cause I called but she wouldn't answer. There any way I can make her feel less bad? I feel awful about it.







update:

apology did not end well
Even though you absolutely REKT her life, and she will probably be crying about it for years to come. The nagging little voice that you have just implanted into her head will eventually make her break and lose 20lbs, so in a way you just gave her the best motivation possible, good work!
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Smart move on saying it after banging brah
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Originally Posted By INSANEREACH⏩
So because you used to be fat, you developed such a complex over it you had to say something to her,because if you felt bad about yourself,so should she?Sounds like you need a psychiatrist. And you also slept with a girl ,that according to you needed to lose 20 pounds? I wouldn't have ****ed a girl that fat in the first place for one.

I don't believe you said it out of any genuine reason to help her, but because of your own issues with your past weight gain/loss.And possibly because you felt slightly disgusted with yourself for fuking her in the first place. I bet your saw that gut of hers and fat rolls, and you felt pi55ed off.

But I think it's rather obvious that telling her this in the way you did,will have the total opposite effect.First thing she will do whe she gets home is reach for the twinkies. Why? because she is mentally weak, as are you for getting yourself into such a state in the first place. While you have sorted out your body ,you still have the mentality of a fat person.
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post 1441651051 05-12-2016, 01:30 AM
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post 1441651261 05-12-2016, 01:33 AM
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Thats harsh dude. Never tell a girl to lose weight. And 20 lbs? Thats a lot of weight. Do you know how hard it is to lose 20 lbs? Your only way out is to say your really sorry and that she has a beautiful body. What you meant to say was that she would be like a cat walk model if she lost the weight.

Tell you the truth, shes done with you, girls want a guy that makes them feel good about themselves, you done goofed it. You smashed her and then you put her down. At least your remorseful.

She actually looks like a really nice chick. (no homo)
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Lol you are a beta *******. You should of played it cool, if you hit it right she would have called back wanting more. Ffs how many times a day do you think average girls are called pretty and creeped apon.
post 1441651411 05-12-2016, 01:35 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaPump⏩
Thats harsh dude. Never tell a girl to lose weight. And 20 lbs? Thats a lot of weight. Your only way out is to say your really sorry and that she has a beautiful body. What you meant to say was that she would be like a cat walk model if she lost the weight.

Tell you the truth, she done with you, girls want a guy that makes them feel good about themselves, you done goofed it. You smashed her and then you put her down. At least your remorseful.

She actually looks like a really nice chick. (no homo)
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Originally Posted By juvefan⏩
Fuark OP, shes sounds like a really cool chick. You fuked up

















Did you ask her if she has wii fit?
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post 1441651671 05-12-2016, 01:38 AM
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Originally Posted By LDVinny⏩
Even though you absolutely REKT her life, and she will probably be crying about it for years to come. The nagging little voice that you have just implanted into her head will eventually make her break and lose 20lbs, so in a way you just gave her the best motivation possible, good work!
She will already know she is a fat ass, ,she will see it every day in the mirror and when she struggles to put on clothes and wheezes climbing stairs. She will know herself how differently men treat her compared to her friends, Yet she has done nothing to sort herself out.It takes a while to get as fat as she has gotten.

I bet it's not the first time, people have made comments to her either. Family members, other friends, . Maybe not made it in such terms perhaps, but she will definately know she is a fat ass.

So why do you think some comment from some dude she slept with will have any impact?
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why would you apologize? She's crying because she's a lazy phuk and it's easier to 'get accepted' than apply self-control and not eat like a swine
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ok lol so saying that right after sex is not cool second the steam apology wasnt even a apology lol
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LOl at calling her fat in her face
LOl at that steam apology that you basically called her fat again

saying it right after smashing is fukked up too but if she fat she fat and you like chubbies it seems but I don't blame you sometimes we slay dragons to reach the princess. All females know they are fat but always sugar coat that **** with "big boned, chunky" just lol
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i read your full post bruh without seeing the pic

'tad underwight.'

scrolled down and my jaw dropped when i saw the pic

you did the right thing bruh

she is fat and no one should be delusional with respect to their physical well being which in term affects their mental well being
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buncha cheeky kunts ITT. I appreciate the srs replies tho

found a pic of her in highschool, fuark

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Originally Posted By cojones539⏩
buncha cheeky kunts ITT. I appreciate the srs replies tho

found a pic of her in highschool, fuark

haha ok you can stop showing her brother, we won't detective.
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Originally Posted By cojones539⏩
buncha cheeky kunts ITT. I appreciate the srs replies tho

found a pic of her in highschool, fuark

b4 freshman 40 photo
Damn son. I think you definitely did the right thing, even if there's only a sliver of a chance that she will return to her former glory, her quality of life down the road will be leagues better.

I used to be Auschwitz survivor mode before the truth hit me, and if I know the mindset she's in, she'll either
A: Use this as spark to a fire that'll make her lose weight and try to get a guy better than you
B: Get sloppy seconds with a rebound leagues below you to repair her self esteem
C: Tell herself you're the problem until inevitably she realizes the quality of guys she's with is no where near you/what she used to pull (and then defaults to A)
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fuk u opie she probably choked on 3 buckets of ice cream because of u
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lost it at the "apology". Savage.
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Originally Posted By Bleep9⏩
idk how you can recover from that lol.. have you tried apologizing?

why would you even say that in the 1st place :/
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Originally Posted By MunicipalWaster⏩
Damn son. I think you definitely did the right thing, even if there's only a sliver of a chance that she will return to her former glory, her quality of life down the road will be leagues better.

I used to be Auschwitz survivor mode before the truth hit me, and if I know the mindset she's in, she'll either
A: Use this as spark to a fire that'll make her lose weight and try to get a guy better than you
B: Get sloppy seconds with a rebound leagues below you to repair her self esteem
C: Tell herself you're the problem until inevitably she realizes the quality of guys she's with is no where near you/what she used to pull (and then defaults to A)
I truly hope A or C is the outcome, she has so much potential to be an hbb
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