05-13-2016, 02:31 PM
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Sounds like she wasn't sure what she wanted brah. Would just move on to be honest.
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05-13-2016, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By mikedubzfitness⏩
Wtf kind of weak siht is that. Sounds like a bitch moveAware the guy she's "talking" with. These hoes ain't loyal.
05-13-2016, 02:33 PM
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We've all been there OP.
My most beta moment was when I had a girl over and I put my hand in her upper thigh, My hand was like 6 inches from her vahjayjay.
Next thing I know she opens her legs for me to play with her and I actually closed them F'n lol.
she never talked to me again.
My most beta moment was when I had a girl over and I put my hand in her upper thigh, My hand was like 6 inches from her vahjayjay.
Next thing I know she opens her legs for me to play with her and I actually closed them F'n lol.
she never talked to me again.
05-13-2016, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
this, rookie movedumbfukk
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
05-13-2016, 02:38 PM
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05-13-2016, 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted By FO0L⏩
This. Plus city people drive 10 miles in 1 hour every single day and think nothing of it.80 miles is like a one hour drive. People drive farther than that to see football games or sit on a crowded beach and get sunburned. One hour isnt a big deal at all if youre expecting to have a nice evening and get laid.
05-13-2016, 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Alvarezzz⏩
nah he fked up when he paid for her uber. would have been fine otherwiseI actually think you did good op. Called her out on her mixed signals and ended the night. On to the next brah
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05-13-2016, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
Then maybe she literally meant that she is just talking with another guy too and she has not kissed him either and you escalated to quickly before she could decide that you were the better choice.dunno tbh, she even cancelled her plans with her best friend to chill with me longer...
Never make a move to kiss until you know you have locked in a connection and/or she has giving you IOI's that that is what she wants. Going to a movie and drinking and doing a little touching does nothing to create a connection and it sounds like she just passively let you do your thing, but did not give you an real IOIs. If you can create a connection, girls will act first and ask questions later.
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05-13-2016, 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
Actually, you sound like the beta. Afraid to call out a bitch because you're a slave to pvssy.dumbfukk
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
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05-13-2016, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Huh, he had his hand on her leg, and around her waist and she wasn't bothered. I don't think he did anything wrong going in for the kiss; if he hadn't you all would be calling him scared. He cut to the chase, and she either isn't interested or she was attention whoring. Indeed, next her.Never make a move to kiss until you know you have locked in a connection and/or she has giving you IOI's that that is what she wants.
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05-13-2016, 02:55 PM
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going to a movie is the worst possible date..
brb sitting next to someone for 2 hours in silence.
if you two wanted to drink, go sit in a park or by lake and get to wheeling
brb sitting next to someone for 2 hours in silence.
if you two wanted to drink, go sit in a park or by lake and get to wheeling
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She's good looking OP so props.
Where you messed up though.
1. Driving that far.
2. Not initiating / escalating contact on the first date.
Where you can recover.
She obviously has an interest in you due to all the evidence, but you have to disregard she is 'seeing' someone. Make yourself the prize, she's obviously dating around to get the best so make yourself that. Make it clear you're not interested in a friendship only (Which you did GJ) and keep seeing her and escalating, (but stop wasting money and driving that much for her.) Don't trip up to include her in your life but make her feel special to even be included in it.
Where you messed up though.
1. Driving that far.
2. Not initiating / escalating contact on the first date.
Where you can recover.
She obviously has an interest in you due to all the evidence, but you have to disregard she is 'seeing' someone. Make yourself the prize, she's obviously dating around to get the best so make yourself that. Make it clear you're not interested in a friendship only (Which you did GJ) and keep seeing her and escalating, (but stop wasting money and driving that much for her.) Don't trip up to include her in your life but make her feel special to even be included in it.
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05-13-2016, 03:00 PM
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Honestly op'ie you didnt goof that much bish was just major cock tease who just wasnt interested in you.
Imo even if you did everything right and played it by the book she still would have rejected you.Dont sweat it
Imo even if you did everything right and played it by the book she still would have rejected you.Dont sweat it
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05-13-2016, 03:01 PM
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05-13-2016, 03:03 PM
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LOL! - She is talking to ANOTHER GUY AND IS LOYAL?!?!?
Why is she allowing you to go on a 1-1 date, have your arm around her, on her knee, around her waist being intimate. You made moves OP, glad you did but I am just fukkin ded at this. She obv knew you were into her and she didn't say anything when you were making moves.
As others have said, NC time.
Why is she allowing you to go on a 1-1 date, have your arm around her, on her knee, around her waist being intimate. You made moves OP, glad you did but I am just fukkin ded at this. She obv knew you were into her and she didn't say anything when you were making moves.
As others have said, NC time.
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05-13-2016, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
Bit cringey logically spelling out physical things like that but"so is grabbing your waist and being so close to you is what friends do?"
Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
I say "I'm not looking for only friends and I feel like you just lead me on" and it just cut right there

For calling her on it and not pussying out
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05-13-2016, 03:04 PM
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lol I wouldn't drive 30 miles for a guaranteed lay
maybe not even 20 depending how hot she was
maybe not even 20 depending how hot she was
05-13-2016, 03:10 PM
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driving to meet a girl pretty much never works out
having a girl drive to meet you pretty much always works out however
having a girl drive to meet you pretty much always works out however
05-13-2016, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
So you were still drunk and you drove home?Nah I don't risk it, slept for a good 3 hours woke up at like 4am and drove home
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you handled it well OP, called her out on her ****.
i've never had this happened to me, but i swear i live vicariously though miscer's experiences. it actually does help me out.
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
this is bad logic. there are plenty of other girls. OP won't die just cuz he got rejected. calling her out on her **** is a much better option, something that she didn't experience, and a memory she will always remember.dumbfukk
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
never show a woman butthurt like that. should have been playful and turned her on a bit with more touching and then kissed her
now you've burned a bridge that could have led to her pussy or the pussy of one of her friends
rookie move, francis
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05-13-2016, 03:33 PM
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Dear OP, tell her you will pray for her since you drove all of that way for a woman who lost her youthful glow. You truly felt bad and just wanted to spark the .0001 percent of glow she had left. Then tell that girlo to ldar, no glow no go
05-13-2016, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That's true, I forgot about the part where she put his hand on her knee, but still it all feels rather passive/reserved. I wouldn't call him scared. I rarely kiss on the first date unless she initiates. But still, I get the feeling that in her mind she just wanted to feel him out. He was what, 2 hours into the date when he went for the kiss? They obviously had different ideas of what this was. Driving 80 miles to meet a girl means one of two things 1.) Guaranteed lay or 2.) a girl you think may be G/F material and you don't want to push it.Huh, he had his hand on her leg, and around her waist and she wasn't bothered. I don't think he did anything wrong going in for the kiss; if he hadn't you all would be calling him scared. He cut to the chase, and she either isn't interested or she was attention whoring. Indeed, next her.
You have to find out which one it is before making that kind of commitment.
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05-13-2016, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By jujuB⏩
Ratfish probably can't afford to upset any girl that might potentially like him.this is bad logic. there are plenty of other girls. OP won't die just cuz he got rejected. calling her out on her **** is a much better option, something that she didn't experience, and a memory she will always remember.
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Originally Posted By CodyLee1337⏩
UPDATE: I went all day without texting her. Bich didnt even text me to ask if I got home safely, She just texted me at 9:30pm and said "Hey" lmao slootsShe's good looking OP so props.
Where you messed up though.
1. Driving that far.
2. Not initiating / escalating contact on the first date.
Where you can recover.
She obviously has an interest in you due to all the evidence, but you have to disregard she is 'seeing' someone. Make yourself the prize, she's obviously dating around to get the best so make yourself that. Make it clear you're not interested in a friendship only (Which you did GJ) and keep seeing her and escalating, (but stop wasting money and driving that much for her.) Don't trip up to include her in your life but make her feel special to even be included in it.
Where you messed up though.
1. Driving that far.
2. Not initiating / escalating contact on the first date.
Where you can recover.
She obviously has an interest in you due to all the evidence, but you have to disregard she is 'seeing' someone. Make yourself the prize, she's obviously dating around to get the best so make yourself that. Make it clear you're not interested in a friendship only (Which you did GJ) and keep seeing her and escalating, (but stop wasting money and driving that much for her.) Don't trip up to include her in your life but make her feel special to even be included in it.
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Originally Posted By ShreddedWolf⏩
any updates?UPDATE: I went all day without texting her. Bich didnt even text me to ask if I got home safely, She just texted me at 9:30pm and said "Hey" lmao sloots
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Stopped reading after 80 miles. Holy chit brah, did she at least go 50/50 on the gas?
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