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» Ever just accepted being friend zoned by a girl?
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post 10000158646 05-08-2026, 08:34 PM
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Ever just accepted being friend zoned by a girl?

And just decided to give up and be friends instead of going no contact?

Obviously beta but I'm kind of at the point in my life where I can't just be cutting people out because there's so few left as an oldcel.
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post 10000158655 05-08-2026, 08:40 PM
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Them feels

Seems like all my friends are married with kids now

I'm 41 so it's hard to meet good people these days

But to answer your question,no I've never been friend zoned.

At least not in 15 years
post 10000158675 05-08-2026, 08:51 PM
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Everything you need is inside you.

I understand the sensations.

Your central nervous system does not like it, but I promise you will be okay.

Every man should spend some time alone. Some real time alone. I mean like months and years.
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post 10000158678 05-08-2026, 08:53 PM
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When I was younger I did with a couple of girls once I found out they had the herp-a-derp. No thank you.

besides, they can sometimes introduce you to other girls.
post 10000158691 05-08-2026, 09:03 PM
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just tell her..."I understand you don't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me, but would it be alright if I stlll masturbated to you?"

she'll appreciate how considerate youre being.
post 10000158697 05-08-2026, 09:10 PM
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post 10000158710 05-08-2026, 09:25 PM
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post 10000158711 05-08-2026, 09:25 PM
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post 10000158717 05-08-2026, 09:30 PM
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Aren't you a jacked millionaire?
post 10000158722 05-08-2026, 09:35 PM
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post 10000158723 05-08-2026, 09:37 PM
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went to 24 hour fitness in Irvine. Saw so many cute asian girls. I cried becaues I'm an old man and missed my chance at love. 50 more years to go ugh.
post 10000158727 05-08-2026, 09:38 PM
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Oh and OP I have been friendzoned by sugarbabies twice. Like I was paying them and they refused to have sex with me. Both of them were medium cute like straight 6s. It was ridiculous. Life sucks as a low status male. It's really awful.
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My and Garyridgeway are gonna ropemax together.
post 10000158735 05-08-2026, 09:57 PM
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post 10000158739 05-08-2026, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored
My and Garyridgeway are gonna ropemax together.
u need to ropemax like puck, maxing out the ropes u shoot
puckers aka phuckers aka puck aka puck nasty aka puck daddy aka big puck aka little puck aka puck the stuff
post 10000158762 05-08-2026, 10:23 PM
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Back in like jr high or high school. Would never fall for that shit as an adult.

But I’m defining friend zone as waiting around secretly lusting after girl who will never be into you and she uses you like a simp.

If a girl isn’t interested, but you become casual friends just so you have a girl to go out with as a wing women. That’s fine
post 10000158770 05-08-2026, 10:40 PM
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I can’t even imagine wanting to be friends with a woman. Maybe if she was based.
post 10000158778 05-08-2026, 10:45 PM
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kinda yes, there’s a girl I first met in college and originally just hung out with her as a platonic friend, we really just hit it off and I legit enjoyed her company as friends. later I got interested in getting more romantic with her and brought it up and she said flat out she would never have sex with me, we still stayed friends and I even still hung out/got together with her in years after college, now we both live in different states and been years since I saw her but once in awhile still message etc, we both moved on romantically with other ppl long ago
post 10000158810 05-08-2026, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
And just decided to give up and be friends instead of going no contact?

Obviously beta but I'm kind of at the point in my life where I can't just be cutting people out because there's so few left as an oldcel.
Yes go in her friendzone. Then use her to bang her friends,.watch her get jealous
Send her to Papi Chulos
post 10000158812 05-08-2026, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster2
Back in like jr high or high school. Would never fall for that shit as an adult.

But I’m defining friend zone as waiting around secretly lusting after girl who will never be into you and she uses you like a simp.

If a girl isn’t interested, but you become casual friends just so you have a girl to go out with as a wing women. That’s fine
That last part will just screw you over. When you see a guy and girl out one on one you assume they’re probably dating otherwise what the hell are they doing? I would have to guess women view it the same so they think you’re taken.

Plus most men really don’t want to be friends with women, nor do women with men. Women just know men can offer things their chick friends can’t offer that they can use out of you. Watch them get a bf and see how often you hear from them. Do they cut off all of their chick friends when that happens? Lol nope but they will cut you off asap.
post 10000158836 05-08-2026, 11:58 PM
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post 10000158938 05-09-2026, 04:33 AM
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When I was better looking I dated a few times between serious relationships, they would cut me off after a few dates and my takeaway is because they wanted to take things to the next level right away and I would resist thinking we should get to know each other first, when they would text me and break things off it was always me who suggested still being friends, they never went for it.
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post 10000158960 05-09-2026, 05:04 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored
Aren't you a jacked millionaire?
We’re all FA here bro. You could be sunmaxxing at a gay park living out of your Tesla or a jacked 6’6” Chad billionaire…. If you post here you’re FA
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post 10000158963 05-09-2026, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted By imbored
went to 24 hour fitness in Irvine. Saw so many cute asian girls. I cried becaues I'm an old man and missed my chance at love. 50 more years to go ugh.
I feel some of your pain. I see nubile shapely young hotties walking in the sun and its like looking a nice slices of cake I cannot eat.
Cook the man some eggs!
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No because they either like me or think i'm an asshole and don't want anything to do with me.. but now i could gaf about a girls opinion of me if she's not my wife and even than, i really don't care about her opinion of me either.. so
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post 10000159025 05-09-2026, 06:20 AM
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Originally Posted By ectobruh
No because I'm not a pussy. I end that shit immediately
Oh wow
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000159031 05-09-2026, 06:26 AM
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Nope

Friend zone? Ignore.
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Met a lot of girls through volleyball that I friend zoned. They would try once or twice then accept the situation or pull away. Never as cringy as some men are lol.
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If you be cool and stay casual friends with them, they will hook you up with their friends/acquaintances.
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