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I'm so sick of living on this planet
For ****s sake, all I want to do is have a decent body and be confident in myself but it feels like I'm failing at every turn. I was at the gym earlier today and a group of young guys saw me struggling a little and one of them said "come on fatso" in a condescending tone and they all proceeded to have a laugh about it, which really grinds my gears as I've lost over 70lbs so far, to be honest it made me just want to binge eat when I got home and I did.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
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You need to stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
And stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
And stop giving a fuk about what other people think
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Originally Posted By ugottabjoshinme⏩
Those words used to bring me hope and comfortWe're all gonna make it brah
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"
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That's funny OP, because for ****s sake, all I want to do is have a decent body and be confident in myself but it feels like I'm failing at every turn. I was at the gym earlier today and a group of young guys saw me struggling a little and one of them said "come on fatso" in a condescending tone and they all proceeded to have a laugh about it, which really grinds my gears as I've lost over 70lbs so far, to be honest it made me just want to binge eat when I got home and I did.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Gym culture in the UK is really like this? I swear if dudes pulled some **** like that in the states, they would probably be called out for it... Either way, good on you for losing 70 pounds. If you were as out-of-shape as you're trying to make it seem, it's very possible that you can lose all of that weight without seeing much of a difference looks-wise. Keep going. You're almost there, and once you see the physical results, it'll be all the motivation you need to keep going.For ****s sake, all I want to do is have a decent body and be confident in myself but it feels like I'm failing at every turn. I was at the gym earlier today and a group of young guys saw me struggling a little and one of them said "come on fatso" in a condescending tone and they all proceeded to have a laugh about it, which really grinds my gears as I've lost over 70lbs so far, to be honest it made me just want to binge eat when I got home and I did.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
Females haven't given me any sort of attention since I was a young teen 13 or 14 and weighed 140lbs. I really miss those times of having unquestionable confidence in myself..these days I feel like a joke wherever I go, my body and arms especially are covered in stretch marks from gaining so much weight as a teenager and I feel like a woman won't even look my way never mind give me a chance. The only looks I get from females are those of disgust and rejection and I'm sick of it. I consider sudoku on an almost weekly basis and I'm not sure if there's any point in continuing. I also consider myself a 4/10 in looks at best which doesn't help.
Why does the game of life have to be so rigged in favor of good looking males?
Mother****ing **** despite all of my efforts it feels like I will never be happy in life.
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05-25-2018, 12:01 PM
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The correct response is to go supreme and then say "Come on buddy get up! lolol."
I used to be about your weight, and currently bounce around 190ish. I had a few people talk chit to me in the gym once for form, and I legit just bertstared them. Just stare at them like you are going to kill them. If they try to act tough, and be like "WHAT? WTF U GONNA DO?" Just don't fuking move and keep staring angrily. If they touch you at all, file a battery charge. If they have any sense, they won't do chit to you in the gym or they will get banned and possibly arrested, and it will all be on video. Also, if you really feel petty about it, you can report them to the gym. If it's a commercial gym, they will ban them if there were witnesses. 90% of the time if you just stare angrily, they will back down and leave you alone.
They make fun of you because they know you won't retaliate in any way. They see you as a harmless person they can vent their frustrations on. Show them you are not harmless.
I used to be about your weight, and currently bounce around 190ish. I had a few people talk chit to me in the gym once for form, and I legit just bertstared them. Just stare at them like you are going to kill them. If they try to act tough, and be like "WHAT? WTF U GONNA DO?" Just don't fuking move and keep staring angrily. If they touch you at all, file a battery charge. If they have any sense, they won't do chit to you in the gym or they will get banned and possibly arrested, and it will all be on video. Also, if you really feel petty about it, you can report them to the gym. If it's a commercial gym, they will ban them if there were witnesses. 90% of the time if you just stare angrily, they will back down and leave you alone.
They make fun of you because they know you won't retaliate in any way. They see you as a harmless person they can vent their frustrations on. Show them you are not harmless.
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Originally Posted By Kylevolution⏩
Pretty much this man. Everyone has issues whether it be weight, mental, physical or other handicaps. Life isn't easy just adapt and overcome. Focus on the smaller things you can hurdle over and before know you it you've already scaled the entire wall of issues that was holding you back. It's a marathon not a sprint so try and keep that in mind.You need to stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
And stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
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I’m tall,good looking,have a solid physique and very successful in my career so can’t relate with you at all.
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Originally Posted By Kylevolution⏩
I know this but actually going out into the world and applying it is much harder than it is to simply say it. I've tried my hardest to not give a **** and even had some success in doing so but there's times when my guard is dropped, like today, other people's opinions will always have at least minimal effect on people's opinions of themselves.You need to stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
And stop giving a fuk about what other people think
Turn your insecurities into fuel and motivation to change what you don't like
And stop giving a fuk about what other people think
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Should've confronted them bro. Can't let people walk all over you like that. Even if you end up sleeping in a jail with a broken nose, that's better than being a beta cuck, and it would increased your self esteem
If you can and want to do your diet on easy then remove all food from your home except for the essentials. kinda hard to binge on tuna and boiled eggs.
You can not just not give a **** if people are making fun of you left and right. you have to change that chit
If you can and want to do your diet on easy then remove all food from your home except for the essentials. kinda hard to binge on tuna and boiled eggs.
You can not just not give a **** if people are making fun of you left and right. you have to change that chit
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Originally Posted By Bigdumogre⏩
This made me lolI’m tall,good looking,have a solid physique and very successful in my career so can’t relate with you at all.
srs tho just keep working out and eating right till you look the way you want. Attention from women should be like, priority #4.
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As someone who has gained a chitton of weight before and lost it (albeit in my 20's not in high school) the only advise I have is to fist yourself and keep going.
The difference between 230lbs and sub 200 is night and day. How tall are you anyway? Once you get to 200, you will probably want to go even lower. The difference between 18-20%BF and 12%BF is absolutely INSANE.
Don't stop you fukin idiot, you came this far now you want to give up just cause some absolute ******* called you names? Don't be a fukin idiot. You keep going, do it *******.
The difference between 230lbs and sub 200 is night and day. How tall are you anyway? Once you get to 200, you will probably want to go even lower. The difference between 18-20%BF and 12%BF is absolutely INSANE.
Don't stop you fukin idiot, you came this far now you want to give up just cause some absolute ******* called you names? Don't be a fukin idiot. You keep going, do it *******.
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05-25-2018, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
It has dick to do with what you look like and everything to do with aggression bro. If you convey that you are a scared little boy, they will eat you alive. You have to look them in the eye and be angry and ready to do something about it.I know this but actually going out into the world and applying it is much harder than it is to simply say it. I've tried my hardest to not give a **** and even had some success in doing so but there's times when my guard is dropped, like today, other people's opinions will always have at least minimal effect on people's opinions of themselves.
Take a look at this incel. Does he look super jacked? But if you look in his eyes, you know he is ready to fuking kill your ass.
That's the mental level you need to be at...
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Originally Posted By BMACbrah⏩
It's not a common occurrence but a lot of people especially low class people have an attitude like this. I'm not sure if I ever will see a massive difference in my body or face but having the goal of getting into better shape however futile it may be and down to 200lbs and then 180lbs gives me something to continue living for and strive for. I'm not sure how I'll cope if I reach my goal and I don't feel better.Gym culture in the UK is really like this? I swear if dudes pulled some **** like that in the states, they would probably be called out for it... Either way, good on you for losing 70 pounds. If you were as out-of-shape as you're trying to make it seem, it's very possible that you can lose all of that weight without seeing much of a difference looks-wise. Keep going. You're almost there, and once you see the physical results, it'll be all the motivation you need to keep going.
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Originally Posted By BMACbrah⏩
It's not gym culture, it's UK culture in general.Gym culture in the UK is really like this? I swear if dudes pulled some **** like that in the states, they would probably be called out for it... Either way, good on you for losing 70 pounds. If you were as out-of-shape as you're trying to make it seem, it's very possible that you can lose all of that weight without seeing much of a difference looks-wise. Keep going. You're almost there, and once you see the physical results, it'll be all the motivation you need to keep going.
"Just takin' the piss mate, don't get yer knickers in a twist"
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Most of the country cares more about belly-ups and pissups rather than attaining personal achievement. In this country OP wouldn't have any of that either. In fact they'd probably come up to you and push you to squeeze out an extra rep and give you a hand clasp.
Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Eh no wincel, sorry dude. You get itworseif you react in an aggressive way there. Pricks love getting a rise out of people and I learnt in school to just ignore it and then they'll get bored. But you really gotta have zero phase, any sign of a reaction and they'll want to intensify that.They make fun of you because they know you won't retaliate in any way. They see you as a harmless person they can vent their frustrations on. Show them you are not harmless.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Do you think they would treat you any better if you were 180? Do you think they would respect you more if you were good looking? Good looking, kind people get bullied too bro. You have to be mentally hard. This isn't about your looks. Being physically huge and strong might help your confidence in a physical confrontation, but a lot of people bully and harass big guys simply to prove something about themselves. Any jacked bro on here can tell you about all the chit they take from people for being big. It's like 95% a mental thing srs. You aren't going to be physically fighting that many people, and especially not at a gym. So it's all a game.It's not a common occurrence but a lot of people especially low class people have an attitude like this. I'm not sure if I ever will see a massive difference in my body or face but having the goal of getting into better shape however futile it may be and down to 200lbs and then 180lbs gives me something to continue living for and strive for. I'm not sure how I'll cope if I reach my goal and I don't feel better.
You need to be mentally tougher. They can smell it on you. Also, btw here in the states, something like this doesn't usually happen. People snicker about fat people and gossip, but nobody says chit to them directly because you can get banned from the gym for that. Also, you never know who will go psycho and shoot up the place. I guess that's the great thing about the US vs UK lol.
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don't worry for your body to get girls... do it for your health and yourself...
girls are with plenty of different type of guys, and a lot of them look like soyboys.
If you want a girl, maybe your standards are too high right now because your confidence is low.. go get with a girl that you would consider lower than your "standards", someone just like you with little to no confidence.
girls are with plenty of different type of guys, and a lot of them look like soyboys.
If you want a girl, maybe your standards are too high right now because your confidence is low.. go get with a girl that you would consider lower than your "standards", someone just like you with little to no confidence.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Mental Attitude = Everything?It has dick to do with what you look like and everything to do with aggression bro. If you convey that you are a scared little boy, they will eat you alive. You have to look them in the eye and be angry and ready to do something about it.
Take a look at this incel. Does he look super jacked? But if you look in his eyes, you know he is ready to fuking kill your ass.
That's the mental level you need to be at...
Take a look at this incel. Does he look super jacked? But if you look in his eyes, you know he is ready to fuking kill your ass.
That's the mental level you need to be at...
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I've met many ugly people who were winning at life, some of them probably even uglier than you OP
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
It counts for a fukton yes.Mental Attitude = Everything?
That's part of why there's people uglier than you with beautiful partners or living fulfilling lives.
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I can throw a keg of beer over a mountain and would punch a polar bear in the face so I don’t understand your bitch ass mindset.
Grab your sack and start acting like a man already.
Grab your sack and start acting like a man already.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
It's not zero phase. Then they keep doing it. Trust me. I've been bullied a lot. The only thing that ever worked was making it absolutely clear I wouldn't take it anymore from anyone. People don't expect you to get mad or to stand up for yourself. Anger and retaliation are absolutely the key. It doesn't have to be physical. Even merely confronting them about it, and asking them wtf their problem is can be a very powerful thing.It's not gym culture, it's UK culture in general.
"Just takin' the piss mate, don't get yer knickers in a twist"
"Mate we're jus havin' a life innit"
Most of the country cares more about belly-ups and pissups rather than attaining personal achievement. In this country OP wouldn't have any of that either. In fact they'd probably come up to you and push you to squeeze out an extra rep and give you a hand clasp.
Eh no wincel, sorry dude. You get itworseif you react in an aggressive way there. Pricks love getting a rise out of people and I learnt in school to just ignore it and then they'll get bored. But you really gotta have zero phase, any sign of a reaction and they'll want to intensify that.
"Just takin' the piss mate, don't get yer knickers in a twist"
"Mate we're jus havin' a life innit"
Most of the country cares more about belly-ups and pissups rather than attaining personal achievement. In this country OP wouldn't have any of that either. In fact they'd probably come up to you and push you to squeeze out an extra rep and give you a hand clasp.
Eh no wincel, sorry dude. You get itworseif you react in an aggressive way there. Pricks love getting a rise out of people and I learnt in school to just ignore it and then they'll get bored. But you really gotta have zero phase, any sign of a reaction and they'll want to intensify that.
I am not a huge fan of Tom Cruise...I think the guy is a total psycho and a cult lord, but look at how he reacts to this dude squirting him with water.
Perfect example of what I'm talking about. Absolutely ethered that guy.
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