strong username to thread.

people don't get it that its really hard to get laid without social circle, if you can't get to know girls then you can't fuk them simple as that

Then you might as well just lay down and rot, unless you get on that ceo 10K /day time and get yourself a gold-digging sloot.

How are you 5'3 and 200lbs? Did you mean to put 6'3?

I am 5'3, 120lbs, but have a similar physique to you.

oh absolutely. no fap is one of the best things a man can do for his mental health and well-being. i have put together a few streaks of 8-9 months and don't intend on fapping again since my last one a couple of weeks ago. it really helps you put shiit like this into perspective.

that was old picture from 2014,now i am fat lardwhich may explains why lifting destroyed my dating scene, i look like bloated fuk

Damn, good job. I'm intending to never go back to it again either, been trying for a couple years and have learned a lot about this destructive habit. The mental clarity to be gained is ridiculous and once you see it you can't ever be content with going back to fap.

Let me drop some cold hard truth on you FA's: there is a 99.9999999% chance you will remain a kissless virgin for life unless you actively change your habits.

Opportunities rarely present themselves for men out of the blue. Women rarely approach 8+/10 brahs, let alone average or below average looking guys (you are mostly invisible to women unless you stand out from the crowd in some way). You can continue living your life in the hope that one day, an hbb will magically throw herself at you, but deep down you know this day will never come. No, it's not fair that women have 9872342 WK orbiters, but that's life son. Deal with it.

You have 2 outcomes for your life:

1. Live in hope and remain and kissless FA virgin.
2. Swallow your pride, get over your self doubt, self hate, scorn for the opposite sex, social anxiety and start approaching women. Itisa numbers game. Your probability of remaining a virgin goes down with each approach, this is simple statistics. It might take you 10 approaches or 10'000, the question you need to ask yourself is whether the feeling of stepping outside of your comfort zone is a worse than remaining a virgin for life.

The choice is yours.

Fuk I know deep down know what u said is the truth. If I don't approach im gonna be single for life. Thing is I'm keep using my youth as an excuse and keep telling myself theright one will eventually come alongbut as I'm getting older and seeing the years fly by I know this is not the case. I keep seeing everyone on my fb getting engaged and I'm getting soo jealous

Fuk I know deep down know what u said is the truth. If I don't approach im gonna be single for life. Thing is I'm keep using my youth as an excuse and keep telling myself the right one will eventually come along but as I'm getting older and seeing the years fly by I know this is not the case. I keep seeing everyone on my fb getting engaged and I'm getting soo jealous

There is nothing to lose in getting rejected. You can't think that she will come along. You need to find her. She will not throw herself at you unless you are in the top 1% of guys. Good luck and stay safe!

Lmao at all these fukin chads that only need green spraypaint to look like the Hulk saying "just approach brahs"

You have no fukin idea what its like to be a repellent to women. I've had women catch me walking their way and b line to the bathroom or change room.

The closest I ever got was saying "hey.. " and having them cut me off and say "don't you ever fuking talk to me". That bitch was twice my weight . (Zero standards crew)

Lmao at telling me not to watch porn, that's the only thing stopping me from racing your mother or sister. I would fuking snap if I didn't fap 8 to 9 times a week.

Travelled the world, been to around 15 countries so far.. Have about 50k dollars saved.. Still depressed as Fuk

Lmao at all these fukin chads that only need green spraypaint to look like the Hulk saying "just approach brahs"

You have no fukin idea what its like to be a repellent to women. I've had women catch me walking their way and b line to the bathroom or change room.

The closest I ever got was saying "hey.. " and having them cut me off and say "don't you ever fuking talk to me". That bitch was twice my weight . (Zero standards crew)

Lmao at telling me not to watch porn, that's the only thing stopping me from racing your mother or sister. I would fuking snap if I didn't fap 8 to 9 times a week.

Lol. I've never been outside of the east coast. I'm basically in debt. Happiest dude ever. All about perspective brah.

And how do you guys go throughout life without even putting in a solid effort. If you can't even get a girl, you shouldn't be wasting your time in the gym. The gym is way harder to commit to then kissing some random sloot.

Gotta love misc logic, women are sloots but there are kissless virgins out there?
Get over the 'lack of confidence' and try not to aim only for "HBBs." Look in the mirror and ask yourself, "What do you have to offer?"

I use gym as a sort of coping mechanism,it gives me hope. I keep telling myself if I get buff I'll get a girl one day, but I have honestly never made any progress in the gym and I'm starting to realize I never will

okay, but why? why, knowing you will "never make the progress you want to," continue to do the same shiit all the time and not try to find ways to optimize it? why do you just take shiit from life and never attempt to hit back? this problem is easily correctable, but you won't let yourself actually feel good about your consistency and work ethic for the gym for one god damn second without introducing a self-defeating thought which makes you repulsive to all people, especially women.

Lol I dunno I'm still having 'hope' that I'll make it.. I know I'm contradicting myself now but I'm still clinging to that hope.. Also it's a good stress reliever and it's my only hobby besides guitar. I'm 110 lbs I can't accept that I will be this weight forever it's too depressing to accept hence I'm trying

"hope" doesn't mean a fuucking thing if you aren't actively taking steps to get better.

track your food, get on a routine, and weigh yourself weekly. after a week of this, post on the misc or PM me for advice. in 6 months you'll have gained a little bit. after a year, you'll be noticeably larger. TAKE STEPS brah, don't just sit around and keep getting hit in the mouth. FIGHT.

Thanks brah I will actively make an effort starting from today and thanks for the help, already Repped u brah so can't rep u again for a while

Do women honestly treat u like that? I'm ugly but most women are normally nice to me only the guys normally treat me like ****. I guess white women are a lot nastier and arrogant than other races

yeah me

dont worry about the reps brah, worry about fixing what you arent happy with. track your calories, get on a good routine, and constantly evaluate yourself. you will get there.

The only women that don't treat me like chit are waitresses aftrr I go to the restaurant multiple times after tipping well. Srs its amazing the way their attitude changes for a 7-8 dollar tip.