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post 1467302281 10-19-2016, 08:51 PM
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Crush who turned me down years ago is now interested in me. Wat do?

Has anyone else been in this situation?

The last time I saw her was three years ago. For some reason she was on my campus today and saw me as I left the gym. Three years ago I was a very skinny ******* with no jawline. I asked her out back then and she turned me down.

I saw her and she saw me today, she came up to me and said hi, tried to start a conversation with me, telling me, "You've changed a lot since I last saw you." I matured now and she likes what she sees. The thing is that I can't forget how much it hurt me when she turned me down, so I don't know what I'm supposed to do. She gave me her number. I want to forget her so I won't be talking to her again.

Anyone else had this happen to them? A girl who was uninterested in you before started becoming interested in you after you got a bit more muscular or mature?
post 1467303131 10-19-2016, 08:55 PM
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post 1467303431 10-19-2016, 08:57 PM
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PITB a few times then go NC.
post 1467303591 10-19-2016, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Has anyone else been in this situation?

The last time I saw her was three years ago. For some reason she was on my campus today and saw me as I left the gym. Three years ago I was a very skinny ******* with no jawline. I asked her out back then and she turned me down.

I saw her and she saw me today, she came up to me and said hi, tried to start a conversation with me, telling me, "You've changed a lot since I last saw you." I matured now and she likes what she sees. The thing is that I can't forget how much it hurt me when she turned me down, so I don't know what I'm supposed to do. She gave me her number. I want to forget her so I won't be talking to her again.

Anyone else had this happen to them? A girl who was uninterested in you before started becoming interested in you after you got a bit more muscular or mature?
how did she turn you down? rudely or nicely?
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post 1467303711 10-19-2016, 08:59 PM
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post 1467304001 10-19-2016, 09:00 PM
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She'll always have the rejection on you. Id say smash n leave or just not fuk with it
post 1467304321 10-19-2016, 09:01 PM
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lmfao **** that.


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post 1467304361 10-19-2016, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By AnxietyManlet⏩
how did she turn you down? rudely or nicely?
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
post 1467304661 10-19-2016, 09:03 PM
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Fuk dat bish, literally. Than block her.
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post 1467304901 10-19-2016, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Hahaha...ahahha

What a bitch lmao
post 1467304951 10-19-2016, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By DallasDiesel⏩
Fuk dat bish, literally. Than block her.
I want to do this, but my moral conscience is telling me not to do it.
post 1467305191 10-19-2016, 09:05 PM
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Smash n blow on her face, take a pic n send it to all her friends. Tell her revenge is sweet then kick her out naked and sniff her clothes


Also pics op wtf
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Originally Posted By Land_Down_Under⏩
Smash n blow on her face, take a pic n send it to all her friends. Tell her revenge is sweet then kick her out naked and sniff her clothes


Also pics op wtf
i like the way u think breh
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post 1467305791 10-19-2016, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Lmao @ you if you actually talk to her
post 1467305841 10-19-2016, 09:08 PM
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stop over analyzing and holding grudges, she turned you down because she wasn't attracted to you, now she is, you wouldn't had asked her out before if she was ugly so don't be a hipcrite, smash and live life, enjoy your newfound aesthetics.
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post 1467306031 10-19-2016, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted By CTSV648HP⏩
Fuk her on your way to North Carolina
This.

OP I'd tell you to ignore completely but for old times sake bust your nut and ghost.
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post 1467306121 10-19-2016, 09:09 PM
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You should contact her and ask her for some pics OP
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post 1467306261 10-19-2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Fred87nc⏩
stop over analyzing and holding grudges, she turned you down because she wasn't attracted to you, now she is, you wouldn't had asked her out before if she was ugly so don't be a hipcrite, smash and live life, enjoy your newfound aesthetics.
i think u missed the part where she went around telling everyone that OP was a creep
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post 1467306831 10-19-2016, 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Fred87nc⏩
stop over analyzing and holding grudges, she turned you down because she wasn't attracted to you, now she is, you wouldn't had asked her out before if she was ugly so don't be a hipcrite, smash and live life, enjoy your newfound aesthetics.
this is awful advice OP. never lose your dignity for hole
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Originally Posted By Shortstop36⏩
this is awful advice OP. never lose your dignity for hole
This.
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Originally Posted By Shortstop36⏩
this is awful advice OP. never lose your dignity for hole
I don't really need her hole anyways. My chances with girls has really improved since I gained some weight.
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Ignore and don't acknowledge her srs

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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
I don't really need her hole anyways. My chances with girls has really improved since I gained some weight.
good job dave man

so are you going to ignore the biotch? because thats what u should do
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
I want to do this, but my moral conscience is telling me not to do it.
F-ck your morals.
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