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Thread: Any other 24+ year old kissless virgins on the misc?

post 1442402461 05-16-2016, 06:49 AM
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virgin checking in. Social anxiety and awkwardness in my youth, depression which I've mostly defeated, just overall worrier that was too afraid of rejection. Feelsbadman
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis⏩
. Everything you said is true, but the only alternative is to try getting with chicks in not attracted to. Most if the virgins itt have had opportunities with good looking women, or they don't even try at all. At least I've tried
Have you ever stopped watching porn and fapping for an extended period of time? I guarantee that an excessive amount of porn watching is what's skewing your perspective on what's attractive and what's not.
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Made a thread on this already but you brahs should try Tinder. Legit zero game is required and matches roll in every day. Also helps that everyone on the site is essentially DTF and looking for a hookup.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Have you ever stopped watching porn and fapping for an extended period of time? I guarantee that an excessive amount of porn watching is what's skewing your perspective on what's attractive and what's not.
I don't watch porn actually I fap using imagination usually to girls ive met irl. My standards as a much an ego thing as a physical one. Settling for unattractive women is just not something I believe in.
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count down to being a 23 year old virgin is 4 months

ive done mostly all i can bodywise and appearance.

its just harsh teenage memories that have killed my confidence.

can we keep this thread as a support thread? serious iam going to try hard for the next 4 months. if it doesnt happen by my 23rd birthday then iam actually going to LDAR cause there is no fckin point.
post 1442404221 05-16-2016, 07:04 AM
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Mind blown.

My blueprint has always worked well in the past:
- Go to club.
- Hit on girls relentlessly, starting with the hottest.
- Progressively lower standards and get drunker as you are rejected until you find somebody.
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Originally Posted By ancientslayers⏩
Mind blown.

My blueprint has always worked well in the past:
- Go to club.
- Hit on girls relentlessly, starting with the hottest.
- Progressively lower standards and get drunker as you are rejected until you find somebody.
how do u take being rejected so many times? srs

never approached before lol
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Originally Posted By Talason⏩
how is this even possible

are you 900 pounds? Even that boogie guy from youtube found poon son
Man is aesthete and do not except nothing below 10/10.
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Originally Posted By acceptitbrah⏩
how do u take being rejected so many times? srs

never approached before lol
9 times out of 10 it's not a "hard" rejection, they will just give one word answers, lose interest or say "talk to you later" or something ("sorry, I've got a boyfriend", "I've got to get back to my friends").

It can still be quite demoralising; sometimes I have to go outside to take a stroll and psyche myself up again.
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Originally Posted By acceptitbrah⏩
how do u take being rejected so many times? srs

never approached before lol
strong username to thread.

people don't get it that its really hard to get laid without social circle, if you can't get to know girls then you can't fuk them simple as that
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Man people who are hugless and even touchless will forever make no sense to me, I'm sorry. That makes absolutely NO sense. I can perfectly understand kissless, because that takes more effort than people give credit for, hell my first kiss was by luck.

You've got to have some sort of crippling anxiety with no status, because some chicks will give you a hug even if you just ask for one. And then people who never even touched a girl or been touched by one? What? Again I'm sorry, someone make that make sense to me.
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reading this thread makes me feel less weird

kissless virgin crew ayyy lmao
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Originally Posted By ancientslayers⏩
Mind blown.

My blueprint has always worked well in the past:
- Go to club.
- Hit on girls relentlessly, starting with the hottest.
- Progressively lower standards and get drunker as you are rejected until you find somebody.
imagine doing that for years but you never find anyone and you go home to fap instead
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Let me drop some cold hard truth on you FA's: there is a 99.9999999% chance you will remain a kissless virgin for life unless you actively change your habits.

Opportunities rarely present themselves for men out of the blue. Women rarely approach 8+/10 brahs, let alone average or below average looking guys (you are mostly invisible to women unless you stand out from the crowd in some way). You can continue living your life in the hope that one day, an hbb will magically throw herself at you, but deep down you know this day will never come. No, it's not fair that women have 9872342 WK orbiters, but that's life son. Deal with it.

You have 2 outcomes for your life:

1. Live in hope and remain and kissless FA virgin.
2. Swallow your pride, get over your self doubt, self hate, scorn for the opposite sex, social anxiety and start approaching women. Itisa numbers game. Your probability of remaining a virgin goes down with each approach, this is simple statistics. It might take you 10 approaches or 10'000, the question you need to ask yourself is whether the feeling of stepping outside of your comfort zone is a worse than remaining a virgin for life.

The choice is yours.
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post 1442408221 05-16-2016, 07:35 AM
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis⏩
imagine doing that for years but you never find anyone and you go home to fap instead
It would be a nightmare and I'd probably stop after a few failed attempts.
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Originally Posted By Agentdark45⏩
Let me drop some cold hard truth on you FA's: there is a 99.9999999% chance you will remain a kissless virgin for life unless you actively change your habits.

Opportunities rarely present themselves for men out of the blue. Women rarely approach 8+/10 brahs, let alone average or below average looking guys (you are mostly invisible to women unless you stand out from the crowd in some way). You can continue living your life in the hope that one day, an hbb will magically throw herself at you, but deep down you know this day will never come. No, it's not fair that women have 9872342 WK orbiters, but that's life son. Deal with it.

You have 2 outcomes for your life:

1. Live in hope and remain and kissless FA virgin.
2. Swallow your pride, get over your self doubt, self hate, scorn for the opposite sex, social anxiety and start approaching women. Itisa numbers game. Your probability of remaining a virgin goes down with each approach, this is simple statistics. It might take you 10 approaches or 10'000, the question you need to ask yourself is whether the feeling of stepping outside of your comfort zone is a worse than remaining a virgin for life.

The choice is yours.
i know all this but cant seem to take action.

feels bad man.
post 1442408311 05-16-2016, 07:35 AM
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what do you guys think the problem is? looks? personality? I am probably a 6/10 on my best day but I get a ton of attention because I say exactly what is on my mind to any girl I am interested in. many of them end up being not interested but still laugh anyway, and every now and then girls that are pretty hot find me funny. i'd say my wit is what gets me in 9/10 times.

what do you guys think the problem is? whatever the problem is, it can be fixed.

here is a checklist for getting laid:
1) attempt humor with everyone.
2) keep yourself in good shape.
3) let go of the past and realize rejection is not a big deal and nobody gives a fuuck if you get rejected.
4) accept that being friends with a female is still a better position than being home fapping on the internet.
5) continuously put yourself out there until rejection makes you laugh.

just gotta have a "dont give a fuuck" attitude brahs.

the main issue I believe is framing rejection in a healthy way. each and every time you fail or are rejected, yes it sucks, but it gets you closer to your goal.developing a healthy relationship with failure is how you become better at things.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
what do you guys think the problem is? looks? personality? I am probably a 6/10 on my best day but I get a ton of attention because I say exactly what is on my mind to any girl I am interested in. many of them end up being not interested but still laugh anyway, and every now and then girls that are pretty hot find me funny. i'd say my wit is what gets me in 9/10 times.

what do you guys think the problem is? whatever the problem is, it can be fixed.
Honestly, I know my height is the main issue for why I can rarely get any action. Not very many girls are into that.
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Originally Posted By acceptitbrah⏩
i know all this but cant seem to take action.

feels bad man.
Then you weren't meant to procreate.

There are two categories of men:

1. Those that see adversity and strive to overcome it no matter how big a task it is.
2. Those that see adversity and give up at the first hurdle.

I guess you fall into category number two.
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Originally Posted By Agentdark45⏩
Then you weren't meant to procreate.

There are two categories of men:

1. Those that see adversity and strive to overcome it no matter how big a task it is.
2. Those that see adversity and give up at the first hurdle.

I guess you fall into category number two.
i guess this is the one aspect of my life where i fall into the second category

gym/studies i put 100% into it

its hard when youve been told you are ugly in teen years. hard to get over.
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Go lift a weight/improve your appearance and watch your world change.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Honestly, I know my height is the main issue for why I can rarely get any action. Not very many girls are into that.
not many, but they exist. your journey will just be harder. i have a friend who is around that height with a girlfriend who is so fuucking hot. perfect body. it just means youll have to keep trying.
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Originally Posted By acceptitbrah⏩
i guess this is the one aspect of my life where i fall into the second category

gym/studies i put 100% into it

its hard when youve been told you are ugly in teen years. hard to get over.
"It's hard"...grab your nuts and man the phuck up you little bitch! Life isn't easy. Busting your ass in the gym isn't easy, studying till 4am in the morning isn't easy but you do it anyway because you desire a certain outcome. You obviously don't want it bad enough to put in the required effort.
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Originally Posted By ancientslayers⏩
It would be a nightmare and I'd probably stop after a few failed attempts.
Exactly. Feelsbadman
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Originally Posted By Agentdark45⏩
Let me drop some cold hard truth on you FA's: there is a 99.9999999% chance you will remain a kissless virgin for life unless you actively change your habits.

Opportunities rarely present themselves for men out of the blue. Women rarely approach 8+/10 brahs, let alone average or below average looking guys (you are mostly invisible to women unless you stand out from the crowd in some way). You can continue living your life in the hope that one day, an hbb will magically throw herself at you, but deep down you know this day will never come. No, it's not fair that women have 9872342 WK orbiters, but that's life son. Deal with it.

You have 2 outcomes for your life:

1. Live in hope and remain and kissless FA virgin.
2. Swallow your pride, get over your self doubt, self hate, scorn for the opposite sex, social anxiety and start approaching women. Itisa numbers game. Your probability of remaining a virgin goes down with each approach, this is simple statistics. It might take you 10 approaches or 10'000, the question you need to ask yourself is whether the feeling of stepping outside of your comfort zone is a worse than remaining a virgin for life.

The choice is yours.
You're bound to just luck into something I guess, but the numbers game is overrated. You can't realistic expect someone to play the numbers game for years with no results and just keep going
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Originally Posted By jamesbwbevis⏩
You're bound to just luck into something I guess, but the numbers game is overrated. You can't realistic expect someone to play the numbers game for years with no results and just keep going
Then you might as well just lay down and rot, unless you get on that ceo 10K /day time and get yourself a gold-digging sloot.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
not many, but they exist. your journey will just be harder. i have a friend who is around that height with a girlfriend who is so fuucking hot. perfect body. it just means youll have to keep trying.
You still on nofap? I find it easier to be energetic/funny with others when I'm on a streak.
I'm awesome

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Remember to lift heavy yall. Girl gains arent gonna happen without gym gains. Not really but Im pretty sure it helps.
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Originally Posted By hubbabubba2⏩
You still on nofap? I find it easier to be energetic/funny with others when I'm on a streak.
oh absolutely. no fap is one of the best things a man can do for his mental health and well-being. i have put together a few streaks of 8-9 months and don't intend on fapping again since my last one a couple of weeks ago. it really helps you put shiit like this into perspective.
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