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post 1446265583 06-06-2016, 08:08 PM
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She doesn't want to give the appearance of dating someone for obvious reasons, bro. She wants the D and not just from you.
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post 1446265603 06-06-2016, 08:08 PM
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Newsflash:

1. She isn't your GF.
2. She is social media's GF.
3. You are just an accessory to those two facts in order to fulfill her social media presence and reputation.

Welcome to reality.
post 1446265983 06-06-2016, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Bo_Flecks⏩
No pics, huh? Sorry OP...you know the misc rules, and I would be breaking them if I didn't neg you. No hard feelings.
This. Dropping some neg bombs, too.
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post 1446298363 06-06-2016, 11:50 PM
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plowing for 8 months, so was jamal, tyrone, chad and enrique

she just may be exclusive with you for a while
post 1446298623 06-06-2016, 11:53 PM
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4 pages. No pics. Negged. Bye.
post 1446299203 06-07-2016, 12:00 AM
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Even though no pics will give you advice as I feel a bit sorry for you after reading the story.

There are 2 separate issues here.

Issue 1: Should you care about the fact she won't put any pics up of the two of you?

My answer: Maybe, could mean she doesn't want you cock blocking her by being on her IG, although the reasons she gave you might also be valid, but it is a little bit of a red flag.

Issue 2: Should you do anything about it?

My answer: This one is easy, no. If you want to stay with her, don't bring it up and don't pull any beta **** like complaining about this again. Don't post any pics with her up and show less interest in her than she shows in you, otherwise you're going to continue down this path where she sees herself as superior and will eventually dump you or cheat with you.

Or the other solution would be to break up, but I get the feeling if you wanted to do that you wouldn't have bothered with the thread.

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post 1446299673 06-07-2016, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted By TrueForester⏩
She wants to live the single life but have a boy friend at the same time.

AKA if Chad comes along she can play single and try bagging him, but you spend money on her for holidays/dates in the mean time.
this. I know this is true because I do the same damn thing.
U mad? (not sure if furious)
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post 1446385443 06-07-2016, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted By roko79⏩
if she isn't proud to show you off in pictures to those she feels closest to, then she isn't your girlfriend.
This. I made this thread a few weeks ago. If your girl doesn't post you on social media, that's not your girl.
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post 1446388783 06-07-2016, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
Hey, let me tell you guys something. Most of us are lifters...we are good looking dudes in good shape. We can bang girls purely for the sex if we really wanted to do it so bad. That's not a big deal and it's not impressive. The real challenge is getting the same girl to bang over and over again and to even go so far as to call her your boyfriend and tell you that you're the only guy she ever wants to ****. THATS the kind of power that interests me. At the same time, I'm a good guy and hold myself to the same standards as I hold her to. I'm an honest brah. I'm not marrying this girl either.
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post 1446456703 06-07-2016, 07:45 PM
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Been there before. Its over.

In this day and age if you guys are official and the girl is a social media whore and she doesn't post ONE picture at any point in the relationship then she want's to appear single for everyone. Sad world we live in but it is what it is. She should be proud to put you out there.
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post 1446459393 06-07-2016, 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
So what's the ultimatum here guys? I think she's trying to keep an open end here just incase. she gave her reasons yesterday but i didn't put an ultimatum on her (not that I want to or should)
She's a sloot drop her or keep banging on the side
post 1446460963 06-07-2016, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ChknFrydMFer⏩
We just gonna ignore this copypasta here?
This. That post needs to be reused on some guys with chit avis.
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post 1446461363 06-07-2016, 08:07 PM
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She doesn't see you as a bf. Ded srs m8
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post 1446708033 06-09-2016, 06:21 AM
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She's obviously ashamed to be associated with you, and doesn't respect you enough to not post pictures with those other guys. She want other people to think she's with Chad when she actually settled for you. If you even have a shred of self respect you would NC immediately and find someone who will respect you.
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post 1446926313 06-10-2016, 10:24 AM
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@OP: Had a girlfriend who was like that too. Depends on the girl. There's another type of girl that doesn't like PDA or having relationship stuff on their social media stuff. Don't let it bother you, it's a waste of time.
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You just not photogenic enough OP
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post 1446927883 06-10-2016, 10:33 AM
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She doesn't want to claim you. She's just using you, she's not your "real" girlfriend.
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post 1446929653 06-10-2016, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
Hey, let me tell you guys something. Most of us are lifters...we are good looking dudes in good shape. We can bang girls purely for the sex if we really wanted to do it so bad. That's not a big deal and it's not impressive. The real challenge is getting the same girl to bang over and over again and to even go so far as to call her your boyfriend and tell you that you're the only guy she ever wants to ****. THATS the kind of power that interests me. At the same time, I'm a good guy and hold myself to the same standards as I hold her to. I'm an honest brah. I'm not marrying this girl either.
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post 1447220413 06-12-2016, 07:42 AM
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Most of the misc brahs have already said this already, but I am just going to repeat it for you - you have a problem and this girl isn't taking the relationship seriously.

When a girl likes a guy, she should like him more than he likes her. That way, she will be begging for a relationship with the guy, doing whatever for him and when the guy accepts proposal for exclusivity, the girl will always show you off. She will want to take pictures of just you two, she will tell everybody that you are together and how lucky she is and she will make other guys know that she is taken. Your girlfriend doesn't care about you as much as she should, she cares about attention from other places than yours, which is why you should kick her to the curb and find another girl.
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LOL more like she doesnt want her side chawcks to see you
no pics ? negged misc sucks now
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Originally Posted By tillIDrop⏩
She does love me guys and is faithful she just likes the image I guess. She says she was gonna post a pic of us but then says its in line with other pics and will happen prolly around graduation. Why that day? The day where she goes home and leaves the fun college life and doesn't have to worry about how she looks with me as a part of her image? That's why I was cool with her posting a pic later till I realized its BS unless she were to post it before grad.
Please for the love of God stop rationalizing, i am sorry to tell you that this will not end well. She's keeping her options open, you are good enough to pass the time with until something better comes along. She's embarrassed/insecure of what others will think that she is with you. She's so wrapped up in her social image that it means more than the actual relationship.

Dump her fukn sorry ass asap
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In for embarrassing update from OP.
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Any girl who's hobby includes a social media sites, is registered to 3+, or updates them daily with consequential sh*t is automatically thrown into the "Well this isn't going anywhere serious, I shall keep her around purely for fun" list. You're playing with fire if that's a part of a females personality because the underlining reasons are usually never good.
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That's funny OP because I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21. Been together for a month and a half but plowin her for maybe 8 months. I really like her and our relationship has had some problems in the trust department...nothing serious like cheating though.

She posts pics on IG and loves social media. She has pics with her guy and girlfriends (and I'm ok with her having guy friends as I am not a controlling *******) but she never bothered to post one picture of us. She might have had me on snapchat once all this time but that's it. When I asked her about it , I was upset that she uploaded another pic with a guy friend. She says she looks bad in the pics we have taken before. And that she doesn't want her family becoming involved in her dating life which I agree is okay. I told her she didn't have to call me her boyfriend on Instagram where her family could see but to atleast have a picture up. She says she has one of dinner she was gonna post after she had finished posting a graduation picture and another picture with her friends again (guy included) which leaves my picture to be posted coincidentally at the time of graduation. I have zero pics with her on IG.

I don't care for social media nor do I care to be in the publics eye because our relationship is between us. But is this okay? The underlying message here is what bothers me. What should I do?

I asked here instead of the Tmisc section hoping to get a more mature response lol. Thanks guys.
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So you have a ton of pictures at your disposal and you don't even post a single picture here?!
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Where the phuck is OP. I followed this thread it it just died. Neg cannons ready.
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Originally Posted By muximus⏩
Where the phuck is OP. I followed this thread it it just died. Neg cannons ready.
he moved to NC on the misc lmao

redpilled.

in all srsness opie...i've had the same problem with a previous girl. It's not worth the effort or even worth thinking about any longer. Go NC or break up with her. She doesn't like you as much as you like her and that's reason enough to call it quits imo.
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Originally Posted By Vulvarine⏩
he moved to NC on the misc lmao

redpilled.

in all srsness opie...i've had the same problem with a previous girl. It's not worth the effort or even worth thinking about any longer. Go NC or break up with her. She doesn't like you as much as you like her and that's reason enough to call it quits imo.
fauk he can nc us but not her

but srs vulvarine is right OP. Get rid of her. If she hasn't posted chit about you, she don't mean chit to you. She's waiting for you guys end and get jamal in. She's keeping her options open
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Originally Posted By Vulvarine⏩
he moved to NC on the misc lmao

redpilled.

in all srsness opie...i've had the same problem with a previous girl. It's not worth the effort or even worth thinking about any longer. Go NC or break up with her. She doesn't like you as much as you like her and that's reason enough to call it quits imo.
Yea most likely.

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