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post 10000224118 Yesterday, 03:56 PM
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Are you actually willing to make the concessions needed for a traditional family?

if this is what u want






are u as a MODERN man willing to play ur part ?

become a skilled tradesmen or higher education STEM degree

9-5 job (often more)

grind until exhaustion and get approved a mortgage for ur house in a good neighborhood

spend majority of ur free time with family and kids

engage with the community and try to improve it

dinner with family friends and neighbours try to increase social status for ur family

support ur closest family especially elderly + also on ur wife side

on the weekend u do sports with the kids and teach them facts about life

treat ur wife with respect and care take her out often make love to her ensure she orgasms etc

no whining about personal time no whining about society is awful (change it then!) absolute minimal time each week for video games or computer games

discuss
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000224155 Yesterday, 04:17 PM
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Hell no
post 10000224159 Yesterday, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway
Hell no
if i could start over i would

also trad wifes are in now more and more women are looking for it srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000224163 Yesterday, 04:21 PM
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Most of those things aren’t necessary

I stopped working when first kid arrived

Financial independence should be the end goal anyway regardless of family
post 10000224166 Yesterday, 04:25 PM
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Best I can do for you is bartend and bang whores
Not in the AM
post 10000224169 Yesterday, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17
Best I can do for you is bartend and bang whores
And rail lines
post 10000224323 Yesterday, 06:16 PM
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I like living the family life. But then again I probably wouldn't feel that way if I had to wage slave or tradiemax.
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post 10000224335 Yesterday, 06:30 PM
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Yea that’s pretty much my life as a 36 year old. Except my wife mog me in both education and income srs
post 10000224354 Yesterday, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
if i could start over i would

also trad wifes are in now more and more women are looking for it srs
they can say that but they still have a fight on their hands between trad wife life for decades and getting sucked into the matrix through digital connectiveness.
post 10000224387 Yesterday, 07:24 PM
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31 years in and so far so good.
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nop wuld only work ever 20 hrs per week maybe 30 max

dont need to work and av money from parents culd support wife and family but i need time for hobbys lifting video games and sports

also i like freedom to pump other pussy this is not hard rule but she wuld need be ok with puck fucking sex dolls if i cant fuck other woman

this is why last girl broke up with me, she said no to open relationship which is fine, she said yes to puck fucking sex dolls which is fine

but then she start complain about sex dolls later and hint of get rid of them. i told her am never get rid of them and she made draw out break up talk for 2 hours then left
puckers aka phuckers aka puck aka puck nasty aka puck daddy aka big puck aka little puck aka puck the stuff
post 10000224401 Yesterday, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
if this is what u want

are u as a MODERN man willing to play ur part ?

become a skilled tradesmen or higher education STEM degree

9-5 job (often more)

grind until exhaustion and get approved a mortgage for ur house in a good neighborhood

spend majority of ur free time with family and kids

engage with the community and try to improve it

dinner with family friends and neighbours try to increase social status for ur family

support ur closest family especially elderly + also on ur wife side

on the weekend u do sports with the kids and teach them facts about life

treat ur wife with respect and care take her out often make love to her ensure she orgasms etc

no whining about personal time no whining about society is awful (change it then!) absolute minimal time each week for video games or computer games

discuss
Yeah sounds like my life for the most part. Only reason why I am posting now is that I am stuck in bed. Sacrifice is the name of the game for family.
post 10000224417 Yesterday, 07:40 PM
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post 10000224418 Yesterday, 07:44 PM
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I simply don't think I could trust a woman enough to enter that intimate of relationship with her.

I don't blame women for their human nature, but I have accepted it as fact.
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post 10000224420 Yesterday, 07:45 PM
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post 10000224427 Yesterday, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
if this is what u want






95% of men arent getting a woman who looks like that to begin with, and 100% of men arent getting a woman who will look like that for long. Nor will most women find a tall successful Chad etc. Most people arent even looking to start families in their prime aesthetic years these days (18-25), so if youre looking for someone who is... good luck.


The question is are you willing to make the sacrifices and live the family life if your partner looks like this:





Because that's the average reality.
post 10000225133 16 hours ago, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
Yea that’s pretty much my life as a 36 year old. Except my wife mog me in both education and income srs
that's fine i like intelligent women i think it's sexy

Originally Posted By edwardhaskell
they can say that but they still have a fight on their hands between trad wife life for decades and getting sucked into the matrix through digital connectiveness.
yep

Originally Posted By Puckers
nop wuld only work ever 20 hrs per week maybe 30 max

dont need to work and av money from parents culd support wife and family but i need time for hobbys lifting video games and sports

also i like freedom to pump other pussy this is not hard rule but she wuld need be ok with puck fucking sex dolls if i cant fuck other woman

this is why last girl broke up with me, she said no to open relationship which is fine, she said yes to puck fucking sex dolls which is fine

but then she start complain about sex dolls later and hint of get rid of them. i told her am never get rid of them and she made draw out break up talk for 2 hours then left
jesus christ puck why the sex dolls no women will like that women are very competitive about their men they don't care if it's a doll srs

Originally Posted By johnvee73
The dream is to find a girlfriend after I lose the weight, someone who plays magic the gathering, and just play magic and have sex all the time.
what about spirituality don't u want to explore this world or the other together with ur girl

john vee need another ama soon i want ur opinion on brad and donny who are both spiralling out srs

Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
I simply don't think I could trust a woman enough to enter that intimate of relationship with her.

I don't blame women for their human nature, but I have accepted it as fact.
that's fine i'm not saying this to troll but since u are also open to men would u trust a man instead ?

Originally Posted By SAND
95% of men arent getting a woman who looks like that to begin with, and 100% of men arent getting a woman who will look like that for long. Nor will most women find a tall successful Chad etc. Most people arent even looking to start families in their prime aesthetic years these days (18-25), so if youre looking for someone who is... good luck.


The question is are you willing to make the sacrifices and live the family life if your partner looks like this:





Because that's the average reality.
look i know what i am and yes i am not the top % looks wise so who should i go for obviously the top % women don't want me that's fine but it still hurts like hell but i'm over it

plane jane's can be great girls too u need to learn how to live in the middle or below middle srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000225148 16 hours ago, 01:53 PM
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No thx

I need a girl who will also work and we share the burden
post 10000225155 16 hours ago, 01:56 PM
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when will it be my turn for the american dream
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post 10000225582 12 hours ago, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
jesus christ puck why the sex dolls no women will like that women are very competitive about their men they don't care if it's a doll srs
i need orgasm 3+ times every day most woman dont want sex that much special after few years. plus is gud for variety. there high quality to, 5 real doll quality. 2 whites, 1 asian 1 latina 1 black

i ask for open relationship first she said no then said she was fine with sex dolls and might culd get into three some with some her escort friends. that never happen tho and then she try to get rid of sex dolls cant do it had to tell her they wont go anywhere so she broke up over 2 hrs

am more pissed she said ok to it then try to change, culd of save 4 months of waste relationship

doubt she come back now, so prob stuck just fucking dolls for now except random times coastie visit and bring girl for me. i never got much results on dating apps but it did work few times. thats dry up for me now tho got nothing for months on them and i try many like tinder, coffee meet bagel, okcupid, hinge, bumble
puckers aka phuckers aka puck aka puck nasty aka puck daddy aka big puck aka little puck aka puck the stuff
post 10000225631 11 hours ago, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted By SAND
95% of men arent getting a woman who looks like that to begin with, and 100% of men arent getting a woman who will look like that for long. Nor will most women find a tall successful Chad etc. Most people arent even looking to start families in their prime aesthetic years these days (18-25), so if youre looking for someone who is... good luck.


The question is are you willing to make the sacrifices and live the family life if your partner looks like this:





Because that's the average reality.
by 40-50 something like this is what 90% of men will have if married -- even miscers.
post 10000225650 11 hours ago, 07:27 PM
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I laugh when red pill guys talk about what women bring to the table. B*tch, what do YOU bring to the table.
post 10000225656 11 hours ago, 07:32 PM
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Do most of these already though I do push back about needing personal time. Worked hard and made sacrifices so my wife could stay home with the kids, it’s not easy for a non CEO 10k a day job but we managed
Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women.
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post 10000225658 11 hours ago, 07:33 PM
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I’m an incel NEET that lives off whatever little savings I have left for cheap in Asia.
Oh Wow!
post 10000225659 11 hours ago, 07:34 PM
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when will it be my turn for the american dream
You are the American dream.

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the most difficult thing ive done is raise kids.

the most rewarding this ive done is raise kids.

even told wife she doesnt have to work and ill support her but she said she wanted to work. Which is bad because it offers no real difference to mortgage, and i have to do all the home crap, baby stuff as well as a 9-5.

women have been fooled into thinking a 9-5 is > spending time with family.
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