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post 1518686351 09-07-2017, 07:51 AM
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Girl in my class I've never spoken to asked me for notes. Didn't give them to her

Want to get misc opinion on this one. I always attend class and take photos of lecture with my ipad. After class ends yesterday, this random girl comes up to me out of nowhere and asks me If I could send her photos of the lecture. Keep in mind I have never spoken to this girl. My response was "are you unable to take photos yourself?". She said she wasn't here last Wednesday. I didn't say no or yes and I left after our lab without catching up with her. I have a long history of getting used by others (something I only recently stopped allowing) and I have no idea why someone I don't know or know nothing about is asking me to do something for her. I felt like I was in the right. Thoughts?
post 1518686491 09-07-2017, 07:53 AM
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I would have sent them. Could have been a good way to network
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post 1518686871 09-07-2017, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By OSUBBall23⏩
It could have, but OP said himself that he has a long history of being used. Maybe this was the first step to break that habit?
i've actually already put my foot down a few times recently. and the networking the other poster mentioned would most likely be one sided (benefiting her only)
post 1518686941 09-07-2017, 07:58 AM
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she clearly wanted the D

missed opportunity op
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post 1518687011 09-07-2017, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By HolyCowBatman⏩
she clearly wanted the D

missed opportunity op
no she clearly wanted the N(otes)
post 1518687061 09-07-2017, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By HolyCowBatman⏩
she clearly wanted the D

missed opportunity op
This.. she was basically begging for it
post 1518687161 09-07-2017, 08:01 AM
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There's a difference between being used and being a good human being. It takes what, 5 seconds to send a pic?

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post 1518687221 09-07-2017, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
I have no idea why someone I don't know or know nothing about is asking me to do something for her
Yes, you do. That's why you didn't give them to her. She said she was out last week but you have no idea if she actually was. If she was, then man, that sucks and yeah maybe help her out with the notes from that one day. However, she's clearly using you because you provide something of high value.
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Should have got her number and send dick pics instead of notes
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You made the right decision. I could see if you had at least some casual contact, but out of the blue like this? I'm sweet.
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post 1518687541 09-07-2017, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
no she clearly wanted the N(otes)
Even if she didn't want the D you could have used this as an opportunity to give it to her.
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post 1518687591 09-07-2017, 08:05 AM
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You sound autistic
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
You made the right decision. I could see if you had at least some casual contact, but out of the blue like this? I'm sweet.
This. It's not networking if she offers nothing in return. Either use it as an in to try to get it in or tell her to phuck off.
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GJ OP.

Regardless of gender I fukin hated that **** during University and in group work. Oh my lawd I almost saboutaged my work just to spite but had a calmer head after thinking it through.

Can't say the same for the pissening WKs who'd give her the notes regardless because she has a vag and would not do the same for dudes. Some are ITT already.
post 1518687861 09-07-2017, 08:09 AM
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You did good OP.

I've seen women do this a lot. Goof off and skip class then pick what they considering an "easy target" to ask for their notes. If she was a friend, its different.
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Originally Posted By OSUBBall23⏩
Yeah but its the principle of he did the work and she is trying to mooch
This would be applicable if brah took notes with pen and paper. He took a picture of a whiteboard. Chit isn't that srs. I understand not wanting to be used, but this chit was just a quick favor she was asking for.
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Originally Posted By Vampirelol⏩
There's a difference between being used and being a good human being. It takes what, 5 seconds to send a pic?

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This. She asked you for something related to class that isn't using you. She asked for a simple ****ing picture. If she asked you for money then that's using you OP. You are in the wrong.

I would've sent them to her, could've smashed her in future maybe or maybe not, at least used her to network.

I swear this is FA at its finest.

Edit: When I was in uni girls would always ask me for notes, I'd ask girls for notes that I never talked to before. Guess how many I banged/got with later on. Most of them. Who cares if she never said "hi" she asked for ****ing notes, not like she wanted you to buy her food and give her gas money lmao.
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You dun goofed. Now she's gonna have to study instead of partying this weekend. Hope you feel bad OP.
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Originally Posted By DatFeelGuy⏩
This. It's not networking if she offers nothing in return. Either use it as an in to try to get it in or tell her to phuck off.
You are retarded, and have no idea what networking is... so to build a relationship with someone they have to offer you something in return immediately?

lmao, typical no avi miscer
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
I have a long history of getting used by others (something I only recently stopped allowing)... I felt like I was in the right.
I've narrowed your quote down to the pertinent data.

You feel that way because you've been used, so you are predisposed to thinking that is their intent.
That's why I would say a more measured, less anti-social, response would have been to help her, but say no if she tries it a second time. She may have honestly needed a favor from a compassionate human being and you may have just been another stumbling block in her already sh*tty day.
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girls do that alot in class. one girl i knew went so far to get my number and would only call me when she 'accidentally didnt get the right notes for home work and needed help with it'..when in reality she was really at disneyland and wanted me to give her the answers.
i said no, and let her fail

repp'd op dont let them use you
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Originally Posted By GiveMeTheD⏩
You are retarded, and have no idea what networking is... so to build a relationship with someone they have to offer you something in return immediately?

lmao, typical no avi miscer
As a network administrator I can confirm that sending notes to lazy uni ho is not networking.

Unless you send it in different packets of 8 letters at a time, with a parity bit written on the outside of the envelope.
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Just send her misc memes instead.
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did this too
noticed the girl kept starting at me in class all the time afterwards
girl want what they cant have so its good to act aloof when these bitches think their chit doesnt stink
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Originally Posted By GiveMeTheD⏩
You are retarded, and have no idea what networking is... so to build a relationship with someone they have to offer you something in return immediately?

lmao, typical no avi miscer
No to build a network/relationship you have to talk to someone first. I guarantee if OP gave the girl the notes, he can now strike up a convo with her or she might strike one up with him, now the chance of that happening is like 5%.

In life you are always giving/getting something. Again OP wasn't giving her money or something that deems to be used, she asked for a PICTURE of notes he took. A ****ing picture, not like he wrote them down.

Again as I stated, I've gotten with many girls that asked me for a picture/copy of notes or vice versa. Just lmao that you think giving notes is something major.
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Originally Posted By PTzFree⏩
I've narrowed your quote down to the pertinent data.

You feel that way because you've been used, so you are predisposed to thinking that is their intent.
That's why I would say a more measured, less anti-social, response would have been to help her, but say no if she tries it a second time. She may have honestly needed a favor from a compassionate human being and you may have just been another stumbling block in her already sh*tty day.
This, but I can't blame you OP for taking your path as well.
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u goofd, to really find out, you should have called her on it that you never seen her before. in the end not a big deal though.
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
I always attend class and take photos of lecture with my ipad.
What? How does this even work? How can you even make out the details from an ipad photo... Has to be the laziest form of note taking I have ever heard of. Then your classmates are so lazy they want copies of said chitty notes. Your generation is fukking lazy.
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You are now an utter schmuck not just to her but to everyone she knows or will talk to. Any one of which could have been a future employer or associate. Smart thinking
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