Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum ยป Is it really like this for females?
  1. Results 1 to 30 of 362
  2. Page 1 of 13
  3. 1
  4. 2
  5. 3
  7. Last

Thread: Is it really like this for females?

post 1481642921 02-01-2017, 08:00 AM
-
#1
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 29
  5. Posts: 10,028
  6. Rep Power: 23763

Is it really like this for females?

So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
B:300 S:405 D:485

2/5/17: The Crowning of King Brady.

"I have embraced my Autism. I am a proud Autist. I believe it endows me with special powers that are incomprehensible to pathetic normies like you. I would gladly sacrifice any chance at a normal life to benefit from the GIFT that is AUTISM."-Ausaric
post 1481643151 02-01-2017, 08:02 AM
-
#2
  1. MuzzieChik786
  2. Registered User
  1. MuzzieChik786
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2013
  4. Posts: 28,332
  5. Rep Power: 274026
Yes, it is.

There are some sick people in the world.

My uni campus has had several incidents where girls were attacked while walking to parking.

If you are not aware of your surroundings, as a female, you're opening yourself up to a dangerous situation.
Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.

2/17/15 - Dunk Tank Results: 15% bf (Omron said 18.6%) - 123.4 lbs LBM
post 1481643301 02-01-2017, 08:03 AM
-
#3
  1. badbl00d
  2. Registered User
  1. badbl00d
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2015
  4. Age: 44
  5. Posts: 42,044
  6. Rep Power: 363602
You sound like a robbery waiting to happen. I check my surroundings everywhere I go.
No man is your friend
No man is your enemy
Every man is your teacher

Black Crew
Lol @ Tradies Srs
AP4 crew
post 1481643361 02-01-2017, 08:03 AM
-
#4
  1. TheAmazon
  2. Registered User
  1. TheAmazon
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Location: Denton, Texas, United States
  5. Posts: 8,470
  6. Rep Power: 36812
I think it's generally good to be aware of your surroundings, but living in a constant state of fear of attack...not so much. Who i am and how i look physically might affect my outlook on this.
Check out my supplement log for Gaspari's Size On!
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=172059223
post 1481643411 02-01-2017, 08:04 AM
-
#5
  1. cadetduke
  2. Ex Sports Card Shop Owner
  1. cadetduke
  2. Ex Sports Card Shop Owner
  3. Join Date: Jun 2010
  4. Location: Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
  5. Posts: 13,309
  6. Rep Power: 54109
Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night,checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks shechecks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
Why wouldn't I?

And wearing headphones is not safe at all. You can't check your surroundings and not be listening to everything around you. If I have headphones on in public I only have them in one ear.
post 1481643601 02-01-2017, 08:05 AM
-
#6
  1. amenccm
  2. Subhuman Incel
  1. amenccm
  2. Subhuman Incel
  3. Join Date: Feb 2013
  4. Posts: 12,438
  5. Rep Power: 13703
It's exactly like that because living as a female in a first world country is like living as an undercover cop.
*Wish I was dead crew*
post 1481643721 02-01-2017, 08:06 AM
-
#7
  1. TheRougarou646
  2. Banned
  1. TheRougarou646
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Jan 2017
  4. Posts: 3,866
  5. Rep Power: 0
Yes.

Also you keep the headphones low so you can hear what's going on around you.

I carry this little guy around too

post 1481643791 02-01-2017, 08:06 AM
-
#8
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 29
  5. Posts: 10,028
  6. Rep Power: 23763
Lol I literally just walk, check my phone occasionally and get to my destination stress free.
B:300 S:405 D:485

2/5/17: The Crowning of King Brady.

"I have embraced my Autism. I am a proud Autist. I believe it endows me with special powers that are incomprehensible to pathetic normies like you. I would gladly sacrifice any chance at a normal life to benefit from the GIFT that is AUTISM."-Ausaric
post 1481643891 02-01-2017, 08:07 AM
-
#9
  1. natypes
  2. 16.75" of Clive wannabe
  1. natypes
  2. 16.75" of Clive wannabe
  3. Join Date: Feb 2007
  4. Posts: 17,674
  5. Rep Power: 301335
They're all fuking nuts. Paranoia is part of that.
You are the only problem you will ever have and YOU are the only solution.

Car Crew
Only misc 8-5 crew M-F
Android Crew
Indie Music Crew
Black girl magic crew
Home chef crew
Warzone 2 crew
FJB
post 1481643921 02-01-2017, 08:07 AM
-
#10
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  1. Rabbitjb
  2. LOL no
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Posts: 18,501
  5. Rep Power: 390948
Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
Yes
Also interlacing keys between fingers and making a fist in your pocket if walking alone in the dark
Also picking long way home because it's busier or more lit

But if as a guy you're not aware of your surroundings I'd be concerned too
post 1481644001 02-01-2017, 08:07 AM
-
#11
  1. nothingshocking
  1. nothingshocking
  3. Join Date: Jan 2017
  4. Location: Uranus, Gambia
  5. Posts: 36,362
  6. Subscribers: 5
  7. Rep Power: 949125
I recently went out on a date with a woman.

Her drinks apparently hit her harder than she expected.

So, she asked me if I had put something in her drink.

I was like wtf, no. Why is your first thought after having a stiff drink if I had spiked your drink?

she apologized, and said she didn't mean anything by it


Then I asked her what she would have expected me to respond if I had in fact put something in her drink, "yes, yes I did put something in your drink"
post 1481644061 02-01-2017, 08:08 AM
-
#12
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 29
  5. Posts: 10,028
  6. Rep Power: 23763
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Yes
Also interlacing keys between fingers ans makinf a fist in your pocket if walking alone in dark
Also picking long way home because it's busier or more lit

But if as a guy you're not aware of your surroundings I'd be concerned too
Yea they said that too about keeping keys in their fist or something like that. Is that to make it a weapon in case u get attacked?
B:300 S:405 D:485

2/5/17: The Crowning of King Brady.

"I have embraced my Autism. I am a proud Autist. I believe it endows me with special powers that are incomprehensible to pathetic normies like you. I would gladly sacrifice any chance at a normal life to benefit from the GIFT that is AUTISM."-Ausaric
post 1481644231 02-01-2017, 08:09 AM
-
#13
  1. BustaCapp
  2. Delivering Negs
  1. BustaCapp
  2. Delivering Negs
  3. Join Date: Dec 2002
  4. Location: Merseyside, The North, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 27,158
  6. Rep Power: 346296
Y'all a bunch 'o paranoid fux ITT.
fist yourself
post 1481644441 02-01-2017, 08:09 AM
-
#14
  1. heykiddo
  2. Knight who says NI
  1. heykiddo
  2. Knight who says NI
  3. Join Date: Feb 2011
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 1,430
  6. Rep Power: 49879
Female or not, OODA loop everywhere I go:

Observe
Orient
Decide
Act

Also don't park next to vans in parking lots, and lock doors while pumping gas.
(..and if you don't know what I'm talking about, it's probably a reference..)

PM for OF link
post 1481644521 02-01-2017, 08:10 AM
-
#15
  1. Sarevoke75
  2. Snap necks, cash checks
  1. Sarevoke75
  2. Snap necks, cash checks
  3. Join Date: Nov 2013
  4. Location: Massachusetts, United States
  5. Posts: 5,446
  6. Rep Power: 33504
Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
-checks surroundings and scans every 5 mins or so when at bars/crowds/public anything
-clears rooms in unfamiliar locations
-avoids common-sense no-go areas (dark alley/shady clubs/walk thru tunnels)
-plans exit strategies
-conceal carries everywhere

just habits I've developed from 8 years in the service, some one of seems over the top but can't help it. Would hope most people have common sense to avoid shady situations though
US Navy Corpsman '09-'19 "Motrin, water, take a knee"
US Army 35F '20- present

6'4" sooper race

IG: @classy_harvey

*New Hampshire Crew*
post 1481644571 02-01-2017, 08:10 AM
-
#16
  1. momo5
  2. Registered User
  1. momo5
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2007
  4. Age: 41
  5. Posts: 26,562
  6. Rep Power: 30284
Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
Yeah check out a book on observing your surroundings. Even as a guy you wouldn't want to walk into a dark alley or be aware of 3-4 guys tailing or approaching you. Yes we are physically stronger but your not going to beat 3-4 dudes with knifes and bats if they decide to mug you. I have escape plans mapped out for work in case of a event as well. Both my Grandfather and Dad was in military and taught me to always be observant and prepared.
I just want to share the knowledge I have obtained throughout my life and hopefully change someone's life.
post 1481644631 02-01-2017, 08:11 AM
-
#17
  1. StrongFella
  2. Pointy Nips Of Peace
  1. StrongFella
  2. Pointy Nips Of Peace
  3. Join Date: Mar 2016
  4. Location: Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
  5. Posts: 9,111
  6. Rep Power: 75685
Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
If you are not aware of your surroundings, as a female, you're opening yourself up to a dangerous situation.
Wouldn't this be true for any one in general, not just females?
NPC Bodybuilder, former U.S. Navy
***Muay Thai Crew***
***Wrestling Crew***
***Black Crew***
post 1481644751 02-01-2017, 08:12 AM
-
#18
  1. Ozzieturk
  2. Sponsored by Colgate
  1. Ozzieturk
  2. Sponsored by Colgate
  3. Join Date: Jan 2012
  4. Posts: 1,483
  5. Rep Power: 2861
Interesting. Are you females cautious everywhere you go or just in a few shady places? Is there a type of guy you are more cautious off or just about any guy?
post 1481644761 02-01-2017, 08:12 AM
-
#19
  1. Lightsoft
  2. ESTJ Sentinel
  1. Lightsoft
  2. ESTJ Sentinel
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 38
  5. Posts: 8,326
  6. Rep Power: 10114
Originally Posted By TheAmazon⏩
I think it's generally good to be aware of your surroundings, but living in a constant state of fear of attack...not so much. Who i am and how i look physically might affect my outlook on this.
you are fukin 6' +.. No one is going to want to do anything to you.
I keep pushing because I think I'm untouchable. But I'll learn the hard way because I'm only a popcorn fart away from a 30 day ban.
post 1481644871 02-01-2017, 08:12 AM
-
#20
  1. sammywatkins
  2. Registered User
  1. sammywatkins
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2014
  4. Age: 33
  5. Posts: 14,817
  6. Rep Power: 46647
Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yes, it is.

There are some sick people in the world.

My uni campus has had several incidents where girls were attacked while walking to parking.

If you are not aware of your surroundings, as a female, you're opening yourself up to a dangerous situation.
You are aware you far less likely to be attacked than a male is?
post 1481645021 02-01-2017, 08:13 AM
-
#21
  1. WillBrink
  2. INDUSTRY INSIDER
  1. WillBrink
  2. INDUSTRY INSIDER
  3. Join Date: Oct 2002
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 14,844
  6. Rep Power: 92463
Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff⏩
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like anddo we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer.Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
Then you're typical hapless idiots. Having good situational awareness is essential for PERSEC regardless of your plumbing.
BrinkZone, Where Bro-Science Got Rabies and Died!

www.BrinkZone.com

Check out my BrinkZone mini site on BB.com at:

www.bodybuilding.com/fun/willbrink.htm

=> President and Founder of Shaved head with goatee Crew
=> Science over bro science Crew
post 1481645141 02-01-2017, 08:14 AM
-
#22
  1. Azzurri
  2. Forza Italia
  1. Azzurri
  2. Forza Italia
  3. Join Date: May 2004
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 20,897
  6. Rep Power: 92204
Originally Posted By heykiddo⏩
Female or not, OODA loop everywhere I go:

Observe
Orient
Decide
Act

Also don't park next to vans in parking lots, and lock doors while pumping gas.
Inafter Heykiddo.

Seriously, a lot of dude are sick fucs. As much as misc love to call every girl a sloot and everything else, the real world is a bit different than what misc tells you.
Italian Crew
*Ohio State Crew*

Anything easy aint worth a damn. -Woody Hayes

Two things in life right now that I'm aiming for: Getting big and very lean, and the other is making lots of money so I can shove it in peoples faces that didn't give me the time.
Weight: 160-----------Goal: 170-175 @ 7-8% BF

Jays/Buckeyes/Packers/Raptors/Leafs
post 1481645171 02-01-2017, 08:15 AM
-
#23
  1. Sarevoke75
  2. Snap necks, cash checks
  1. Sarevoke75
  2. Snap necks, cash checks
  3. Join Date: Nov 2013
  4. Location: Massachusetts, United States
  5. Posts: 5,446
  6. Rep Power: 33504
Originally Posted By Lightsoft⏩
you are fukin 6' +.. No one is going to want to do anything to you.
people are dumb mang. I'm 6'4" and some bro's still wanna start fights (not often) at bars n chit
US Navy Corpsman '09-'19 "Motrin, water, take a knee"
US Army 35F '20- present

6'4" sooper race

IG: @classy_harvey

*New Hampshire Crew*
post 1481645511 02-01-2017, 08:17 AM
-
#24
  1. TheAmazon
  2. Registered User
  1. TheAmazon
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Location: Denton, Texas, United States
  5. Posts: 8,470
  6. Rep Power: 36812
Originally Posted By Sarevoke75⏩
people are dumb mang. I'm 6'4" and some bro's still wanna start fights (not often) at bars n chit
THIS i've had little women get drunk and start **** with me and try and buck up...it's hilarious.
Check out my supplement log for Gaspari's Size On!
http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=172059223
post 1481645541 02-01-2017, 08:18 AM
-
#25
  1. Tuksonrider
  2. Registered User
  1. Tuksonrider
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2013
  4. Location: Arizona, United States
  5. Age: 54
  6. Posts: 11,943
  7. Rep Power: 137229
I normally walk around in condition yellow, which should be good for either sex. Especially when at gas pumps, standing in lines, or walking to and form my car in a parking lot.

Once I'm at work, home, or friends in a relaxed atmosphere (restaurants, etc), I'm in condition white.

Most people are in condition white, especially with their nose buried in phones and such.
I'm not blessed with riches, but I am rich with blessings.
Thank you, LORD, my God.
IG: Tuksonrider
post 1481645791 02-01-2017, 08:19 AM
-
#26
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  1. Letthemcome
  2. Message Board King
  3. Join Date: Jan 2016
  4. Age: 37
  5. Posts: 4,061
  6. Rep Power: 2561
I purposely stare at women if I see them at night. Once when I was waiting out the front at a friend's house a teenage girl walked by so I inched my car behind her following her until she reached her house then went back to my friend's house and he still wasn't ready!
post 1481645901 02-01-2017, 08:20 AM
-
#27
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  1. AmIGoodNuff
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Age: 29
  5. Posts: 10,028
  6. Rep Power: 23763
The only time I ever felt like I should check my surroundings is when im at a crowded concert so I dont get pickpocketed or im at a party and idk the owner of the house. The last party I went to with friends and i didnt know the owner of the house ended in a shooting.( haha fun).
Besides that I felt somewhat fine walking in a parking lot at 2 am.
B:300 S:405 D:485

2/5/17: The Crowning of King Brady.

"I have embraced my Autism. I am a proud Autist. I believe it endows me with special powers that are incomprehensible to pathetic normies like you. I would gladly sacrifice any chance at a normal life to benefit from the GIFT that is AUTISM."-Ausaric
post 1481645951 02-01-2017, 08:21 AM
-
#28
  1. VeganBrahh
  2. Registered User
  1. VeganBrahh
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2014
  4. Location: Show Low, Arizona, United States
  5. Posts: 7,330
  6. Rep Power: 39331
I gotta agree with everyone else ITT, regardless of gender people are getting attacked, women more-so than men. Bunch of sick fuks in the world now and brahs best be exercising your second amendment, unless you live in some commie state.
Levi Garrett or you're a slack jawed ******* crew
Mafia Moto Crew
Carolina Panther Crew
AP7 Crew

Negs Von Cuck on sight
post 1481645991 02-01-2017, 08:21 AM
-
#29
  1. heykiddo
  2. Knight who says NI
  1. heykiddo
  2. Knight who says NI
  3. Join Date: Feb 2011
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 1,430
  6. Rep Power: 49879
Originally Posted By Letthemcome⏩
I purposely stare at women if I see them at night. Once when I was waiting out the front at a friend's house a teenage girl walked by so I inched my car behind her following her until she reached her house then went back to my friend's house and he still wasn't ready!
Are you about a size 14?
(..and if you don't know what I'm talking about, it's probably a reference..)

PM for OF link
post 1481646111 02-01-2017, 08:22 AM
-
#30
  1. Kev1972
  2. Registered User
  1. Kev1972
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2013
  4. Location: Big Arm, Montana, United States
  5. Posts: 49,924
  6. Rep Power: 287644
Large alpha male so no. I will walk into the sketchiest bar in town no fuks given. And I've been in some pretty sketchy bars in a lot of military towns.
Motorcycle crew
Army veteran crew
One Meal a day crew
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts