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post 1511999501 07-16-2017, 07:13 AM
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Giving up on women has been my GOAT decision

So since I was 18 I have been in and out of relationships and periods of repeated ONS's

I recently got out of a LTR and at the end all I could think about was being single again and living my own life without dates, nagging, someone wanting attention or for me to respond to their texts, spend money on stupid trips or dates, etc...


I have NEVER felt so at peace, without stress, and overall comfortable than I am now. I moved back in with my mom who owns a house and is lonely so its no skin off her back me staying there for free. I make 50k+ a year so ALL of my money except car payment/insurance is banked as savings and spending money, I have 0 desire to date or hookup with any girls so living with the parents doesnt matter one bit. Fast internet, food in the kitchen, someone to talk to if i need to, I get to spend ALL of my time doing what I want when I want, I.E. 3 hours in the gym whenever I want, play video games in the rest of my free time, hang out with friends when and how I want, post whatever I want on social media without having to worry, no saving money for rings or trips I dont want to go on or spending holidays away from my family/ visiting GF's family

It is seriously living the life now. Women just get in the way and create conflict. Someone very wise once told me that Women are creatures of conflict and it is true.
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post 1511999661 07-16-2017, 07:16 AM
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post 1511999671 07-16-2017, 07:16 AM
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post 1511999761 07-16-2017, 07:19 AM
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post 1512000271 07-16-2017, 07:28 AM
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post 1512000621 07-16-2017, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
So you attract and date needy, worthless women and then blame women in general for your unhappiness. Awesome bro!
I never said that at all. Every girl wants to go on some dates, wants some attention, and wants to do some stuff you don't

I now have to do 0 of that, 100% of my life is my choices, my actions, my money.

You tell me what girl is going to be happy dating a guy who works 50+ hours a week, lifts for 2 hours every day, eats on a strict diet, and plays video games for hours in his free time. Not any girls of quality or that arent going to bitch and complain about it. My life over the years has been the best when I get to go home and play games and do what I want and have a good amount of money in the bank, having some misguided need for female attention and sex is what strayed me.
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Thanks for leaving the pussy for us. Hey, I know some cawk you can suck if you like?
Man, I have had more than enough pussy for 100 men. It is nothing exciting for me and I have done it all and being a decently accomplished physique competitor I get more than enough attention from women without me doing a thing. Just because I want to spend 100% of my time, focus, and energy on myself in no way means I am attracted or will ever be attracted to men. I knew some dumb fuks were going to come in here and assume no women = likes men.
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post 1512000671 07-16-2017, 07:37 AM
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I gave up on women mainly because I suck at life. It has brought me clarity. i have basically decided how my life is gonna be and what I am gonna do before I die. I have a few lifting goals at the gym and I am gonna learn some math and physics stuff and try to get as far as I can with that and then i'm out of here. Gives me something to work towards.
post 1512000761 07-16-2017, 07:39 AM
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The less I care about girls the more they come to me
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But how OP? I would like to do the same, at least for another half a year. I find it hard a **** because eventually I get so lonely I seek out any chick to comfort the loneliness. I see the benefits, but I can't bring my mind to feel at ease with myself.

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post 1512000921 07-16-2017, 07:42 AM
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extremely jelly of the GOAT lifestyle you're living brah. srs.

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post 1512001101 07-16-2017, 07:45 AM
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this guy gets it, women are nothing more than 10 minutes of pleasure for a day full of pia

only desperate beta's need that
post 1512001221 07-16-2017, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
this guy gets it, women are nothing more than 10 minutes of pleasure for a day full of pia

only desperate beta's need that
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post 1512001271 07-16-2017, 07:47 AM
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So what do u do when girls flirt with u in the gym as u say u are fit?
post 1512001361 07-16-2017, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Power_Strike92⏩
But how OP? I would like to do the same, at least for another half a year. I find it hard a **** because eventually I get so lonely I seek out any chick to comfort the loneliness. I see the benefits, but I can't bring my mind to feel at ease with myself.
I have just been through enough relationships and ONS's where like I said It is nothing I havnt done or wouldnt just be repeating again. Like I also said I will be living with my mom so I will still be having human interaction from time to time. I also play MMORPG's which I have quite a few people I chat with on a daily basis on there, so even though its not in person we are still bull****ting and playing the games together for periods. I also have family like cousins and brothers my age to hang out with if I want and friends who will hang out at almost any time.

I dont know what happened but about a year ago my sex drive just kind of disappeared, I have very very high test levels and all my hormones are completely in check and my health is 100% in check so no idea what it was, but I am not complaining at all, its amazing having no desire for sex anymore.
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post 1512001411 07-16-2017, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
So what do u do when girls flirt with u in the gym as u say u are fit?
Just smile and be nice and act friendly. If they are extremely attractive it is flattering, but if they are like 8/10 or less, no brag at all, but it happens so much that it lost its flattering appeal long ago but I am not going to be a dick or awkward about it.
Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
this guy gets it, women are nothing more than 10 minutes of pleasure for a day full of pia

only desperate beta's need that
its so true, I cringe now when I think about someone wanting to "cuddle", im a grown ass man, I dont want someone to hold me or want to hold someone else. Or holdings hands, or having your feet touching when you're sleeping, or posting chit on each others social media about how important that person is to you. It all makes me cringe now and seems childish to me.
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post 1512001461 07-16-2017, 07:50 AM
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Originally Posted By 89mahou⏩
repped grandfather. thanks for the pearls of wisdom.
np grasshoppa
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The GOAT life is living with your parents at age 28? Not gonna shame a different path in life but bro, that is far from the GOAT life. GOAT life is living in a penthouse luxury apartment in a top city. Can be done for <1800/month rent in many cities. I agree chasing women is dumb, but you aint fooling anyone with your cope
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Congrats, you've sucessfully reverted to being a child except you can afford your own toys

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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
The GOAT life is living with your parents at age 28? Not gonna shame a different path in life but bro, that is far from the GOAT life. GOAT life is living in apenthouse luxury apartment in a top city. Can be done for <1800/month rent in many cities. I agree chasing women is dumb, but you aint fooling anyone with your cope
lol, maybe in fkn detroit
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Originally Posted By NotANun21⏩
Congrats, you've sucessfully reverted to being a child except you can afford your own toys

Your Mom must be so proud
She is, I have a career I have been in for 6 years, a college degree, and have a passion I am pretty good at outside of work as well. She lives alone in a nice house and loves having the company.
Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
The GOAT life is living with your parents at age 28? Not gonna shame a different path in life but bro, that is far from the GOAT life. GOAT life is living in a penthouse luxury apartment in a top city. Can be done for <1800/month rent in many cities. I agree chasing women is dumb, but you aint fooling anyone with your cope
If I made over 100k+ a year and could live that life and still have a lot of money left over to travel or go out to eat when I want and spend money on clothes or whatever else when I want, sure that would be better. But I am not coping at all, I made this choice happily. Like I said she lives alone in a nice house and its someone I can still talk to and have interaction with. And I don't make 100k+ a year so now I actually can save enough money and still have tons left over to do all the fun stuff I want on my time. I also live in an expensive area where 1800 a month gets you a ****ty 1 bedroom 700 sq foot apartment on the first floor that was built in 1990 and has carpet and fake wood cabinets.

Did I say I am living the GOAT Life? no , I said I made the GOAT decision in my life, that decision wasnt to move in with my mom, it was to stop worrying about females. And beyond having a nice view, why would i go spend money on a flashy apartment or condo or house when I have no one to impress? I am the kind of person who is totally fine with a good internet connection, a decent kitchen, and a bed to sleep on. The only thing I do at home is play games, cook, eat, and sleep. I dont need anything else its just wasting money. I would rather use that money every month to go travel for the weekend or buy some fun ****, or go eat fancy dinners for myself/with friends, or go see movies whenever I want.
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lol ur a retard women are GOAT
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You're 28?

Your parents must be mortified
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Yeah ok. Give it a few months and you'll be chasing tail again. We always try and find the best in the situation we're in, as you're doing now. Nothing groundbreaking. You'll miss pussy soon enough.
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It's your life bro, but like others might have said, it's not women in general that are the problem, it's the demanding nature of your previous relationships that were the problem.

Find a girl who's chill and laid back and doesn't need you to hold her hand all the time and be texted every minute.

There are some genuinely laid back chicks out there bro.
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
The GOAT life is living with your parents at age 28? Not gonna shame a different path in life but bro, that is far from the GOAT life. GOAT life is living in a penthouse luxury apartment in a top city. Can be done for <1800/month rent in many cities. I agree chasing women is dumb, but you aint fooling anyone with your cope
Lol what, New Jersey is pretty expensive to live on your own bro. I'm 22 and live with my parents and I also think it's pretty GOAT. Most people in their 20s do it's nothing to be ashamed of.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You're 28?

Your parents must be mortified
typical female response, like its the most deplorable and disgusting thing to live with your parents. I will say it for a third time, I have a succesfull career and have been in it for 6 years, I have a very good retirment fund where I will be able to retire in my early 40s, I am a succesfull bodybuilding moving up and probably going to go pro next year. My mom was ecstatic when I told her because she has a nice house and is lonely and my Dad/stepmom are in the same situation and would have been very happy.

It is one thing if you can't live on your own and act like a child, live like a slob, dont work, don't take care of yourself etc.... but for me its just a financial and life decision that my parents completely agree with.
And I have 0 plans on dating in the next couple of years because I have a lot to accomplish on my own so I have 0 interest in what any female thinks about me living with my parents.


and @ Chezon, I have done the relationship and dating thing for years and years, it is not new to me, I know myself and what happens and I decided I am much happier doing my own thing, working out all the time, having my own money, and playing video games if my last relationship didnt work out.
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