I said "the problem is you are a filthy woman, mess and chaos everywhere"

To my wife before going to sleep.

When I came to tell her about the neighbors possibly dying at 5:30 AM she was wide awake and said she had been for hours.

Wondering if I was too harsh on her and the cause of her bad nights sleep. I feel bad about it, yet the truth had to be told? Sometimes I wonder if one truly gains anything by speaking the truth. In the end people don't change anyway for the most part.

Old guys with life experience: please advise. (Srs)