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post 10000126223 04-14-2026, 04:17 PM
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What is considered verbal abuse? And physical abuse

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IMO verbal abuse is bullying unless there was a reason to roast the shit out of them i consider it bullying

Same with physical abuse unless they earned that smack. My right hand never fails to break noses, orbital bones, teeth etc. Always was earned, in fact i did them a service.
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Common sense mainly, most people lack it unfortunately.

Nobody has the right to hit you, any physical attack is abuse.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
Common sense mainly, most people lack it unfortunately.

Nobody has the right to hit you, any physical attack is abuse.
What if they squared up to u and it was obvious u either hit them first or get sucker punched the moment u look away? In those situations always smack first, ask questions later

if someone being hostile and u know it's about to go down if u just stand there ur a sitting duck, you'll look away for a second and get sucker punched or smashed with a bottle

it's happened to me
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I think when you believe that someone deserves punishment for how they exist around you and then you dole out the punishment.
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget
What if they squared up to u and it was obvious u either hit them first or get sucker punched the moment u look away? In those situations always smack first, ask questions later

if someone being hostile and u know it's about to go down if u just stand there ur a sitting duck, you'll look away for a second and get sucker punched or smashed with a bottle

it's happened to me
I cant speak for other people, but aside from my parents nobody has ever outright assaulted me for no reason.
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetHigh
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne
I think when you believe that someone deserves punishment for how they exist around you and then you dole out the punishment.
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
I cant speak for other people, but aside from my parents nobody has ever outright assaulted me for no reason.
If u grew up in the ghetto areas of Belfast your life would've been very different my friend

A lot of scumbags who will attack random people for no reason roaming the streets and i ain't talking about refugee's here especially teens in groups

Wait, why did ur parent assault u for no reason?
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I would never verbally or physically abuse anyone

Except when I had to call someone a mentally unstable dumbfuck tranny-loving emo queer
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Originally Posted By gwg77
I would never verbally or physically abuse anyone

Except when I had to call someone a mentally unstable dumbfuck tranny-loving emo queer
I don't think Internet stuff counts. We can always log out or leaf
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There's a few snowflakes that cry about negs all the time on here, I'm sure their heuristics on abuse are pretty sensitive eg if you were thinking mean thoughts about them they might get upset.

I actually cringe when I hear the word bullying srs. When I was a kid bullying was real and had a pretty clear meaning, nowadays everyone is such a low test phaggot that they call everything bullying, and there is no social correction, or not enough at least.
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Originally Posted By Mulloway69
There's a few snowflakes that cry about negs all the time on here, I'm sure their heuristics on abuse are pretty sensitive eg if you were thinking mean thoughts about them they might get upset.

I actually cringe when I hear the word bullying srs. When I was a kid bullying was real and had a pretty clear meaning, nowadays everyone is such a low test phaggot that they call everything bullying, and there is no social correction, or not enough at least.
If I feel I'm being threatened in some way I say that I'm being bullied.
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Originally Posted By Mulloway69
There's a few snowflakes that cry about negs all the time on here, I'm sure their heuristics on abuse are pretty sensitive eg if you were thinking mean thoughts about them they might get upset.

I actually cringe when I hear the word bullying srs. When I was a kid bullying was real and had a pretty clear meaning, nowadays everyone is such a low test phaggot that they call everything bullying, and there is no social correction, or not enough at least.
Lol internet bullying is not a thing I'm talking about IRL shit ITT
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Originally Posted By johnvee73
If I feel I'm being threatened in some way I say that I'm being bullied.
Fuck that, if you are being bullied you are a victim, and if you are a victim you are a bitch srs.

Obviously if someone had a gun or a knife it's a bit different, but I would rather get the shit knocked out of me than be a bitch, and you will find that most if not all 'bullies' are cowards and dont like getting punched in the face.
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Really good to have a debate about this.
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Originally Posted By Mulloway69
Fuck that, if you are being bullied you are a victim, and if you are a victim you are a bitch srs.

Obviously if someone had a gun or a knife it's a bit different, but I would rather get the shit knocked out of me than be a bitch, and you will find that most if not all 'bullies' are cowards and dont like getting punched in the face.
Lol, I have a soul boyo, the devil can't do anything to me.
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17
I don't think Internet stuff counts. We can always log out or leaf
Das it mane! I'm all good then.


Originally Posted By Mulloway69
There's a few snowflakes that cry about negs all the time on here, I'm sure their heuristics on abuse are pretty sensitive eg if you were thinking mean thoughts about them they might get upset.

I actually cringe when I hear the word bullying srs. When I was a kid bullying was real and had a pretty clear meaning, nowadays everyone is such a low test phaggot that they call everything bullying, and there is no social correction, or not enough at least.
Seriously dude. You can't be a grown man complaining about bullying. Especially online.
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Originally Posted By gwg77
Seriously dude. You can't be a grown man complaining about bullying. Especially online.
It's fkn crazy, I remember when they first started talking about teen girls being bullied online and I thought they needed to harden the fuck up or get off the internet.

Now the landscape has shifted to boys wearing skirts to school and coming home unscathed, and a bunch of "males" online complaining about being negged for being insufferable cunts.

Fkn phaggots need to give their balls a tug and make sure they still have some.
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If you’re a woman anything that makes you feel any negative emotion is abuse.
Someone tells you something you don’t wanna hear it’s verbal abuse. Someone doesn’t give you money for free it’s financial abuse. If somebody restrains you when you attack them they abused you.

For a man the only real kind of abuse society will recognize is getting your ass kicked by your father as a child and even if you did suffer that your better off not telling anyone irl especially a woman because she will only think less of you
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Originally Posted By leoaa777
Really good to have a debate about this.
I think so too. Like is my dad snacking me in the back of the head as a kid abuse? I wouldn't say so...
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy
If you’re a woman anything that makes you feel any negative emotion is abuse.
Someone tells you something you don’t wanna hear it’s verbal abuse. Someone doesn’t give you money for free it’s financial abuse. If somebody restrains you when you attack them they abused you.

For a man the only real kind of abuse society will recognize is getting your ass kicked by your father as a child and even if you did suffer that your better off not telling anyone irl especially a woman because she will only think less of you
Bro I don't even believe anything a woman says anymore literally. When you work in nightlife like you and I have you see some chit
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If someone were to put their hands on me in an intentionally harmful/painful way then I'd call that abuse. I've never been physically abused and it's def something I would not tolerate.

Verbal abuse I think you know it when you see it. I was verbally/emotionally abused by my stepfather from the age of about 10 to 19 when I moved out. I've put up with some verbal abuse since then but not for long. It turns me right off that person. I think being mean for the sake of meanness is wrong. We don't know what anyone is going through and it's just not necessary. If it's in defense that is a bit different. But just out of nowhere it's not right.

I have never hit anyone, besides defending myself against my brother when he was beating me up when we were young. I spanked my son once in his entire life, a quick smack to his diapered butt. Realized right then that physical punishment was not the way I wanted to parent. I'm not a violent person and I try my best in verbal arguments to fight fair. I have no interest in being around someone who is violent or verbally fights dirty.
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Bro I don't even believe anything a woman says anymore literally. When you work in nightlife like you and I have you see some chit
I like to think there are good women out there I know there aren’t any in my pos liberal city but out there in the small red towns hopefully
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Originally Posted By Legz422
If someone were to put their hands on me in an intentionally harmful/painful way then I'd call that abuse. I've never been physically abused and it's def something I would not tolerate.

Verbal abuse I think you know it when you see it. I was verbally/emotionally abused by my stepfather from the age of about 10 to 19 when I moved out. I've put up with some verbal abuse since then but not for long. It turns me right off that person. I think being mean for the sake of meanness is wrong. We don't know what anyone is going through and it's just not necessary. If it's in defense that is a bit different. But just out of nowhere it's not right.

I have never hit anyone, besides defending myself against my brother when he was beating me up when we were young. I spanked my son once in his entire life, a quick smack to his diapered butt. Realized right then that physical punishment was not the way I wanted to parent. I'm not a violent person and I try my best in verbal arguments to fight fair. I have no interest in being around someone who is violent or verbally fights dirty.
If you were to spank your kid for almost crossing a busy street without looking both ways before I would not count that as physical abuse

I remember the things my dad said to me much more vividly than the times I were hit for instance. Things said when I was like 5 years old
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Pretty sure there is literally no such thing as ā€œverbal abuseā€.


That is just some subjective term that people throw around and is simply based on the experience of negative emotions.

Often times raw honesty can stimulate the strongest negative emotions.

Inb4 being honest is verbal abuse
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
Pretty sure there is literally no such thing as ā€œverbal abuseā€.


That is just some subjective term that people throw around and is simply based on the experience of negative emotions.

Often times raw honesty can stimulate the strongest negative emotions.

Inb4 being honest is verbal abuse
I would say private pyle in full metal jacket was verbally abused. For a potato, normals could handle that drill sergeant
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