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post 1480476981 01-24-2017, 01:27 PM
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Surprised at how ex-gfs can just forget u and move on like it was nothing

Over the last decade, I've noticed this chit.
Girls seem to have the ability to "erase their memories/emotions" about significant others and trash pics/letters/memorabilia like it was nothing compared to guys who actually will remember them, even bad relationships. There was a study done on this 6 months ago.

Not ranting just want to post a topic. Philosophizing here
post 1480477051 01-24-2017, 01:28 PM
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Bro, shut the fuk up.
post 1480477141 01-24-2017, 01:28 PM
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I like to keep pics of girls I fuked with. Any letters and pics or homemade porn. lol

I noticed girls will trash all that and even only keep the pics of themselves during vacations.
post 1480477341 01-24-2017, 01:29 PM
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Guys **** things up, girls are ****ed up.
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post 1480477481 01-24-2017, 01:30 PM
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bc literally the same day as the break up they got a line of dudes out the door ready to smash
post 1480477521 01-24-2017, 01:30 PM
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Not true. People remember anyone who was important to them in any way
post 1480477771 01-24-2017, 01:32 PM
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If it was a good relationship she hasnt moved on that easy trust me, if she moved on that easily then im 99.9% sure there was another guy lined up waiting to get her. My ex moved on easily, 2 weeks after we broke she was back with her ex before me and he moved in, she swore up and down that she wasnt talking to him.
post 1480478051 01-24-2017, 01:33 PM
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You would forget your exs pretty quick too if you were constantly approached by 8/10s
post 1480478321 01-24-2017, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
bc literally the same day as the break up they got a line of dudes out the door ready to smash
u mean before. lol reps anyways
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Not true. People remember anyone who was important to them in any way
well yes, but they seem to erase the feeling and most memories.

Someone said it was due to the biological survival tactics because throughout history, woman had to forget bad memories such as rape in caveman days
post 1480478351 01-24-2017, 01:35 PM
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who cares
move on

they're exes f*k what or who they do
post 1480478411 01-24-2017, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By sean67⏩
Guys **** things up, girls are ****ed up.
I remember Louis CK saying something like that referring to kids. Chit stays the same forever.
post 1480478731 01-24-2017, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
who cares
move on

they're exes f*k what or who they do
so u have no feelings whatsoever to ur ex's (if u had any decent relationship brah) SRS
post 1480478821 01-24-2017, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
so u have no feelings whatsoever to ur ex's (if u had any decent relationship brah) SRS
just to one, but unless you plan on getting back with them (I dont) then whats the point of worrying what theyre doing? it's not your problem anymore
post 1480479101 01-24-2017, 01:40 PM
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Become successful and engineer your social media to showcase your successful happy life. All of a sudden her emotions will come pouring back in and she'll inform you that she 'misses you...'
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post 1480479461 01-24-2017, 01:42 PM
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post 1480479751 01-24-2017, 01:44 PM
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Are you just a troll or did you break up with your "long distance" gf yet?
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post 1480479781 01-24-2017, 01:44 PM
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My first girlfriend left me for another man, thats pretty much just as bad as cheating.

The past two days I was a mess, and usually I'm pretty level headed.
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post 1480480781 01-24-2017, 01:49 PM
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OP, you need to get your head out of your ass.

They're moving on because you aren't important to them. You need to do the same,because you aren't important to them. Why would you waste time worrying about someone who is indifferent to you?

You're that dipchit guy who gets divorced and still thinks he and his ex-wife had "something special", but she's exhausted, wants nothing from you, sees you as having nothing to offer, and is just waiting for you to give her an excuse to get a restraining order so she can get rid of you for good.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1480480801 01-24-2017, 01:50 PM
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I know that it's all about that alpha mentality, but I can't help but have those beta moments when you wonder if they still think about you or have any sense of regret at the relationship ending. I've convinced myself that I'm never going to get married, and that making yourself vulnerable to ANYONE is just about the worst thing you can do.
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post 1480480821 01-24-2017, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
just to one, but unless you plan on getting back with them (I dont) then whats the point of worrying what theyre doing? it's not your problem anymore
It would be nice to hang out and fuk them. (All of mine ex's are fukin hot HB8+) so its hard to resist, might call some today
Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
Become successful and engineer your social media to showcase your successful happy life. All of a sudden her emotions will come pouring back in and she'll inform you that she 'misses you...'
REPS, lol and so true
Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Are you just a troll or did you break up with your "long distance" gf yet?
I broke up with her several times, last one for good last week. She will probably call me again
post 1480481151 01-24-2017, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
It would be nice to hang out and fuk them. (All of mine ex's are fukin hot HB8+) so its hard to resist, might call some today
couple of mine are but there's so many hot women in the world, why go back to the same one that caused you so much headache and heartache? find someone who will never hurt you
post 1480481161 01-24-2017, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By ANumber1⏩
OP, you need to get your head out of your ass.

They're moving on because you aren't important to them. You need to do the same,because you aren't important to them. Why would you waste time worrying about someone who is indifferent to you?

You're that dipchit guy who gets divorced and still thinks he and his ex-wife had "something special", but she's exhausted, wants nothing from you, sees you as having nothing to offer, and is just waiting for you to give her an excuse to get a restraining order so she can get rid of you for good.
so true,

and divorce thing reminds me of my neighbor old guy. BUt it supports the study done. GIrls forget, men suffer. ANd they say we are not emotional enough. lol
post 1480481401 01-24-2017, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
I broke up with her several times, last one for good last week. She will probably call me again
Stop being an imbecile. Move on with your life.

I normally don't say this seriously, but 30 fukin years old m8. Get your chit together. If you want to find a girlfriend, find one within driving distance.
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Originally Posted By b7acknwh1t3⏩
I know that it's all about that alpha mentality, but I can't help but have those beta moments when you wonder if they still think about you or have any sense of regret at the relationship ending. I've convinced myself that I'm never going to get married, and that making yourself vulnerable to ANYONE is just about the worst thing you can do.
yeah tell that to all the HS miscers

Wut u gonna do instead of marrying? I am thinking of having 2 wifes. lol. 2 muslims allowed.
Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
couple of mine are but there's so many hot women in the world, why go back to the same one that caused you so much headache and heartache? find someone who will never hurt you
who wouldn't eventually hurt u in some way>?
post 1480481511 01-24-2017, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
so true,

and divorce thing reminds me of my neighbor old guy. BUt it supports the study done. GIrls forget, men suffer. ANd they say we are not emotional enough. lol
You're not getting it.

You're failing to manage your emotions and clean up the baggage of your life. My exes became potential cum receptacles like every other sloot the minute we were done because those are the rules. When it's over, it's over. They move on like it's nothing, because once you end it, it literally is now nothing. You are entitled to zero. You are owed zero. That is adult life, it's not a Disney movie.

Very few matter enough to even save their letters and cards. Living in the past is not worth your well-being.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
who wouldn't eventually hurt u in some way>?
life's biggest questions
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they never had the feelings in the first place

they use people as a means to an end , you gota find dat unicorn


i love you , to them, is just 3 words , it doesn't mean jack sh!t
post 1480482021 01-24-2017, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
yeah tell that to all the HS miscers

Wut u gonna do instead of marrying? I am thinking of having 2 wifes. lol. 2 muslims allowed.



who wouldn't eventually hurt u in some way>?
Focus on career, make money, and fuk as many hbb's as possible. I figure I can keep that up until upper 30's, at which point I'll be looking to have kids so I'll get married for their sake
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Lol if you break up with then they wouldn't move on quick unless they had people lined up

One of my ex's was constantly talking to a "friend" and being sketch so I ended it. he rejected her a week or two later and went back to his ex. Month after NC she came trying to be back with me and that "she made a mistake" completely trying to dismiss her actions and harsh words we told one another lmao. I rejected her.

This is how it goes, they Always have someone to monkey branch to and if it fails they come crawling back
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Originally Posted By b7acknwh1t3⏩
Focus on career, make money, and fuk as many hbb's as possible. I figure I can keep that up until upper 30's, at which point I'll be looking to have kids so I'll get married for their sake
feel same way brah, but the more we wait the more likely we will have all girls as kids.
and we will be fukin old when are kids are 20

Originally Posted By ANumber1⏩
You're not getting it.

You're failing to manage your emotions and clean up the baggage of your life. My exes became potential cum receptacles like every other sloot the minute we were done because those are the rules. When it's over, it's over. They move on like it's nothing, because once you end it, it literally is now nothing. You are entitled to zero. You are owed zero. That is adult life, it's not a Disney movie.

Very few matter enough to even save their letters and cards.
so true, lol at disney
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